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yorex2011:
*yawns * everybody knws these things, yet relationships still dey end... Next thread abeg

The goal is for people to change.

scribble:
Dude if your babe is always in the club....it's two things

a. You either open a club complete with strip pole in the bedroom

b. Or you go to luxury nights at quilox

Hint: option a is cheaper

Be better

A good girl is born but a great woman is created.



Here are 6 steps on how to bring out the best in your woman.

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions
Step 1: Don't Take Her For Granted
How can you presume to know what her every move or thoughts will be when she's not even sure of herself? When you wake up in the morning, rather than thinking about pleasing other people, stress, or goals, she should be the first person you think about making happy. Value your relationship, keep your word, help her with chores and take the initiative without having her to ask. Know that she's a good woman and she chose you out of all the rest.

Step 2: Listen To Her
You might not agree with what she's saying, but at least give her the floor to speak. Unless she's acting crazy, don't walk out of the room or turn up the volume and ignore her. Respond to her. Show her that you're listening and care.

Step 3: Show Gratitude
Tell her thank you, please, and I love you more often. Hug and kiss her passionately just because. Remember her birthday, special occasions and give her sentimental gifts. Wow her by remembering her favorite food, colour, place or whatever is close to her heart. Remind her of the times when she was there for you and why you appreciate her so much today and tomorrow. Always fit her in and make time for her anyway you can. If you remember how you won her, you'll never forget how to keep her smiling.

Step 4: Be Open To Change
If you know the areas you need to work on, then be provocative about your progress. Show her by your words and actions that she doesn't have to worry about you. Don't wait for things to go sour before you do things right.

Step 5: Make it Your Goal To Make Her Happy
Her heart should always overflow with joy. Even when you get into a fight, it should still feel strongly. Forgive each other and admit your mistakes. Keep communication strong both verbally and physically. Set in stone it's your honour and duty to make her happy - and you will.

Step 6: Build Her Up w/o Tearing Her Down
Just because you're telling her the truth about her flaws, doesn't mean that you're saying it in the right way. Her back should always stand up that much straighter with confidence beside you. As long as your love brings balance and strength to her weaknesses, she will continue growing strong.

Laid by James

I was thinking maybe many people will comment on it.

3. Drama & nagging

A man wants to come home to peace & happiness not to his woman always asking him "We've you been!?" or always telling him what he's not doing right. No matter what he does it's always something you have to say. Then you wonder why he's never home or you never have a successful relationship. Not all men cheat boo! Stop bringing your past relationship experiences & insecurities with you into the next. A lot of times you the woman are your worst enemy. You're so used to the wrong guy that when you finally get the right guy you run him off! Now lets talk about nagging. It makes you feel unheard & or irrelevant especially if your what you tell him goes ignored. If nagging isn't making your man listen which it WON'T then try a different approach! Instead of making him the enemy try see his side & help him see yours. Is he overworked at work? Is he stressed out? Communicate with each other! Nagging can cause both of you to question the relationship. Instead of being happy & looking forward to each other you'll see the other as a bother who just doesn't understand you. That's very toxic!

4. Wearing too much makeup

Ladies, less is always more! Packing your face with makeup shows that you're either not comfortable in your own skin, have esteem issues, trying to really hide something. Make up was made to ENHANCE your beauty; not CREATE your beauty. If your face is a different pigment than the rest of your body then you're over doing it boo. A REAL man wants to wake up to the same woman he goes to sleep with; flaws & all.

1. Trying to change him

Ladies, coming for a woman I know this first hand. We sometimes tend to make this mistake all the time. You'll get with him knowing how he is yet stress yourself out trying to change him to be what you want him to be. You can't change a man, he has to want to change himself! If he's not what you want him to be then move on & find what you truly want! I've said this before "Just because he looks good to you does not mean that he's good for you!" Don't stress yourself & him trying to change him when you knew what type of a man he was to begin with! YOUNG ladies want a thug, a guy with "swag" like on TV & rap videos but you don't want what truly comes with it! The other women, the lies, the no steady job, street hustling. You want your cake & eat it to. Boo it don't work that way! When you try to change a man all you doing is making it worse & making him most likely try to be more sneaky with what he does to begin with. Save your trouble, tears, and headaches and learn to pick your men better!

2. Always going to the club

Ladies, I don't know not one real man who wants a woman who's always up in the clubs getting "turnt up!" Here's a sign that you club too much; if the DJ & security know your name then girl you CLUB TOO DANG MUCH! I suggest instead of hitting the clubs on the weekend ask your boss for some overtime or try getting a part time job to work on weekends! If you have kids spend some quality time on the weekends with them. Nothing wrong with going out every once in a while but when you're going out almost every weekend that in my opinion to a real man shows immaturity & also that you probably drink a lot.

When a date goes awry, it’s easy to get caught up in disappointment and question what could have made it successful. Sometimes it’s just not in the stars for you and your date, but other times you may be unintentionally sabotaging any future chances.

Here are the top 10 mistakes that could keep you from getting a second date:

1) Interrogating the other person. It’s a date, not an interview. While it’s important to ask questions and appear interested, it’s also important not to go overboard. Make sure to talk about yourself after you have asked a few questions in a row.

2) Over-emphasizing serious topics. It’s good to get a little deeper and discuss relationship issues, just make sure to keep it light and have some fun — especially in the beginning.

3) Picking a loud or uncomfortable date spot. Be careful where you pick to meet up. It’s okay to hit up a fun, hip bar or restaurant, but consider meeting for a drink somewhere quiet at first. When you meet for the first time, it is so important to be able to simply hear each other to avoid miscommunication. There’s nothing worse than playing the “What?” game on a first date.

4) Being rude. Always try to be polite – offer to hold doors and pull out chairs. Be respectful to the waiting staff. You never get a second chance at a first impression.

5) Don’t look at the TV during your date. Yes, this actually happens, plenty of bars and restaurants have giant, juicy flatscreens on, but don’t let your eyes wander — it shows disinterest even if you really are interested!

6) Being silent. Having topics or questions prepared can ease any awkward tension or fill any conversational lulls, keeping you from being a boring date.

7) Sharing your opinions as facts — and not opinions. If your date asks about your favorite type of music, instead of responding with “Rock is the best, everything else is bad,” respond with “Personally I enjoy rock but would love to hear your thoughts.” Be engaging!

Negative body language. Make eye contact, and don’t check out people of the opposite sex (this is a no-brainer). You’re here to get to know your date, and eyeing other people will make him or her question your interest.

9) Getting drunk! It’s cool to go out for a drink, not twelve. Your focus should be on getting to know your date, and that’s hard to do when you’ve had too much to drink.

10) Inviting friends. Don’t invite friends, or suggest a meeting with your friends for the first encounter. It’s all about judging chemistry and connection, and your date shouldn’t have to compete for your attention during your first meeting.

Hope the guys and ladies can consider the facts above.

A Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan on Friday dissolved a 17-year-old marriage between Rukayat and Rasaq Muniru, over disagreement on sexual intercourse.
The judge, Mr. Ademola Odunade, in his judgment, held that the court dissolved the marriage because it considered the wellbeing of everyone important.
“The court had fulfilled the mandatory adjournments, but Muniru still refused to show up which meant admission of guilt. He ordered Muniru to pay a monthly feeding allowance of N6,000 as well as take responsibility
for the education of the children.
Rukayat had told the court that Muniru was so shameless that he did not mind having sexual intercourse with her in the presence of their grown
up children.
“Muniru rented a single face-to-face apartment room for me at Olunloyo Area of Ibadan with four grown up children, boys and girls, because he has married another wife.
“He sees nothing wrong in having sexual intercourse with me in their very presence as matured as they are, 15, 13 years of ages.
“Whenever the children saw us making love, I used to remind him of the negative implications it might have on them, especially the need for another room for them.
“Anytime I refused him sex, he beats the hell out of me, injures me and tears my clothes. On a number of occasions, I reported him to his parents but there was no change.
“Muniru does not cater for the children and does not even want to know whether they are educated or not,” Rukayat said.

Yemlizzy: A bit confusing i must say. How does being a sprinter make you any better in a relationship?

It sounds so unreasonable and unreal to me anyway.

The reasons above explain it well no confusion
Don't you think so? Go over them again

skydeep: Misleading topic

Chimezie198: hw i wan date girl dat runs? u think say i get strength to pursue person

CoolHunk: Where you home-schooled by an illiterate nanny, OP? Just asking.

CoolHunk: Where you home-schooled by an illiterate nanny, OP? Just asking.

CoolHunk: Where you home-schooled by an illiterate nanny, OP? Just asking.

Still waiting for a better title
for the topic

dre11: Abeg change the title of ur thread....... because its misleadingg

What will be a better name for the topic?

IfyAngela: This is so not true

it's very true, maybe you should try becoming one.

dre11: Abeg change the title of ur thread....... because its misleadingg

as how?

ifex370: and i came here looking for 10 reasons to date a runs girl... mtchew

wetin you wan use ashi do?

xynerise: Reasons to date a runs girl?

Athlete not Ashi

9. Confident & Strong
A girl who runs is confident, powerful and strong. She won’t be asking whether these pants make her look fat, because she has unbreakable self-confidence. She’s sure of who she is and she doesn’t need you to complete her. Although, compliments are always welcome.

10. Calm & Patient
A girl who runs works toward her goals patiently. She is calm, cool and collected, and when she’s not she’ll go on a run to clear her head. She will approach you and your relationship the same calm, cool, collected attitude. So sexy!

7. Love for Food
A girl who runs likes to eat… and she’s not shy about it either! The girl needs proper nourishment if she’s going to get through that marathon. A runner understands a proper daily diet and loves to indulge in a carb-filled meal from time-to-time.

8. Miss Independent
A girl who runs is independent. She knows how to be and even likes to be alone every now and then. This girl will give you time to be alone or hang with the guys. After all, she loves solo runs and hanging with the girls, too.

5. Competitive Spirit
A girl who runs is a natural competitor. Whether it’s a game of football or throwing a dart, she knows how to be competitive and can hang with the guys. A girl with a natural competitive instinct will be down for Monday Night Football or March Madness and she'll understand what she's watching.

6. Great Beats
A girl who runs is bound to have a great playlist or two. She knows all the latest jams and always has the go-to playlist for any occasion. You will never be the last one to hear a hit song ever again. She'll keep you cool and in-the-know!

3. Super Supportive
A girl who runs is not only positive, she’s also supportive. She knows how to cheer you on and help you realize your lifelong dreams. This girl isn’t going to be the one holding you back. She’ll be right there beside you every step of the way.

4. Those Gorgeous Gams!
A girl who runs is guaranteed to have legs for days. She can rock a pair of Daisy Dukes and tight spandex booty shorts like it’s nobody’s business. Prefer a booty hugging pair of leggings or running tights? She’s gonna look great in those too.

1. In It For the Long Haul
A girl who runs is in it for the long haul. She understands that a relationship is not a sprint and knows how to keep a steady pace. When the going gets tough she knows how to handle herself, and when she’s hurt she know how to walk it off.

2. Positive Feedback
A girl who runs knows the importance of praise and can always provide positive feedback. After all, it’s the ribbons and cheers at the finish line that keep her going when the going gets tough. She’ll lift your spirits when you’re feeling down and boost your confidence when you need it most.

larj: why am i not suprised
its south africa where there are so many Hot women

Nigeria women are hotter and they also have common sense

xtervaganza: She wants to give Mandela head na

Crush

A woman stripped na.ked in Nelson Mandela Square in Johannesburg and caressed a huge statue of the liberation hero as astonished bystanders looked on, local media reported Wednesday.
The young African woman first saluted the statue of
the former president, who is revered for his role in
defeating the racist apartheid system, before
disrobing, witnesses said.
A picture posted on Twitter showed her na.ked and
leaning her head against the knee of the statue in
an upmarket area of South Africa’s commercial
capital.
A waitress at a nearby restaurant told The Star
newspaper that the woman’s actions, at around
4.00pm on a busy Monday, had caused a frenzy.
Male waiters got their orders wrong and a male
customer was hit on the head by his wife for getting
up to take a closer look, she said.
Nelson Mandela Square marketing manager Megan
Meas said a security guard had asked the woman
to put on her clothes, which she did before leaving
the square without answering any questions.
“This was an unauthorised incident conducted by a
private citizen in her personal capacity on our
property,” Meas said.
.

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/07/woman-strips-naked-hug-mandela-statue-s-africa/

PerfectFortune: Am sure you guyz are not aware that he was voted and not pick. FIFA can only shortlist.

Messi remains a favourite coupled with his individual effort in taking the Argentians that far.

His effort wasn't as much as Mascharano or Robben.

MaziOmenuko: In this same tournament that we saw James Rodriguez scoring 6 goals with 2 assists; Robben running down his opponents with ease, scored 3 with 1 assist; Muller scoring 5 goals, 3 assists and winning the world cup?

If they don't know who to give it, they should give it to my grandma!

it for get small justice shall. I thought Robben really played more than Messi, sentiment apart

BTT: I am sure they had already done the paper-work in Messi's name and became too lazy to go back to the printing room.

#SeppBlatterMustGo

Looks like it

ebullientV: Just a compensation for failing to win d real thing.

or maybe it was already decided before the final

Lifebender: I was abt to post d same tin ooo...and i've been asking maself d same question but the ansa has been d same tin.

Messi is FiFA pikin

2010 confirmed it

FIFA been biased again. Muller or Mascharano or King James should have won it