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BEST RELATIONSHIP TIPS!!

- Date someone matured enough to say "hey babe, this what you have done and I honestly do not like it, I would appreciate it if you stop this type of behaviour cause it hurts me". Cool right?? ... Instead of someone who'd go out of their way acting childish and ignoring you, while venting to social media with posts.

-If you are matured enough you will realize that nowadays, its not about dating someone beautiful, handsome or your type but a loving person who really cares about you....

-You can never build a relationship with a partner who is living to impress friends... Never!!

-You don't owe anyone a lasting relationship... You owe yourself happiness... If it gets toxic, leave..
Relationship don't need cute voice & lovely faces, relationship needs beautiful heart & unbreakable trust. I don't look at faces. My happiness is my priority.”


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8 Important question to ask before marriage to reduce the risk of divorce


It's okay to love with your heart, but you need to think with your mind and keep your eyes open love was never meant to be blind and foolish. Let's get into the most important 8 questions you need to ask before you walk down the aisle.

1. What does marriage mean to you and your partner ? This question helps you understand the basic concept you and your fiancé have of marriage. Being a wife or husband is like being partners of a start-up company. If both partners have very different views of what this means the marriage will never be managed effectively.

2. What are your expectations of marriage to you and your partner? You are deep in love and have a picture in mind of what the marriage will look like 5, 10 and 25 plus years down the road. Your fiancé also has expectation of what the marriage will look like and how it will function. These expectations may be quite different so get them clear early on.

3. Why did you fall in love? This needs to be clear as well especially when the storms and challenges come. You need to always have this beautiful story to reflect on and help refocus your feelings.

4. What is your purpose in the marriage? Getting married is more about what you bring to the relationship than what you can get from it. There is a very specific set of reasons that make you the best person for your spouse. You need to know how being you and fulfilling your potential will add tremendous value to your spouse.

5. What is the purpose of your spouse as a partner? No matter how well together you believe you are, your spouse also has value to add that will make you a better person.

6. Who are you as a unique person? People get lost in relationships because they lose sight of who they are. You need to take time to figure out who you are before trying to become one with someone else.

7. Who is your partner as a different unique person? Apart from appreciating who you are as a unique person you need to appreciate the uniqueness of your fiancé as well.

8. What problems have you already noticed? Love is not blind; love sees the best and minimises the worst. Love lets you know that the issues did not stop you from falling in love. You still need to acknowledge the issues and bring them to the light.


Taking time to answer these 8 simple questions can save you from the pitfalls that have wrecked many couples. Reduce the risk of divorce by spending more time on questions like these and less on questions about the colour of bridesmaid dresses, menus and flowers.


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10 Red Flags of a Cheating Partner.

You just noticed that things aren't the same with your partner. Something seems off, and you can't help but wonder if there's somebody else. Suspecting your partner of cheating can be tricky. The possibility terrifies you, but you're also afraid of being wrong and looking like a fool who has trust issues. In a situation like this, it is wise to tread carefully.

Make sure that there are legitimate reasons for suspecting your partner, and that it's not just your insecurity that is skewing your point of view. If you do have an overwhelming feeling that there may be infidelity in your relationship then read on for common red flags of cheating, and compare them with your man or lady's behavior.

1. Change In long held beliefs: You observe a shift in your partner's attitude about relationships or love. It may be that your man used to condemn husbands who cheat on their wives and had strong opinions about infidelity. Suddenly, they seem more lenient with their thinking.

Maybe you're watching TV together one night and there's news of a celebrity couple breaking up because the man cheated. You are appalled, but he might shrug and say something like "Well, if she stopped having sex with him what do you expect?"

Pay attention to changes in long held beliefs that your partner had, he or she may be altering their view to accommodate their new thinking or behavior.

2. I want to be alone: Your partner suddenly wants to spend a lot of time on their own. The need for space is a major sign that something is going on especially if this request comes out of nowhere and with no valid explanation.

If you two had a fight and he or she is still resentful, then the need for space can be somewhat understood. However, if your relationship is stable and things are going great, and your partner suddenly wants to be alone, there might be someone else filling that void.

3. Picking fights: The man or woman in your life might also not only demand more space but do everything possible to create more of it. He or she might pick fights for no reason, and may make an issue of every little thing to create an illusion that you're not getting along.

They do this to legitimize their wrongdoings and to feel less guilty. The way they figure is this; since you're both always fighting, you are the unreasonable one and you are pushing them into another person's arms.

4. Storming out of the house: On a related note, if your man or woman storms out after a "fight" because they just can't take it anymore and say that they need some time to think, they may be using it as an opportunity to meet up with the other person. This technique has two major benefits.

First, it gives him or her more time on their own to cheat. Second, they can use the fights as a lever to gain the sympathy of the other person who they are cheating with. They want the other man or woman to stay in the deceitful relationship.

So they complain about their partner to demonstrate that they are being driven to cheat and so it isn't their fault. So if every time you fight with your partner, he or she storms out there may be a good reason why.

5. Reverse psychology: When someone is cheating, he or she becomes a master manipulator. If you start noticing that your once earnest and direct partner is using reverse psychology and other weird techniques that they didn't use before, then know that something is up. If he or she always makes it seem that you're the one in the wrong no matter what happens. He or she may have something to hide.

6. On the defensive: If your man or lady has suddenly become overly defensive and can't take any type of criticism, then you need to take a good look at what's going on. If you ask him about a lady co-worker and he starts a fight, or he becomes furious after you ask him why he didn't call if he was going to be late for dinner, there's something there.

Ask your partner about it, maybe there's a good reason for this newly found oversensitivity and short temper. A stressful work week or family problems may be to blame for this change in behavior.

8.Always lying through their teeth: Cheating always involves lying. If you keep catching your partner in little lies, then something is up. If he said he was working late the night before at the office, then says that he was out with his boss having drinks another time, beware he may be cheating. If the little things he or she says just don't add up, then ask them about it. If they avoid confronting the issue, you can be sure that there's something going on that shouldn't be.

9. Going the distance: If your partner is cheating, then he or she may deal by becoming more distant. He will avoid talking about serious subjects and only engage in small talk. He may avoid getting into conversations about your finances, work, and children if you have them or any future plans. He or she will always seem to have something on their mind and you can't seem to connect with them on a deeper level like you used to

10. Emotional detachment: Your partner might also disengage emotionally from your relationship. Your man used to be extremely affectionate and loving, but now you can't get an "I love you" out of him. There might be something wrong. You'll want to ask him why he has become emotionally detached.

He might be upset with you over something you did and is acting out, so talking about it is very important. If he just shrugs or refuses to even acknowledge his behavior or even blames you for being paranoid, something deeper might be festering under his aloof exterior and you need to be careful.


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Ok! Here is what is going on, you probably know this woman for a while and you certainly feel that there is a spark but you are not sure if this spark will actually lead to anything. You are not sure if she really is attracted to you. How do you know for sure, without a shadow of doubt that she is attracted to you? The first thing you need to wrap your head around is the fact that with women body language will tell you a lot about how she feels. But just relying on body language is not enough you need to be able to decipher her. There are many things which will tell you if she is really attracted to you.

The Most Rare But Real Sign

Now even though not many women walk up to men to introduce themselves, they always wait for a man to make the first move, the fact is that if a woman takes the initiative and introduces herself to you it can be taken as a sign of attraction. Often times when you walk into a bar or club you may have probably observe that some women stare at you, some will also smile while others may be caught glimpsing at you. These too are signs of genuine attraction.

Pays Attention To What You Are Saying

Women have this habit of paying attention to and remembering what people they are attracted to tell them. If a woman is attracted to you it is likely that she will remember details and recall conversations from even years back. She may also sometimes show up with something you may have mentioned that you liked. If you spot a woman whose attention seems diverted when you are speaking to her it is likely that she is not attracted to you, or at least not genuinely attracted to you.

She Will Want To Spend Time With You

A girl who is really attracted to you or is in love with you will want to spend more time with you even if it means cancelling plans with friends. She will answer all your calls and will excuse herself from others around her in order to talk to you. Even if you called her in the middle of the night she will be willing to give up a good night's sleep just to speak to you. If you have a girl that would do this for you it is time to take your relationship to the next level.

Exercise - Spotting Attraction

Now that you know the various signs of genuine attraction you need to find these sings in your girlfriend or the woman you are interested in. It is up to you to devise a series of tests in order to determine if she is interested in you. You may want to mention a few details about yourself and then quiz her about her a month or week later to see if she remembers it.


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Please note for serious and matured minds only.

Courtship and marriage are two separate things although similar in some respects. However, you can successfully turn your courtship into marriage if you have knowledge of the ways of achieving this.

Similarities
Courtship and marriage are similar to the extent that both are relationship that involves two persons of opposite gender who are emotionally involved with each other. They share times and things together keeping each others company and keeping each other satisfied.

Differences between Courtship and Marriage
Courtship differs so much from marriage in that courtship is time of discovering each other to ascertain compatibility. Courtship also provides opportunity to discover each other's values, reasoning pattern, temperament and behaviour pattern.In courtship partners see each other sometimes at prepared and organized settings. This cannot be equated to marriage.

Marriage Is a Legally Bounding Relationship
Marriage is a legally bounding relationship that has been solemnized with vows and it confers duties and responsibilities on each of the partners in the relationship and brings great benefits also to them. In marriage you don't arrange to see your partner only when you are prepared, rather you see him/her everyday and night whether you want to or not. Indeed you are to do many things together daily. You talk together, eat together pray together, reason together and handle bills together. You lose your privacy as an individual so to say and the two becomes one. You cannot choose or decide what you do and where you will be all on your own, it is now the two of you deciding that in the interest of the marriage and family and not just one partner.

Courtship Can Break
Note importantly that courtship can break if there are indications that the two cannot stay together as husband and wife by any reason ranging from incompatibility, divergence of values, or even inability to see things together eye to eye continually. You can end courtship by reason of medical incompatibility like when the genotype of the two people opposes marriage like one having SS and the other AS. This is medically considered to be a ground that may produce three (3) SS children out of 4 children produced by such partners together.

Marriage Is Not Permitted to Break
Marriage is not permitted to be broken easily just at the will of a partner. At least it is not the prayer of any couple for their marriage to break; it is seen as failure on the part of the couples. Marriage is for a life time. Marriage failure always leaves marks on the partner's life. It may even damage the emotional balance of the partners and leave them hurt internally inhibiting starting any other relationship.

If you are interested in having success in your own courtship and love to transform it to marriage, it is possible


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