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lordally:
My sister tell him you have thought about his advances and you have agreed to be his GF....simple!!! See you have every right to love and be loved!!! So since he did the chyking once and twice just give him the answer which is yes na....or if your Shy of telling him yes you can either send him a text or invite him to an open place.....Then tell him you have thought about what he's said about wanting you ...and then just draw him close and give him a deep kiss.....that alone is a sign say you don gree for am!!! Do am ooooo before another babe carry your bobo

Thank you

aminusodiq:
Start calling him... Call him endlessly...
He will see d greenlight in due time...

Btw he mayn't love u d way he used to... In DAT case, u may be simply used and dumped

That's my fear

femi4:
Communication is key, you should be telling him everything you are telling us here

If you don't act fast, you ll lose him. These days, no guy is ready for girls drama. Be simple, open and direct.

Thank you

Ategberoson:
he had shoot his shot but you declined it and as a guy wey get focus locked up, it's now time for you to shoot your own shot



in Joeboy's voice "don't call me back" yeyenatu



imagine how someone that stick with you when you're going through emotional trauma don't get your attention, you had a relationship that you're regretting about? many sane mind knows you ladies love fúck boys and like to be used

I didn't want to cause a break up with my boyfriend, I wanted him to cause the break up

SageMK:
Not only are you manipulative, Its also obvious you're too low for his standards because it's you who don't have a plan for the future. Focus on your boyfriend and leave him alone, ahbeg.

You don't really know what I am passing through

ethicallyright:
He loves you and will always do.

He sees a future with you.

He may be your husband , only if, he makes it early in life .

Things don't always go as planned but he is intelligent and will give everything to make it work.


You have no problem here.

I give you my blessings , young woman.

Thank you sir/ma

ethicallyright:
I've modified the post. What University do you attend btw?

Ahmadu Bello University Zaria

SageMK:
You've a problem.
Stay away. He doesn't need the extra baggage.

What's the problem?

[quote author=ethicallyright post=93226079]This will definitely be of help. Thanks

AdaoraJoy:
From your story , the guy likes you and he's still single. Just shoot a single shot and he's yours already

I don't want to look cheap

decatalyst:
This writing is childish!

Then write something matured

Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page