₦airaland Forum

water sef good...
my own out of 500 paints 50 Na raw starch and water them seal inside...
the painter wen owner trust de confidently de talk say Na so he take de make e money Ooo

Oracleee:
To a good degree you're correct, what I question is the rationale behind the criticism from VDM. Is he doing it for clout to stay relevant or so?

don't care what e doing for especially that Jeremiah guy,,e No de fear God

Benrosaria:
Manny the tool the government uses on the masses is reproduction.

You give birth you become the instrument of use

you too make sense here...
poor man go de born anyhow,, de born tools for politicians

Oracleee:
Seems you have alot of emotions to vent and lots of bones to pick, but I'm the wrong crowd bro.

nothing personal with ya
sorry Man
just oo old enough! to realise most of these pastors nor B am at all
them no de fear God really
so whoever talk about some of them no de talk bad

Oracleee:
What's with the emotional outburst? Am I God to tell who serves him and who fakes it? I don't believe in him just like the political pastor Adeboye but I won't smear him publicly to gain traction.

if we can come publicly to talk about thier good then we in position to talk about thier bad too...
wen I talk about the good things a Pastor is doing its fine
but wen I talk about the bad y'all will call it judging...

Oracleee:
This one vdm is going after men of God this days...... E be like politicians don put him in is place hence the soft target. He will be fine sha.

can you swear with your life and the life of Ur generation that deep down in your heart you don't know or never thought that, guy ain't no man of God

Pootle:
C no blind spot the car body and the road in clear sight

what is a blind spot ? plss

either A or C depends on what you driving...
and anyone wen say B or D need go jail

de

Benrosaria:
Since I know say my country na failed system I no go stupid marry, born pikin. Not until there is hope to living then I would say I want to settle down.

For now as Nigeria is moving I won't be normal as it isn't wanting to be normal

for real man...
fear no fit allow me add Join the two girls man get,,
me and my wife Na condom we de use for like 2yrs counting

no

Benrosaria:
Manny if you Sabi woman you go marry the whole women in the world and yet the world would be at peace. But as man as failed to know woman, na why marriage no dey work again. If I can keep a life time friend I can keep a lifetime thing. Marriage small pass lifetime sef

sha make you stay on a steady income..
don't go broke...

mightyhaze:
Even though u can't see a meaningful ride for less than 18m..but even the 10m sef dey here? Even if u dey receive 500k monthly and God help u to save 250k ,e go still take u nearly 4yrs to buy any of these Mario carts

Apc una try

by the four years the car fit don reach 17 to 20m

how did we even get to being limited to chose from
Obi Tinubu and Atiku
funny thing they all get who de defend and campaign for them

Benrosaria:
Because they were not friends before they got married

if you like marry your brother or sister or you landlord pikin or neighbour pikin, or Ur class mate...
wen reality sets in,, you'll realise that NOR B EYE WEN THEM TAKE DO RELATIONSHIP NA THEM TAKE DE ENTER MARRIAGE....
especially for Women wen Thier man get funds or Man wen things rough for

lazy youths
content creators
bloggers
all ya..
keep recycling same news with different crap
keep nosin on same nonsense..

states,, LGA, federal all owing salaries, pensions and the rest before..
fuel always sacres
but those are things of the past for now...
some wages been increased
asking about subsidy funds when the answers are there shows we not ready to solve our problems....

gonna be outa mind to want more
as long as is only oil ,, nothing new is gonna pop up with any kind person una vote in

ppogba:
This English of yours is a clear evidence.

Mmesoma, is that you?

don't be too emotional ....
life no really hard like that

there's nothing there
my time I came second 13 out of 15 subjects then ,,one first in chemistry, one third in English
one mad man came 13 first and two second cos there was one English Aunty in that class that always seize the IST...
13 out of 17 is not up to 80% of coming first in all subjects

na that girl come use Kata do content and promote herself more on he streaming thing..
orogun man no get business with Oyibo,,
e no go fit date Lagos girl sef
same with gehgeh
Na film them de act

pyyxxaro:
This one meat don over mature , if you won cook this kind meat , you must put better AKANWU 😏

no B small thing beans don use your eyes see sha

Lamasta:
It is the hardship your government brought to innocent Nigerians that led to pay small small......

there has always been pay small small
it's just being more popular due to internet,? more digital, and advanced don't really need to know each other like before

Eba50:
No be their head them take write am. Na evetywere. Come see as waec field official dey go collect 30k for envelope per school for 20 schools assigned to each invigilator per area.after 3 mins them don go.na the invigilator dey use google lens write answer for students. I be living witness for more than 10 successive years for the matter. Na today? Jamb dey run their own too.

like for real
imagine the foundation of a country, comon WAEC see kinda stuffs de do and expect Aso rock to be better??

Stephen0mozzy:
...If you survive it.

Well, I hope he had more people close to him that he could open up to. Even if kept from the public before now.

that's for sure..
Na I sure say na only public just de know now

Stephen0mozzy:
Phew! Know why he didn't open up until now?

Because a man is told to be a man to prove that he is a man.

Meanwhile, if you're a big fan of Rambo... You will enjoy this series - King of Tulsa - I think it's a perfect tribute to the living legend - giving him so much macho role even at his age 🤗

you don't just open up everything about you as it's happening...
got to keep some stories to tell Man

scrape your hair
use tetmosol SOap de rub am before you sleep after bath..
wake up immediately run am put before bath ..
use tetmosol continuously for months..
that's all...

and maybe vitamin C and ampicillin along aside

Parachoko:
No dey speak for every Nigerians base on your own condition and understanding.

People dey lock #30m,#50m, #1b etc for their account.

Spend and invest your money in whatever you want, nah your money

them de Sabi smart de shout business, investment,,
Na so I go invest for Keke
bought 3 for 1.5m each to balance 2.2m each...

cos I was surviving with the interest and saving capital,,
before them balance Keke finish,, Keke don enter price don enter 4m
the money saved could buy only one Keke
buy the next Keke 3.8 like this Keke is almost 5.5m ,,man can't even keep up with the business
...
Nigeria de very volatile and small thing man fit fall off from business

Swagk101:
Churches where their pastors/shepherds pray for scammers and their female members are mostly olosho...

but those kinda churches Na average people Makin money full..
if no be those boys them how man wan take see building work do

naptu2:
You use the information to make meaningless comments on Nairaland and waste your energy by pretending that you don't care about something that you wasted your energy to comment on.

but truth be told
seeing all this kind news for Nigeria national television,,, NTA and the rest.... some streaming with new iPhone 18 larger percentage with 17... everyone looking flashy and happy.. and one person wanna say Nigeria is not doing much better?

special mention to Becky madojemu ITV

Coder2Client:
I’m someone who isn’t ashamed of being single.

I’m 36, and I’ll be 37 in December.

The honest truth is that I’m single. I’m not currently dating anyone. It’s not because I don’t ask women out—I do. But I’m not someone who enjoys talking too much, and sometimes the thought of having to constantly communicate, explain myself, and maintain a relationship feels stressful to me. Maybe that is one of the reasons I have remained single for this long.

My lifestyle is also very regimented. I have a routine that is so predictable that someone can almost tell when I’m at home and when I’m not.

Money is another major issue.

I currently earn ₦200,000 a month before tax, and I don’t have a side hustle at the moment. Sometimes I look at my income and wonder how I’m supposed to build the kind of life people expect from someone approaching 40.

I have even lied about being in a relationship when I know I’m not.

I’ve told people I have two children, even though I have never had children. I did it because I wanted people to stop asking questions and putting pressure on me. But ironically, while trying to escape other people’s expectations, I think I have ended up putting even more pressure on myself.

For a long time, I genuinely enjoyed being single.

The peace was beautiful.

No relationship drama. No constant explanations. No arguments. No pressure.

But lately, that peace is beginning to feel like loneliness.

I miss having someone.

And that is difficult for me to admit.

Another thing about me is that I give up easily on relationships. I can enter a relationship today and, a month later, lose interest and walk away without even properly explaining to the woman why I’m leaving.

I know that isn't a good quality.

My life has also been somewhat of a slow journey.

I started school at 11. I finished secondary school at 22. I completed tertiary education at 32. I started my teaching job earning ₦20,000 a month, and today, at 36, I earn ₦200,000.

You would think that increasing my income would make life easier.

But every time my income increases, inflation seems to move the goalpost.

What used to feel like enough no longer feels like enough.

And then there is friendship.

I have always struggled with keeping friends. Even as a child, I realised I didn't really have a flair for friendship. Today, I honestly don't have anyone I can confidently call my close friend.

I even remember a time when I would give people money just so they would play with me.

Looking back, that hurts.

I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't party. I don't womanise.

At work, I joke around, interact with people and eat good food. From the outside, I probably look like someone who is doing just fine.

But deep down, there is a part of me that genuinely misses being in a relationship.

I can go an entire month without making or receiving a personal phone call. Most of the calls I receive or make are work-related because I’m one of the leaders at my workplace.

Sometimes I wonder how I got here.

I don't think I’m a bad person.

I don't think I’m unattractive.

I don't think I’m incapable of loving someone.

Maybe I just became too comfortable being alone.

Maybe I have built such a structured and independent life that making room for another person now feels difficult.

Or maybe I simply haven't figured out how to balance my personality, finances, career, friendships and relationships.

I don't know.

But lately, being single doesn't feel as peaceful as it used to.

It is starting to feel a little boring.

So I’m genuinely asking:

Are there other men who are like this?

Men in their 30s who don't drink, smoke, party or womanise.

Men who have very few or no close friends.

Men who have become so comfortable being alone that they don't know how to let someone into their lives.

Men who are not necessarily unhappy, but deep down, still miss having someone to come home to.

I’d really like to hear from you.

just say you want pikin but you no want responsibility of being a father or husband's...
you de ask questions you still de give good reasonable explanation to the answers to questions u Askin..

don't think getting married or having kids is a must especially when you are someone that really know what you doing...
don't just a guurl out.. ask a financially stable woman out, even if she's a single Mom...
and she must be charitable person that understands finances and responsibilities

English wen e supposed use go do Yahoo
or teach for one primary school
de waste am de push Barrow

CodeTemplar:
are there no poor folks in America and LA(Hollywood) to be precise? This is demonic proportion of entitlement.

oya carry you motor drive go Maiduguri Na...
or you park you family to North East..

[quote author=reddingtonblack post=140740055][/quote]I don't know what you do
but my Keke man de feed 6kids and two jobless women...
he don single handedly do wife mama burial
5 those kids de go school, them even get lesson teacher
like I said I don't know what job you doing
but if Na salary job wen Na man de control your Livin then I'm sorry...
cos whoever you working with can never raise Ur pay according to the inflated services una de render even if they're making Makin more right now...
keep calling dogs ,, you never fit survive u don de feed dogs,, money u for use take open provision store make u de run after work ..
so I don't know what doing then and what you doing now
but for my side even wen fuel was 87naira my papa no get gen for house, even me wen get for school sef Na like 4 bedsitter de use am,, we de gather contribute to buy 2litres...
wen transformer bad for area Na well we de use for months,,
you de complain about basics and still talking about enjoyment
wen them de use 500naira to 1k de cook oil rice ,, your whole day payment was not more than 2k
you cannot be taking 9k to 12k as labourer now and expect to cook oil rice with 500naira

ask Ur papa how hard it was to get 2k as at early 2000
nor be u de work am then , Al you can recall is u was buying Titus blah blah...

and like I said we no de run gen for here so that fuel and gen business I can't tell...

2012 I need get 10short time for our guest house before I we can fuel 26 litres,,
but now 10short time will get us 35litres in the car...
sew Ur coat according to your size
as landlord raise he house you go try look for cheaper one or one room or room and parlour,,
or change job,, Keke 2months go fix that Ur 800k rent .
nor be to eat Titus, buy dog.. eat pork or whatever..
9ja Na COC,, if Na salary u still de depend no try am born pikin sha,, if U don get just go carry Keke