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[b][/b] This gender equality issue? It's everywhere now i guess but as far as am concerned a woman can never i repeat never be equal to a man. Why? From the beginning it was not so! Mind you she never was created lesser than a man, she is a help meet for him. Meaning she's in the picture always and she is capable of 'meeting' or fit to 'meet' any issue arising. So automatically she can step in positions too,she can rise to any position, she can handle anything, she was created strong but her ego must not overrule that of her man. Socially she can go anywhere, she can rule anywhere and even anybody but trust me a wise woman wouldn't take that home. (WE WORK THE SAME HOURS THEREFORE AM ENTITLED TO REST TOO, I SHOULDN'T BE IN THE KITCHEN WHILE HE RESTS HIS LEG ON A TABLE), well as right as it sounds, trust me, I love to show the men around me that am actually created strong that's why I'll go to the kitchen and make that food. It's wisdom it's not backwardness at the same time on days you tired that man knows and happily gets something you'll both chew on that night outside. I guess the mistake with this fight is that the women are taking it right to their homes and that's a major reason behind the marriage crisis everywhere today. Am not equal to men but am indispensable! #wisewomennotkichentools #werisebutwehonourourhomes, #nowomanwillcookformyman
I agree with some of this write up below, but whatever has so much "I" where there should be a "WE" is faulty.

**If I work for 3 hours and a man works for 3 hours, we both deserve to get paid the same
**A woman can now decide that, Marriage shall mean Partnership, Friendship, companionship as well as Passion; not slavery
**I am not better, wiser, stronger, more intelligent, or more responsible than a man. Likewise, I am never less
**If a man’s virginity cannot be tested on the wedding night, mine shouldn’t be tested as well
**Because my husband has authority in my home does not make me inferior. We are both equal in essence and worth. Our responsibilities are just different
**It means that my character/behaviour is solely guided by my principles not by society’s expectation of how I “should” behave
**It means that I can wear a crown too! Ask Queen Elizabeth
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Your Royal Highness, do not be deceived, your belief in this revolution has absolutely no bearing in its movement. Stand tall, behind the king, watch as more women understand this concept, watch as they break the glass ceiling, reaching straight for the moon… and beyond…in their Louboutins

Making reference to this write up by Uche in reply to the Oni's wife, some makes(socially) sense some are just mistakes women make. You don't decide what your marriage will be after the wedding you decide it before and not just you but both of you.

. I can't start eating goat that is making fun of me[/quote]Thats fuuny...

young woman, no matter what has happened and is still happening just know you were not created for such pain. your mistakes can be overlooked and life can be better if you take the right decision now.
know this, you will not be the first to be born into a poor home nor will you be last. My beloved, leave that man, he'll finally damage everything that makes you human and the little of womanhood you have remaining. leave him, God gave you hands use them!!! strategize and leave, work hard!!! God will rebuild you again.

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They are friends my dear and it means he had invited her out before for dinner several times for her to also decide to do d same...

So u r saying immediately d bill came in he should av tried paying. Did u even tink about him probably not aving any cash on him?

She wey invite person no suppose know say she gas pay... She go don do am for d guy wela na why him return d favour lol... Picture na wetin? If that story were true... Na she fool herself.. Cuz she just showed to the world that she's stupi.d n dumb.


Men nothing is given to us in life.. For everything we av to work to get it... U invite me for dinner I gas do like say I wan pay again... If she no come talk na so d guy go pay for him meal n hers...

No they have not been friends dear. Friends can't do that to themselves. They just have maybe been trying to impress each other and they both failed.

:-), she actually invited him for dinner partly meaning she was supposed to pay. But as a guy/man he was to at least brave up to pay, as in just make an attempt to pay and watch her say no don't worry i'll do that. Maybe the lady already saw that the guy was on who loved free things. Then he finished himself by running and the lady too well...

I hate it when all some people ever see is lack and failure in the same place where they progress and succeed. Though our country is not going through her best times yet we rise and live

It can happen but in rare occasions I believe. it may mean that the man has a trait of S that happen to express itself dominantly over the A. It has to do with genetics, though it rarely happens but it does happen. They can also still approach the medics to ecplain better.

Oduduwaboy: Wetin concern JOHESU inside NMA matter ? They should go and attend to the patients now . Infact , the practice of medicine should be outlawed in Nigeria so that JOHESU members can have the patients to themselves ...with time too if they like they can gradually assume the title 'Dr' & Consultant which they so much covet ! Jobless doctor wannabes !

Now d buisnesss of JOHESU is the fact that med lab scientist are part of the body and they are the nail of this matter. What was the doctors business when they went on strike because of the circular sent out by CBN? Why didnt they leav it for NAFDAC to complain first abi doctors are now NAFDAC too? As for the "WANNA BE!" they all have the right to futher their and enlarge their scope amdbecome consultants in their specialized field. Thats obtainable every country where there is medical breakthrough. So i still maintain some docs are selfish and greedy. Let others study and attain their peak

joker5180: i guess you dont know what is meant by an 'act of national assembly". it is MDCN that has such statutory responsibility. get your facts right.

Thats what u think but my facts are as right as they can be. “Sections 4e and 19d of the Medical Laboratory
Science Council Law Act 11, 2003 (Cap M25, LFN
2014) specifically mandates the MLSCN to
“regulate the production, importation, sales and
stocking of diagnostic reagents and chemicals
and make rules for the maintenance of good
standard of medical laboratory practice and
services.
This is “with respect to regulation and control of
private practice, including statutory inspection,
approval and monitoring of all medical
laboratories, including those adjoined to clinics,
private and public health institutions.” Doctors have left what they should do they just running after name, fame abd money. spending more time on strike than they do inside a hospital

chelseabmw: Nigeria is a failed nation......
Today nepa staffs go strike
Tomorrow doctors
Next police
2months later ASUU/ASUP
Like seriously, when will 9ja change or better still develop?

NO Nigeria is not a failed nation but alot of Nigerians are failed people... Greedy at heart. What do doctors have to do with medical lab instruments? Why in God's name should people who are supossed to be very passionate so concerned about themselves. Check out the pay of all medics and para medics you'll find out that we are blessed.