Politics › Re: Who Would You Prefer To Be Nigeria's Next President and Vice president? by Trios(f): 6:06pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Osinbajo and Zulum all the way. We need Nigeria working again |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Would Love To Make Single Responsible Muslim Ebira Friends Based In Kano by Trios(op): 5:52pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Lets Meet and Mingle.. Single Muslim Ebira Friends in Kano or in the Diaspora. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 3:02pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
slimtoney: You are welcome. Can you do me a mail via slimtoney@yahoo.com I did. Check your mail |
Christianity Etc › Re: Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 1:18pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
slimtoney: You are welcome. Can you do me a mail via slimtoney@yahoo.com I did.. Check yr mail |
Christianity Etc › Re: Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 10:47am On Jan 07, 2022 |
slimtoney: Am good my sister. It's nice meeting you. Thanks |
Family › Re: Would Like To Make Muslim Ebira Friends Here.. by Trios(op): 10:44am On Jan 07, 2022 |
slimtoney: I am Ebira, and of course, I will be friends with you. Jumaat Mubarak. Jummah Mubarak |
Christianity Etc › Re: Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 10:43am On Jan 07, 2022 |
slimtoney: Waaleikumsalam, how are you doing? You already found a friend in me. Doing just fine and you |
Family › Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 9:46am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Assalamu alaikum. Jummah Mubarak everyone.. Pls will love to make or meet responsibe muslim friends here in Nigeria or Diaspora.. Pls drop a comment if you are in. |
Christianity Etc › Would Like To Make Responsible Muslim Friends Here In Nigeria Or In Diaspora by Trios(op): 9:28am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Assalamu alaikum. Jummah Mubarak everyone.. Pls would like to make muslim friends in Nigeria or in Diaspora.. Pls drop a nice comment.. Lets mingle |
Politics › Re: Bashir Tofa Buried In Kano (pictures) by Trios(f): 11:40am On Jan 03, 2022 |
Biodun556: May Allah forgive his shortcomings Ameen |
Family › Would Like To Make Muslim Ebira Friends Here.. by Trios(op): 5:44pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Am much of an introvert, have tried to go out more but its not working out, will do more this year.. I know this platform cut accross many places.. Pls if you are ebira and a muslim based in Nigeria or Diaspora.. Lets mingle.. Other tribes are welcome too.. But I have reasons for specifying.. Thanks |
Family › Re: Please I Need Help. I Think Im Being Too Harsh On Him by Trios(f): 8:24am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Mercychen: Nothing is off inside me. I'm a very happy soul. It's just that I don't like people taking my free mindedness for stupidity.
As for my nephew, all I see is, he's now a big boy While I thought it was still the same smally I used to know back then who was humble. I think he's trying to prove a point. He's now a MAN!!!
As for companionship, I'm not lonely o. Love?? I have self-love and that is enough for me. Can't be bothered about any fake love being paraded out there.
I'm good. Thanks. You seem to be very defensive.. If your nephew is 18 and above, he deserves some respect, times have changed, kids grow fast.. Wish you the very best, all the same, something is lacking.. Believe me |
Family › Re: Please I Need Help. I Think Im Being Too Harsh On Him by Trios(f): 7:51am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Mercychen: I feel sad and can't sleep after taking out my frustrations on my nephew who came to spend the Xmas hols with me.
Hes actually my first nephew from our eldest sister.and he's been itching to come to my place as I'm his favorite. I always spoil him whenever he's around.
Hes now a big guy but still fond of me. So he came yesterday and we all tripped out to have fun but somehow I've been unnecessarily harsh on him. Like I expect him to know what to do at the right time and if he fails, I'll just yell at him but later start feeling bad for yelling at him. Now because he's a big guy, he feels somehow, unlike when he was still Small that he'll just laugh it off or quickly say, "aunty I'm sorry". Now he'll just look at me like "what again now" and it makes me feel bad.
Today, he called the Mom and told her he'll be coming back on Tuesday. It immediately hit me that I've not been nice to him like he expected. Even when the Mom asked why he's coming back so soon, he said, "when I come, we'll talk." So when he dropped, I asked him to tell me why he's leaving so soon and he just told me it's nothing. So I asked him if he still wants to stay beyond Tuesday, he said if I want him to, he will.
Today was worst because the generator refused to supply light and I began to fume after trying to call the engineer to no avail. So I took out my frustrations on him again. I blamed him for the fault of the Gen and told him it was after touched it, it developed problems and he was like " not again"... * Gush*! I don't know what's wrong with me.
After everything, I called him and apologized for being so harsh and asked him to forgive and bear with me. I feel so baaad right now..
Please, I don't want this nonsense to continue tomorrow. So what can I do to control it. I really feel for him.
The Mom just called now asking me why he said he was coming back. I just told her what he told me.. . I guess she's suspecting he's not happy with his stay with me.. Now, she's coming tomorrow. 
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All I created this post for was to get help and I don't care if I get bashed because it's typical of nairalanders to throw shades instead of making sensible contributions to help as expected.
For the records, I woke him this morning and asked if he sees me as being harsh, he said No. So, enough with the insults already. Something is off inside of you, your inner peace is being troubled, few days back you shared a post about deleting twinnys number. I feel you have to speak about how you feel to her, this might ease the tension.. Also you might be lacking something, might be love or companionship.. I hope it gets better |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Wife Just Got A Job by Trios(f): 12:13pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Am pleased to know, you are happy for your her success. More doors of blessings will open for you both. |
Family › Re: Christmas Giveaway by Trios(f): 9:19am On Dec 25, 2021 |
SamgoldBaba: superintendents VillageBus NaijaBoy213 Modupetemmy1 Trios undercurrent
Paste your user IDs I dont do bet.. Thanks |
Family › Re: Wish Someone Merry Christmas by Trios(f): 7:47am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Merry Christmas to you all |
Family › Re: Christmas Giveaway by Trios(f): 7:41am On Dec 25, 2021 |
SamgoldBaba: Merry Christmas fellas
Today is the birthday of our Lord Jesus
I wan do Xmas giveaway! Merry Christmas to you and your family Sir. Pls consider me.. Thanks Sir |
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 8:14pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Twaci: Sent to the first five successfully.
5 more and it’s finished Hello Sir.. I havent been lucky in any of your give aways. Pls consider me |
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 8:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
deen84: Hi 08107902884 MTN Hi. 08065231400. Thanks alot |
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 1:51pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Twaci: First of the dresses I’ll be giving out from my store 
It’s a size 10 (UK) but can fit a size 12 (UK)
You’ll be paying for your delivery please ��
Don’t collect what you won’t wear. God bless you Sir |
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway By Twaci (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 1:50pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
eddykaka: 08073343534 thanks God bless the givers |
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Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway Awareness Thread (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 6:13am On Dec 24, 2021 |
zicoraads: Not in Minna at the moment, the others are old ones. Not sure of the titles. But the Maryse ones are brand new. Thanks for finding the time to reply me.. I do appreciate |
Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway Awareness Thread (2021 Edition) by Trios(f): 9:00pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
zicoraads: I will give out books, old and new. Shoes and clothes, old and new. Raw rice and beans as well.
Location is Abuja or Minna. I will pick from the thread, please no one should send me a message, I will not reply.
Laveda, Hmmm. Been forever.
Well done Twaci.
Pocohantas, merry Christmas.  Interested in the books.. Can you share the authors or title pls? |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:56am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Adaanna: You're welcome. Thanks dear. I appreciate that you care |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:52am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Adaanna: Have sent it. Alert Seen. Thanks dear. U are a good person |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:51am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Adaanna: I will share with you the one he sent to me. He gave me double cos he skipped early so I will bless you with 1k. Oooh Thanks alot. I havent seen an alert though. May you be blessed |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:33am On Dec 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Ouchbabe post=108744286][/quote]May HIs soul rest in peace. U are indeed kind |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:31am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Oblongata: I will not send again today. Have a great Xmas all Pls dont quit Sir. God bless you for your kindness |
Family › Re: 1k X 20 Give Away For Christmas Celebration by Trios(f): 10:29am On Dec 23, 2021 |
2045721078 UBA.. Pls am a student.. Will be grateful. Am a muslim though. Do I qualify. God bless |
Family › Re: Christmas Giveaway 3k For 20 People by Trios(f): 7:10pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Will be grateful if am lucky.. It would help offset some bills. Thanks for your kindness |
Family › Re: What Can This Family Do? by Trios(f): 7:11pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
The truth remaina that, the poor will always breed more than they can cater for.. Sex is the only entertainment they enjoy.. Ratger than judge their already pitiable condition. Pls if you can help... Pls do so for GOD sake.. No one knows the fate of these kids... They could be brainy kids.. Please help if you can |