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Nothing, i will only clean up myself. After all, you poop or vomit for your mama clothes too.

It is possibly the work of A.I

From Let the poor breath crooner.

Bullet kill you there.

Phut:
This is true. Women are kind, not predatorial. Unlike the other gender, any sign of vulnerability, they pounce. 🙂

You never see women wey dey thief man money and valuables for that state?

veryanyhowperso:
Let's see what US have to say about the power plant

The U.S can do the same with their allies.

henkey:
VERY SAD.

Why can't DSS track these Animals called Band*t.
If someone criticize the President, you will see that DSS is active in tracking the person.

The annoying part it it is that the governmess don't take terrorism as a grievous crime.

Nnamdipapa:
She did not steal the Bible, nor did she did she steal the weed. The only problem I foresee here is if weed is illegal in her state, otherwise no issues.

Would you say the same thing if she used the unholy Quran to smoke weed?

This is a front page material. Nlfpm, don't ignore it.

ChristianMuslim:
Bayelsa have become so useless that the only news coming out from there is vibrator news

It's your State that has become so useless.

Bendeco02:
Am not Tinubu's fan but VDM deserve to be thought a lesson.

If that kind guy becomes president, he will be worse than tinubu.

How do you know that he would be worse than Tinubu? I know sometimes, he behaves childishly but he can never be worse than Tinubu because he has help alot of people and gave justice to poor helpless Nigerians who have been oppressed by wealth and influential people, of which Tinubu has failed to do.

They should dismiss the officer with immediate effect. This very cruel of her.

Husband don scarce sha. If not for poverty and some people's religious beliefs, polygamy would have been the solution to this. My opinion, don't take it personally.

DanOkonkwo:
The church is a sacred place of worship and fellowship with God,but recently it revealed that what we do in this nation as Christianity is just a show of performance.
From the recent win of Arsenal of the Priemier league after 22 years,it revealed that idolatry has taken a disguise in the church today.
Many church people including clergymen who should know better are hosting Thanksgiving service on behalf of Arsenal and even a preaching with Arsenal as a theme.
I don't have a problem with Arsenal winning the league, infact I celebrated them but not to have it take over a church service,the teaching or preaching of the Word unto something else.
There should be boundaries,there should be a limit to such things.
Do your celebration,yes, it's well deserved but when it becomes a topic in church and it intrudes into the sanctity of worship and reverence for God,then that's a problem,we are largely drifting in the Nigerian Church Landscape.
We have a long way to go.

Don't be too spiritual. All these are for fun. Besides, there is nothing wrong using Arsenal as a case study in conveying the word of God in as much as you are still in the track.

Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening, pls I need help on something
I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.

I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.

It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.

Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.

And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.

My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.

If you get married, you will no option than to change. Some of those rules you keep to yourself will be gone.

badoh:
Imagine the OP suggesting Fubara should rig election for his own brother. Many of you supporters of the opposition parties are only angry because you're not benefiting from the government in power. If you're encouraging a sitting governor to rig election for his brother, then why are you guys crying that the APC is rigging elections. If it favours you, you go keep mute but if it's the other way round na to deh accuse the ruling party. No difference between the opposition and the ruling party, everyone deh look for wetin dem go chop.

Why taking his words out of context? Where did he make that suggestion? When reading a person's post don't add and don't subtract.

Truthseeker10:
So God knew that Adam would disobey him before he Created Adam?

God knew but God gave man a free will i.e the power to make choices on his own. For example, you can go anywhere you want and do whatever you want. Can I stop you? No. You can decide to sin or not sin. But there is a consequence for every action.

MaxInDHouse:
In most cases when this question arises Bible readers often quote where God said He is the Alpha and Omega but they failed to consider the context of that title.

Does it mean God knows everything from the beginning to the end?

The answer is NO.

So why would He call Himself Alpha and Omega?

The reason is He has a purpose and so because He is the Almighty there is no hindrance to His purpose nothing can stop Him from achieving what He wants to do {Isaiah 55:10-11} that does not mean disturbance can't come His way but since He can handle everything nobody can stop Him from achieving His purpose.

God knows everything. Yes, but what you failed to understand is that
God gave man a free will. Man has the power to choose what he wants his life to be like. We are not like robots or God didn't create man as robots. Man is responsible for what is happening to man, not God. God said, "I set before you life and death". He employed man to choose life but man chose death.

mysticwarrior:
No he doesn't, when he was creating man he never knew he would one day regret it. He regretted creating man and destroyed the earth in the great flood.

When he made Saw the first king of Israel he never knew Saw would disobey his instructions.

When he was taking the Israelites out of Egypt he never knew they.would worship idols and he didn't knew he would end up killing many of them.

God knows everything. Yes, but what you failed to understand is that God gave man a free will. Man has the power to choose what he wants his life to be like. We are not like robots or God didn't create man as robots. Man is responsible for what is happening to man, not God. God said, "I set before you life and death". He employed man to choose life but man chose death.

A comedy skit indeed.

They should not allow people from infected countries to visit Nigeria.

When I saw the name"Blessing" I thought the person was a female.

OKON125:
Is MTN down?? Can someone say something

Their network has been misbehaving for long but I don't know why. Airtel is even the worse. You can barely use the data you subscribed for.

Kalulu44:
Good day ladies and gentlemen of the great NL house!
Before I go into the main gist. I want to first apologize to those who thinks I write stories too much and they're sometimes long and boring to them.
Let me introduce myself first. I'm a single father of 3 who lost his Benin wife to their Japa syndrome since 2010 and never seen or heard from till today.
By God's grace, after 20yrs of driving commercially to survive and train the kids, I formally retired last year. Not bcus the job wasn't lucrative, but bcus I was warned to stop after having some series of severe back pain, neck pain and leg pain.
Thankfully, before retiring I managed to win over a hired purchased bus that's fending for my 3 kids who are staying with my aunt who at 60+ doesn't have a husband nor a child.
Not wanting to stay idle, I currently work as a security personnel at a Guest House from 7pm to 11pm, while taking care of the owners house which is just beside it during the day. The owner is in US. So I practically stay in the big house all alone. Honestly there's no much work for me to do there other than weeding and cleaning the compound once every week. The rest of the day is just for eating, browsing and sleeping. Not wanting to be lonely and depressed is why I am almost online everyday, writing stories and gossips about my surroundings.
Like I always said, 90 to 95% of my stories are real life stories with the other percents like adding maggi, salt and spices to make it sweet or interesting.
I love writing, reading, driving, music, movies, sports especially football and watching documentary on history and biographies.
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Now to the main gist. I lived and work in an area fully surrounded by hostels occupied by students and youths working in Chinese companies in Ogun state.
Electricity in the area is epileptic and comes once every week. Luckily for me, due to the guest house, I have 24/7 light from either solar or generator which makes water abundance for me.
But the students and workers are not that lucky. So majority of them always looks for where to charge their phone and also gets water.
When lights come, they normally pump water in their hostels, but it doesn't last more than two days.
Like two to three compounds normally used generator to pump water where they always go to. Sometimes the owners of those places allows them, sometimes they rejecting them.
Another only source of water in the street is a well at the extreme end of the street, it's stressful for some of them.
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I started working where I am now January this year, but I always stay on my own and just observing the students and workers.
For me to make friends with some of them, I started getting water for some of them that usually greets me. If I see they have walked and walked looking for water and didn't see, I will just tell the person to drop his bucket and then go inside and get water from them.
But anytime I do this, they always thank me with sir sir.
One among them, who was learning hairdresser and selling men clothes online, approached me one day and begged for her to use my compound to make videos of her clothes.
I obliged her and ever since then which was February, we have been friends.
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With time I began to like her, but her constant good morning sir, good evening sir just like the other girls used to greet me always discouraged me from telling her my mind about her.
After Easter my phone got spoilt and for close to 3 weeks I didn't have chance to go to Lagos and repair it.
And it was the time my feelings for her became strong.
I didn't know how to approach her, so I used the opportunity of her giving me her phone to charge for her to write down my feelings for her on a sheet of paper and attached it at the back of her phone.
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When it was time to collect it, I told her there's a note I attached in her phone that she should read it. She collected it, thank me and bade me goodnight sir while bowing down a little as a Yoruba girl she's.
Hoping to get answer the next day, even though I was apprehensive on how she will take or react about it.
My people, this is 3 weeks now since I wrote that letter and she hasn't said anything or confronted me on why I wrote such notes.
But we have been greeting and talking to each other since the next day after the note till date, and both of us pretending such never happened.
I said to myself once I repair my phone, I will send her a msg asking what she thought about my note and why hasn't she replied.
I got my done last week, and I still don't have the courage to ask her both in person or thru msg.
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But there's a reason why I haven't.
In between those times my phone was still spoilt and the note sent to her. There was an electrician who came to do some repairs in my compound sent by my boss.
It was same time she too came to do videos of her clothes in my compound. The electrician told me he like her that I should run her for him. I told him I can't that he should go himself.
So he used the guise of wanting to buy her clothes and approached her.
I sha know they exchanged numbers.
This was 2 weeks ago, so last week when the electrician came to finish his work, he ask me of her. I told him I thought you collected his number the other day. He said he did, and that he has bought clothes of 30k from her.
But that when he tries to pushed further about dating her, she told him she has a guy.
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Hmmmm.... I heave to myself and asked him his next line of action. He said he'll pushed further. I just mutter the words ok o.
So since that last week, hearing she has a serious guy, (even though she hasn't brought any guy home or any man came looking for her unlike some of the other girls)
It just makes my resolve of asking her what she thinks about my note weak.
But we do see and talk everyday, but her constant "es'e sir, ekaro sir" always puts me off. I don't know if she's deliberately doing that so I will know she respects me as an elderly person. By the way she's 28 while I'm in my early 40s.
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To the other girls, I am getting closer to some of them. But they too wants to kill me with sir sir sir, and thereby knocking me off of asking any of them out. All these is bcus one of my child a girl who's 17 came to visit me one day.
But the truth is I am seriously lonely, bored and depressed at times. If not for NAIRALAND and Sportsnews and YouTube, only God knows what I would have done to myself. I really need one of them as an acquaintance and if it can lead to a serious relationship, I am ready for it.
Just that I don't know how to go about it with the over respect they're according me.
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So I am asking for womanology experts who knows how to go about this to give me some tips. The pictures attached to this post are mine, am I too old in the true sense of it or what. Cus physically I look young and agile to most of the guys I see some of them hang around with and I am not mincing words here. I will welcome any thoughts from you all, both insults and good advice.
After all I made the post to get engagement and discussion to kill off boredom.
Thanks and good day to you all once again.

From your long epistle, it is obvious you talk too much.

Turn your steering wheel to the right then reverse slowly.

saintneo:
now silent

how times have changed

This is where tribalism comes in. In BATeria's govt, she kept mute. Tribalism and Religious sentiment is ruining this miserable country.

The Renewed hopelessness at work.

Development my foot.

SaintLucia:
He critized Jonathan and didn't defame him.
How can an idiot woke up and post on his X that someone child is dead because of social media validation even when you know the story is not true. That is not freedom of speech but freedom to jail.

Professor in English, he didn't critize Jonathan but defamed him. Oya, explain the difference.

paxonel:
If there are more disasters in these countries than what is happening in Nigeria today, many Nigerians will not want to jappa.

Similarly, if Nigerian government fix roads and good public healthcare, accident rates and sickness will be reduced and no church will have any reason to cadjole people to praise God because their case is different sick people in hospitals

Aside the Nigerian crisis, things like these have been foretold in the Bible e.g hardship, hunger, killing etc. Mind you, the foreign countries you are hyping are also experiencing challenges like war, hunger, death, hike in prices etc. Although, I am in anyway supporting this useless government we have now.

Fashola did exploit with the taxes Lagosians paid. What have done with the taxes Nigerians paid to you? Thief.