obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

PaperLace:
For the sake of people that can't read.
1)There is a man
2)He has a wife_ an adulterous wife.
3)He is aware.
4)His wife is aware that he is aware..
5)His people are also aware.
6)They both know that they are aware.
7)They are childless
8 )He doesn't wanna take actions against his wife.

9) It's either
a:He is impotent
b:He is sterile
c:He has a dark secret his wife is aware of.
d:He has an unusual forgiving spirit.
e:He is planning a heavy revenge
f: All of the above.