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Ishilove:
The girl wants to eat her cake and have it. You sef you don't know what you're doing.

You will know what to do when you wake up from your slumber.

Hmmmm

Diddyydiva:
you are welcome


the writings is clear on the wall , you are just blindfolded by emotions to see it.



fall in love but take your brain with you

Seems u seeing my heart o. I don't want to believe I can't have her. The emotions is what is blindfolding me. But now that everyone is against this. Its time to see the right thing. I think this Service Year should help create a distance and clear my head.

Diddyydiva:
I will advise you end the relationship, Go somewhere far to clear your head.

If you ask her to choose between you and the other guy, she may choose you not to disappoint you. A woman who is truly in love, loves completely.

Don't be surprised if she goes back to the second guy after marrying you .



I see the lady as an opportunist .



Simple

Hmmmm this really sinks in.
Thanks for the advice dear.
This is true...
Some times ago when I wanted to force her to leave the guy and choose me, she told me not to force her to leave the other guy that she might tell me she's broken up with the other guy and won't, that she doesn't want to lie to me that we should just keep this going and forget about that.

Fraih:
Nkan ti ooo ni je, maa fi runmu...

What you would not eat, dont smell it.

Op, let her go!

Thx for your comment. I am just been awoken to different views of people.

any more advice's?

I need more comments please..

Sommey:
OP no disrespect meant but just own up to the fact that you are guys are just catching fun and not dating. You confuse sex for love probably both of you enjoy each other in bedmatically.

This is more than jusy catching fun to me.

Posipoza:
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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Chai! Just see some girls!

Comfortably sharing her punna with two guys without stress and one of the guy even knows.

How do some guys comfortably play second fiddle? [/color]

I am sure even the other guy knows we dating because there was a day I tot i was chatting with her only for it to be the guy chatting up because she was at his place. The next day I asked her of our chats she said she didn't chat with me and the chats deleted from her phone.!

Our pictures are all up on her IG page and the other guy is also a follower to her on IG.

libertyfather:
Listen to the Prophet, not all that glitters is gold...chikena

How am I sure that the prophet is seeing the right thing or saying the right thing. ??

You know what I mean? So many fakes out here and had heard a lot of stories about fake pastors and prophets.

xpac01:
Op answer this question before I give you my piece of cent: she dey give you kpomo chop

Yes she dey give me kpomo chop.

Omotayor123:
OP it's simple... Tell her to choose between you and the other guy. It's high time she decides. Enough of the game

I wonder why you go into a relationship with someone who is already in love with another.. You should be expecting this

Thanks for your contribution.

takoi:
She doesn't love you and she's just playing with your heart.
You better move on. Make sure u don't serve in d same with her. The distance will help u clear your head and ur heart.
Girls who do things like this are most often unstable and wicked.

Thanks for your contribution..

I need more advices or comments pls.
Thanks you all.

dollyjoy:
Guys like this still dey dis life?oghene!!!

Yes we still dey.

I started dating girl last year, she's my course mate and we started dating in our 300L/400L. She told me from the beginning she had a boyfriend but then because I was eager to be in a relationship i didn't see it a issue because the guy in question was a graduate as at our 300L and he was out of the school. The guy in question has a daughter from onother woman but they ain't together all know to my girlfriend too. To cut the story short, I am really in love with this girl. I can hardly do few minutes without thinking about her. She knows i love her too. Even our friends knows how we are so much fond of ourselves. Fast forward, I am beginning to be so much jealous of this guy because she's still dating him till now. I have tried to also double date but in the end I end up cutting of the relationships because I am so obsessed with my girlfriend and can't even share that love I have for her with someone else. She cant stand me having another girl, if she suspects me and anygirl she's always sad and unhappy. There was a day she cried when she read my conversation with a girl i tried dating. She doesnt want tlo lose me too. She loves me too but i love her more. Even tho we do fight, no disagreement has lasted for more than 2 weeks. We will always get back togeda. We miss each other so much.
She's supportive to me, she doesn't demand for money or material things, she's brilliant too we had just graduated each with Second Class Upper. She's a wife material and I wouldn't mind marrying her. But am always sad because I don't know if shes got me in her plans because a couple of times I had made her to choose between myself and the guy and she wouldn't . she just wants us to continue this way.
A month ago when in church(I attend celestial church) I was told by a prophet that she isn't my wife. But I still love this girl even more than I did because I love her more daily. My Dad was also present the prophet was delivering the message butbhe told me not to chase her because she knows we dating and how much we love each other.
I don't want to lose the relationship.
Even as we are going for NYSC now, she wants us to serve in the same place.

My Question now is should I continue this relationship?
Should I find someone else as a main girl and see her as a side chick?
Should I disregard the prophets saying (Phrophecies could be wrong sometimes tho) and am not that a spiritual person o.
What questions can I ask her ?
How do I know she really loves me and worth the sacrifices?