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This is not new these days. It may be because of a post you made that just got flagged.

Online censorship is now very real. The One World Order is here!

Have you checked medically if you can father a child?! The problem may not be her. Both of you should check if either or both of you have any medical conditions causing childbearing issues.

Simps deserve what they get!

Ameduedwin:
Good afternoon house, I will like to be brief here.

I am about to take my wife home to her parents even though her both parents are dead, I married this lady 2019 with two kids, fast forward to 2020, immediately this lady delivered her first child, she changed, started misbehaving, talking back at me, with insult, nagging and all sort of aggressiveness towards me.

I call some few members of my family to come and talk to her, after talking it didn't yield useful result, in many case, this girl doesn't want me to touch her sexually, I have to manage her like that for seven years now, but now I have fed up with her character and I have decided to take her home to her parents house.

As of now nobody in her mother's room now, the room is under lock and key, and only their step mother that is in the compound for now.

My worries is my children, am I not exposing them to some danger of any kind? As for my wife she doesn't fill remorse at all, she have already started preparing her belongings to travel maybe because she knew my children are so glue to me, she thinks I can't send them home.

What did you advice me to do in this case. Thanks you all..

Regina, just like old time hoes regretting similar foolishness, you will learn!

Foolishness has consequences. In this present day Nigeria, you are helping random people? Even people you know well and can trace their roots will mess you up without flinching!
Secondly, unless you did not sleep with her throughout her stay with you, if you did? You deserve her treatment. You decided to be a simp who saw an opportunity for free coochie and lost his guard.
Unwise simps will always learn the hard way.

Immediately I saw the title, I was hoping it will be factual and not for illiterates.
You MUST denominate Nigerian debt in USD to be unbiased. Any other rubbish analysis is for politics and illiterates.

Na this season of photo op we Dey. Nigerian mumu na the highest grade!

Believe whatever the government tells you at your own peril. Instead of this rubbish admission of error by a non military personnel, the entire Nigerian military should be APOLOGIZING for misleading and misinforming Nigerians. In saner climes, this ‘error’ will have severe repercussions on everyone involved from top to bottom.

The US had a base in Niger Republic until 2024, it did not eliminate terrorism o. Let them continue to assist from outside IMO.

BarrElChapo:
I must confess that for terrorism to end in Nigeria, the US has to have a base in Nigeria. More like in the North East.

Asking this question shows this is fake. Real hunters know this animal cannot be hunted. It is forbidden to hunt Pregnant or Birthing game. All hunters know this.

I don’t believe these institutions anymore. They are all tools in the hands of the neo-colonialists.

Rubbish post. Who knows if she hit her father 1st? Most times, these women are the aggressors, but because their body exaggerates bruises, it looks like the man was disproportionately violent.
I don’t trust any woman until I get the full story from both parties in a story that involves a woman!

Don’t put your house in order o! Be making outrageous threats and don’t meet the legal/ regulatory requirements o.
Just Dey play , expecting power to land in your laps. Birds of same feathers.

This is a very foolish post, and doesn’t deserve FP.
If this is true, clearly this is a childish declaration from a ‘so called’ CEO.
How does any serious ’CEO’ openly show political bias?
If an APC supporter applies, how will she know? Will an applicant declare his/her political affiliation on their CV?
Will she demand to know an applicant’s political affiliation in the interview?

This post is very stupid. How will a 50yr old not have a job. Even if it is a menial job. While one works towards a good job, there MUST be something you are doing to be responsible.
If you just sit down doing nothing all day, why should you be looking for love and not a job?!

Weak men who are sold the lie of forced monogamy behave like Davido.

She is learning from a traditional trainer, so terms and conditions apply.
If the man doesn’t want traditional treatment for his wife, he should send her to a modern training school.

This story should not be on front page. The situation has since changed!

This man is full of lies! Na so he said he is hungry! He doesn’t even realize how ridiculous he sounds most times.
This is not the best the SS or ADC can produce.

Menopause is setting in and panic has began! Women never learn to bag the best man between 21-25. After then, a woman is left over food and must manage what she gets.

What kind of headline is this? It is 2 not 3 parties na!

This is the beat thing that can happen to Nigerian journalism. Presenters, interviewers and hosts have become a joke!

Stop responding to my response to him too, ‘drop your own opinion and move on’.

I hope you see how your logic sounds?

lightwind:
Stop attacking the guy, drop your own opinion and move on

I can’t believe how uneducated your post is.
FYI, Kwara is a Yoruba state, but a NORTH CENTRAL state.
Your high school teacher must be very proud of you! 🫤

esnbrutality:
Kwara is not SW again..?

We didn't see SE or SS.

Anyway..una cho cho cho don cast una.

From your choice of words & insult, I can clearly see how you were raised.

ravensckar:
It's like your brain is paining you?

So, a man can't control his sexual urge for just a few months while his wife is recovering from a near-death experience? No use this kind brain cross road o. It's people like you that makes me feel ashamed of being called a man.

The truth is that Polygamy won't solve a man's uncontrolled sexual desire; only self discipline will. Any man that can't control his sexual urge is no different from a wild animal.

In about 10 years of my marriage, I've had countless female relatives (both from my side & my wife's) stay with us. And not even for once have I ever looked at them the wrong way talk less of touching them. Shame for don kill me. We've had grown up ladies as maids, some of my wife's friends have at one point in time stayed with us. Nothing! There are certain lines that a man should never cross. Haba nau! A 19 year old maid in your house?

One of the first things my dad taught us (while growing up) was to have self discipline when it comes to money or women. And I still thank God for that.

We too dey condone nonsense in this country. In a saner clime, that man would be rotting in prison by now. And that will make another animal think twice before committing such atrocity.

The woman shouldn't hesistate to leave the animal. He's a threat to their children. If he could assault a helpless 19 year old maid in his house, then I doubt his daughter will be safe from his perverted mind. Shameless He-goat!

#Spits

Monogamy is the problem. Marriages face difficulties when the woman gives birth because she no longer meets the sexual needs of the man (due to trauma, increased chores, etc) or vag1nal childbirth changes the anatomy of the private part and losens it (with herbs and kegel exercise this can be corrected over a long time). Men marry multiple women so that while the childbearing wife fully recovers, her co-wife helps out sexually and visa versa. This is how the sanity of marriage was stabilized in several cultures over thousands of years… until the West cooked up the evil that polygamy is bad.
The man committed a crime if he SAed the maid. If SA is established, he should be punished or the maid heavily compensated. On the other hand, I recommend you fight for your marriage. Don’t continue the circle of divorce at the slightest reason. Remember what happened when your mum divorced your dad. This is not to say you should stay if your man continues to be a monster, but your marriage is still worth saving for the kids sake.
I recommend that society embraces polygamy to reduce these kinds of incidents in marriage. The West sold the world the lie of monogamy and we all need to change our worldview about this lie from hell demonizing polygamy.

These ugly girls do the most!

Believe these girls at your expense!

This overhyped governor who released boko haram terrorist back into the community in the name of amnesty should never be taken seriously.
He is responsible for the killing and destruction these released boko haram devils did after their release.

Unless he gave her the substance that unalived her or took her to where they gave her what unalived her, arresting him because he dated her and impregnated her is senseless.