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Are u alright? Has it gotten to this level... I'm not like that bro....

edogu:
If this narration is true, you need to be arrested. People like you are the type that uses ladies' nvde pictures to blackmail them.

Hmmmm

AcadaWriter0:
Absolutely! It's a lovely little snippet of delightful, utterly charming, and utterly predictable romance. Nothing to disagree with at all.

Noted...that's not what I represent....

Guyman02:
Your chances of becoming a r@pist and killerr like the guy who beheaded that nursing student for refusing his advances is high, it's not good for a man to lack self control, you are still very young from your tone of writing, when a woman tells you she has moved on also learn to quickly move on

Thanks, but you fail to understand how I feel

decatalyst:
No.

I think he is mad.

I'm out already

Countersam:
But you seem to be tempting her knowing fully well that she has answered her call

No now? Jail? Noo ! God forbid... I've learnt my lesson and now I've realized she never loved me from the on set..... We can now be sworn enemies cos this that she has done will not leave my memories in a jiffy....

keemsleek:
Even If your story is real.... remember I told you that you will end up in prision,that light has got nothing to do with darkness.


I hope when next you will be typing, it's either from prison or behind the bar or from home when you back. Don't forget to update us.


ETHAN of mission impossible.

Hmmm. She was indeed prepared.... I've learnt my lesson

FitCorper:
I like the fact you didn’t generalize. This guy is messing up a lot but lust Can’t let him see this. Babe prepared for every worse scenario

Thanks brother... I really appreciate your help.....I'll do just that

essentialone:
I know how angry and hurt you are right now. But let’s cut straight to the legal reality, because “court bailiff already contacted you” means this is serious and you need to move carefully.

1. Did you commit a punishable offence?
Under Nigerian law, asking for sex is not automatically a crime. But how and in what context you asked it matters:

- If you sent that “goodbye sex” request after she’d told you she moved on, and especially if it was repeated, unwanted, or came with pressure, it can fall under sexual harassment.
- Section 360 of the Criminal Code and Section 208 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, plus the Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act 2015, cover unwanted sexual advances that cause distress, intimidation, or humiliation.
- If she feels threatened or harassed, she can file a complaint. Police or courts can summon you to explain your message. That’s likely why a bailiff contacted you.

So yes, there’s a risk of civil or criminal action if she pursues it. “It was just a joke” isn’t a defense if she felt harassed.

2. Threatening her back or falsely accusing her of seduction
Don’t do this. Filing a false accusation with the Mother General, Reverend Father, or police is criminal defamation and giving false information to authorities. Under Section 393 of the Criminal Code, that’s punishable. It will make your situation worse, not better.

3. Her threatening to report your parents to the church
If she actually goes to your parish and makes false claims about your parents to get them barred from Communion, that’s also defamatory. But you can’t counter it by threatening her. Deal with your own case first.

What you should do right now:

- Don’t contact her again. No texts, calls, threats. Anything you send now can be used against you.
- Get a lawyer immediately. If a bailiff contacted you, there’s likely a summons or petition. A lawyer can tell you what you’re being charged with and how to respond. If you can’t afford one, go to Legal Aid Council in your state.
- Keep evidence. Save all messages between you two, including where she ended things. Your lawyer will need context.
- Apologize only through your lawyer if advised. Don’t send another emotional message yourself.

I know it feels like she changed and is being “wicked”. But legally, the issue isn’t whether she still loves you. It’s whether your last request crossed into harassment under the law.

You messed up by letting hurt push you to ask that. Own that with a lawyer, don’t compound it with threats or false counter-accusations.

Beating? How? But I've realized my mistake... I got she truly loved me then but now I know better......

CJStarz:
You deserve better beating, walahi

No now! Bro!! I did not force her o....

Countersam:
If you cannot respect her nunship then we will escort you to jail.

Noted... Thanks

Ivimmanuel:
If I be that girl brother I go leave every thing for this life carry your matter for head. You are a wicked man, I am certain you never had good plans for her and now she's chosen another path you won't let her be. Leave the lady alone.

No problems I'll sign it if she backs down on that case....

poshestmina:
She didn't have sex with you since and now you want her to defile herself and covenant to God to please you?

Them use f^^k swear for some of una?
She should get you arrested and made to sign Restrictions order.

I'm sorry , I messed up!! Your advice please

budaatum:
I think you are 9 years old and need to grow up some.

A mature you would understand how much you are messing up already and go get better priorities.

Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

Chai guy, e pain me oh ........

Meteng:
I hope you knacked her sufficiently enough when she wasn’t a nun. If you did, you go still knack am, but if you didn’t, otilor. That’s why I always advise, hit while the iron is hot, no delay, else you may regret it

Oga forget that thing.... She was in a relationship with me, I'm not objecting her becoming a nun.... She should have told me before joining at least .... Ad a guy you claim to love.... If u were in my shoes what will you do?

terrezo2002:
Thank God she didn't settle with you. Your true nature is what you are exhibiting now. She has not wronged you. I wonder why she is asking for forgiveness. The fact you knew she is a Nun and you still want to have sex with her shows you are only infatuated and do not really love her.
My advice for you is to go and beg forgiveness from those you broke their hearts in the name of revenge mission. If you don't, I can tell you for free that what awaits you in the future, you wouldn't wish it for even your enemy.

😀😀 ... Imagine

Tenrack:
how old are you? Your original write up sounds like it was composed by a Kindergarten kid.

Yes my guy! Na platonic oh..... All of a sudden she join Nun without informing the guy you claim you love....... Imagine

galantjoe:
I dey with you
Knack her 1, 2, 3

At least to reset your thinking



Probably you guys are doing platonic friendship then

Good one....thanks nro

marlow1962:
As long as it has to do with a female, you will definitely experience one or two. That's just how life has program it.
You experience it till you get the right one. Even with the right one, there's still possibility to experience some more.
If it worth it, try and sort it out. If it doesn't worth the hassle, bro move on and forget about it/her. And remove anything like " na to nack her dy my mind" if the relationship didn't work out.

Hmmm.... Well said bro

AllBlack:
See. if I should ELABORATE and start giving extensive talk it wouldn't be needed because 95% relationship advices end up in the recycle bin and walahi me no get power to type plenty wey you no go use.

So that's why I simplified it to something that I know will definitely happen, "You will outgrow it". Even men wey their woman leave two weeks to marriage follow another man... dem no die, the babe no die, the world keeps rotating and it all is just another story IN THE PAST.

Face front.

Hmmm. Is this your advise?

AllBlack:
You will outgrow all this one day.

For now, keep sucking your finger.

How?

IamAsiri:
Such disgust 😬.

How! Be more explicit

marlow1962:
You have experienced your first one, now you will experience your second, third, fourth and the cycle continues.

If after years of no communication from someone that claims they love you and all of a sudden starts calling you and you start answering, claiming it's love, then there must be something wrong with you.

Hmmm. Happy for you bro...😭😭😭

dawnomike:
I understand sha... I have once been in that situation and I know how the thing pained me no be small.

Today, I am happily married to a woman I love no be small.

I love her .... What do u want me do? I'm feeling as if I was fooled all this year's... Hope you'll understand why I want to take this decision.... You are a human too

QuinQQ:
Not true. People who had pure love for someone or something don't behave like you are behaving

I can't lie... Immediately I saw her again the pain I felt seeing her in that uniform broke me, made me hate her the more... I'll try and reflect on my decision again... But..... Haar.....

QuinQQ:
And how do you know the priests are fucking her and even if they are, must you join in??

Hmmm... Bro... I'm pained... It's not easy for me bro. She did not tell me before joining as a man u claim you love....

dawnomike:
Mo I'm just still thinking... Why can't you just let go!!!
I belive you guys are older now, hear her out accept dlthe apology and move on!!! It will cost you nothing that any longer.

I'm feeling the pain of being fooled all this year's ... Damn... I had pure love for her bro... I'm pained

QuinQQ:
Fine. Just know you never truly loved her. Love doesn't work like that. There have been many people throughout history who loved each other throughout their lives but never had sex or never even physically met! See some below

She met me first, is the father's there not dlfucking her? I cannot love again she did that to me, now I can't trust any lady....

Mariangeles:
I been dey pity you, until I read this part.



Come! You no dey fear God? 😲

Which kind men we get for this generation sef, ehn?
You wan follow God drag woman. Fear no dey catch you.

May God continue to hide His daughters under His shadow, that men with bad intentions would have to go through God to get to them.

That's your view bro.... I will knack her by all means... We never had sex cos we promised to wait after marriage..... I'm pained

QuinQQ:
If you loved her, her appearance again and possibility of being with her again will overwhelm everything else. Your main concern won't be sex. Even if you suffered for 10.years what you had for her was not love.
Imagine a mother who lost her child and he suddenly appears again after 6 years; or the prodigal son in the Bible

That's your own view.., I go knack her for the pain she caused me....

keemsleek:
Her asking for forgiveness is not to come closer. What has light got to do with darkness, old things have passed away. She just felt she didn't tell she that she has moved on so she wanted to apologise for that