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victooman:
Firstly if you are convince that masturbation is normal and healthy for you l will advice you skip this thread.
Sometime last year l created a thread with my former account "Vick4rill" were l complain bitterly on how masturbation is ruining my life and l got alot of advice and help from nairalanders, but the irony is that l ended up masturbating three times that night . l gave up and continue since then.
Now before l continue l will like to point out something regarding masturbation about the health practitioners and doctors that l dont like or understand. is either most health practitioners does not have an indept knowledge about the havoc that comes with masturbation or they are not been sincere about the negative effect of masturbation, Try googling the negative effect of masturbation and most articles will end up encouraging you to continue rather than stopping it.
l am 26yrs now and l started masturbating far back in 2005 when l was just 10yrs ,l started masturbating once or twice a week before it excalated to 4 to 5 times a day, there is nothing that is addictive as masturbation.
Since 2005 l had masturbated for a minimum of three times everyday, my life was a complete mess.
It seems as if my productive life ended at 9yrs because from the time l started this habit l did not understand myself again.
l experience the following during this years

1) Depression: Anger for no just reason,

2) Anxiety: despite been an extrovert and a lively person l find it hard to to maintain my confidence, l can't look people inside the eyes and sometimes feel tense for no just reason.

3) laziness: l become very lazy without even knowing, after masturbating l just want to lie on the bed all day and do nothing,

4) weak erection: After spending money to get a girl for sex l find it hard to sustain an erection , it got to a time l start using viagra just to maintain an erection.

5) poor memory loss.. my retentive memory becomes very poor, l find it hard to retain or do anything with my brain.

6) Rejection: l was constantly rejected by the female folks, no woman feel attracted to me,is either l am friendzone or cut off,

These and many more was what l experience. But l gave all the reasons in the world to believe that masturbation has nothing to do with this.
April this year l took a decision to end this and with all the will in me l set a 2 week target not to masturbate, the two weeks was the worst two weeks of my life because l was more into depression. my whole body wanted to do it, but after two weeks l added another two weeks again l don't know were the strength came from,after a month l started noticing changes in my body,

1) l became less depressed, l smile more and interract more,

2) l became more productive: initially all l do with my phone is watch porn and watch online videos, now l know more about fiver, upwork, crpto and online business that will fetch me more money, l exercise and accomplish task far easier.

3) Attraction increase: were l am serving now the attraction from the female is alarming, l begin to wonder if l was not the same guy last year who will not mind having a handicap as a girlfriend due to rejection.

For the first time in my life last two weeks l was able to sustain an erection and ejaculate inside a woman, l never know sex can be this sweet,, in fact it seems as if l just started living for this period of months. as a corper my finances has increase even with the small allawee, l now have more money in my account than when l was doing 40k job .
Many people will give u reasons to continue with this habit but l will encourage you to quit and sincerely observe yourself, l am not religious but l have this feeling that masturbation is demonic, most times it have nothing to do with your libido is more of a compulsion. start with one a day and it becomes a part of your life. quit masturbation ,quit porn forget about any benefit you read on the internet.

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Please I'm battling with the same addiction for some years now. Please I need your help on how you stop your own please sir.
I'm facing Al of the effect you are mentioning there too
I will like to hear from you

end1999constitu:
You can....but how many monikas you sef get here?

Sorry I don't understand the monikas you are talking about.

end1999constitu:
It's so annoying, I've had similar experience at last one man helped me with one jazz and that woman returned my mony direct to my Bank account without further delay......police are thieves, if you're serious write me on celorbits@gmail.com for the assistance you need

Please I have sent you a mail.
But please can I drop my number here

MarveworldG:
Have you reported to EFCC?
Please do so if you say the money is huge

No I'm afraid oooo.
The money is 100k please should I go ahead if yes I don't know the procedure.
Thanks so much

Please I need serious help and advice, I wish this get to the front page.
Please how can I arrest or get a guy who scammed me of a very huge amount since last year December uptil now he doesn't want to pay me any amount I'm really suffering right now because of him.
He is my ex school mates, he told me he is into POS business, that he has 3 stands he is operating on. He showed me one point which I later found out it's was his own.
So he invited me to invest that he will give me a point in my village with a POS machine and the stand. I met him and transfer huge amount to him since December last year. Uptil now he doesn't give me the POS or return my money.
I met with a police guy to arrest him but the guy too scammed me of 10k complained at the station which he didn't do.
Please I have every evidence in my phone but I need help on to get him please. He the scammer told me that he is popular with police in his area so if he is arrested he will be bailed out without paying me the money.
Please anyone withone with idea please should help me I'm really suffering right now. I wanted to open my fashion shop with the money or the return from the business. But right now everything is stangnant I will reward anyone who helped me out please.
If you need my number or his number I will provide.
Please help a young guy please.

I'm dying ooooooo.
A guy scammed me of huge amount of money since last year December. Because of that I'm broke. No one to help me.
Please can anyone tell me how to get him. I mean the scammer arrested.
Note I know where he stays. He is not picking my calls but he is from my local government. I know his family house.���

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ArisingStorm:
Firstly, if you are a smoker, an advice : start eating as much fruits as you can till you overcome the addiction. Smoking is a fast way of killing the body cells, infact, very fast. All these post of smokers are liable to die young ain't a joke. Eat fruits and drink water adequately(I trust smokers, them no go believe ) .

I started smoking marijuana when I was in my Final year back in school (if I had started earlier, for me o, I don't think I can graduate). In the beginning, it was all fun, the journey was blissful, no problems, just a young man enjoying his life on a lowkey. I was introduced by my friends of course, they introduced me like joke like joke. Then I started smoking continuously like joke like joke. The feeling was good, like really good. I don't do all this Tramadol, Refnol and all other drugs (they are actually all the same thing). I always tell them (friends) it's chemical that weed is natural (God made it). I don't really like alcohol too (I always say they are damaging their liver). I can defend weed with my life. I will bring out health tips and benefits of weed. I was a brand ambassador of weed.

Mind you, if you see me, You wouldn't know I smoke marijuana, that's a trait of weed smokers (don't be deceived thinking all weed smokers have a thick voice or always look like thugs on the street). Very secretive because we know people will judge us and say stuffs like "haa your life don spoil, haa your life don finish (tho this is not true, The life is actually finishing gradually on a slope).

I smoked all through final year, I smoked even before going for final defense. Weed was like a best friend (didn't know it has turned to idol, that's always the end point). There are two types of weed smokers:

-the loners (they mostly like smoking alone),
-the group smokers (they mostly like smoking with friends).

I was mostly a loner. After graduating, when at home, weed was starting to be of less effect on me, the thing does not do me anything again, so I climb the ladder. I started with SK, a higher level. At this point, been an educated smoker that cares about his health, I started getting worried because I personally knew I was damaging my lungs (all smokers knows this but choose to ignore).

I decided to buy a vape pen (its a device for smoking with less smoke). The original was 45k, the chinese brand was 15k. I bought chinese. I used it for a while. Then I realize this vape pen can blow anytime and I will just die. I just went back to my smoking of blunt (the normal paper weed = roasting of lungs). At this stage, I forget things easily, my decision making was poor, my financial management extremely poor, I started becoming an I don't care kinda person, I started getting dehydrated easily, my body system started changing because of the smoke, my productivity was getting low. It affected my finances, I am always broke, it affected my relationship, it affected my whole life.

Weed smokers always have supporting strikers (this are bad habits that the weed gives inspiration/ginger/vibes to do). It can be sex, masturbation (Pornography), gambling, playing games, wasting time doing nothing (scrolling social media/internet) etc. I was a gambler and self service personnel. Things wasn't going well, mind you, You won't be able to tell anybody, You will just hide it to yourself. Depression gang arrived (drugs always lead to depression in the end).

NOTE : The moment I started thinking of quitting weed smoking, that is when it was as if world war 7 just started in my life. If you are a smoker reading this, and you are still enjoying it, You won't have any problem, but the moment you start trying to quit, chaiii, its when the battle just start, just go and wear armor.

The struggling started, I will stop for three days, am back, I will stop for 1wk, I am back, there was this time I stopped for Six good months. I started praying then and getting serious with my spiritual life. I was already like, finally, I don escape. I don't know shaa, I find myself dere again, this time, it was crazy. I smoked SK till I started not feeling anything again. I then climbed the ladder to "loud". At this stage, I wasn't happy with my life personally, but I can't stop. I didn't give up, I wouldn't lie to you, I received grace from above to be able to overcome, sincerely. All praises to My Maker. Now, if you like, put weed in my front, I will just be looking at you.

Conclusion: Trust me, You gonna lose opportunities taking drugs because you would be too high to see opportunities. Mindset is all that matters. You will need to distance yourself from those friends. Weed will always make you feel like the world is crumbling and that you should not stress yourself and just smoke. It will make you take stupid risks. It will change your attitude. If you want, You can be religious and also an hypocrite but the truth is Don't decieve yourself, any addiction you have, face it, be fearless, and don't give up, You will overcome!!!. I will gladly answer any questions. Many are feeling the vibes of weed now, sincerely, they don't know that it is an institution. Parents check your kids because they will never tell you. I told my mum when I overcame by grace, she was just crying, I was just looking at her like, why is this woman crying.

Any Addiction you have on earth, Don't give up, You are not a Slave. Be Fearless!

Please know this as well, all those inspirations, thoughts, vibes that comes when high is from Demons/unclean spirit(I am 100% sure). If you want me to go Spiritual, I will gladly explain, just quote me.

Thank you. APTTMH.

hi good evening sir. thanks for your help. I really appreciate your encouragement, although I'm not a smoker. but I'm struggling to end pornography and masturbation for 4 years now. I don't if you can be of any help

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