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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 1:00pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


There are gay people in Nigeria where I am from. There are tranvestites. Bobrisky is one of them and I’m sure there are others out there.
People will write, swear and curse but the likes of Bobrisky is out there having fun and he has huge fans and following as well.
There is Chichi Igbo somewhere in the Scandinavia. She’s Nigerian as well.
There are lots of atheists. Today is Sunday and I haven’t been to any church, I can’t even remember the last time I went.

Your stereotype that black people generalise doesn’t hold any water but I’m not here to defend anyone.
I can’t cure or remove the bigotry in you which prevents you from seeing what you have done wrong with regards to the photo incident which is one of the reasons you got my attention.

yes, i do believe black counties a good example of protecting human rights . it is not my conscience that aches. whatever.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:55pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



So the Chinese and the Koreans share similar culture as you especially when it comes to taking photos??

told you before, this phenomenon only happens in africa.

i am not taking close-ups . why should i ask permission ?

i am not a pretentious caucasian tourist, who likes close-ups, with a bunch of candies or small notes in his pockets .
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:54pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Go take your medication, come back and let’s have a conversation.
You are falling apart and it’s not good for you.

Take whatever keeps your sanity together and write coherently.

can your culture override mine ? answer me !

and being a guest myself, i think i should enjoy some hospitality , at least let me have some liberty to TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED .

i will take snapping photos without asking for granted. sure, everybody who is not happy with my behavior, can challenge me. but that is not your business. i would cancel the photo right at that moment, or give some money to that person, which i have never done , it is just an imaginary scenario .

but since the photo has been taken, and the fact is out there : black ones narrow minded, not hospitable. and so, i say what i experience.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:45pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



That’s why I called you rude, obnoxious and unrepentant. Your culture should not over ride another persons way of life.
If you call infringing on another person’s privacy in her own space and in her own environment ‘your right to exercise your culture’ acceptable, then I say to you, you have more issues than I pointed out in my my comments.

How can you leave you enclave, enter another person’s space, attempt to force that person to comply and accept your rudeness?

Your acceptance of photo taking without objecting which is your culture ends once you are out of japan. Do the Chinese and Koreans share such culture with you? Can you take the photos of South Korean women or Chinese women without asking first? Can you fly to North Korea and take photos with your camera?

Answer me.

if i am a man, i will not even ask a woman , younger than 30 , to be photographed by me.

if i am a woman, i will just snap her without asking , especially when she is a shopowner . she is supposed to be aware that the interest of me is not just for her but for a whole thing she is doing , which she is part of.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:36pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



That’s why I called you rude, obnoxious and unrepentant. Your culture should not over ride another persons way of life.
If you call infringing on another person’s privacy in her own space and in her own environment ‘your right to exercise your culture’ acceptable, then I say to you, you have more issues than I pointed out in my my comments.

How can you leave you enclave, enter another person’s space, attempt to force that person to comply and accept your rudeness?

Your acceptance of photo taking without objecting which is your culture ends once you are out of japan. Do the Chinese and Koreans share such culture with you? Can you take the photos of South Korean women or Chinese women without asking first? Can you fly to North Korea and take photos with your camera?

Answer me.

then your culture should override mine ?

on the contrary, in a country which is NOT rude, obnoxious and unrepentant , people over there snap photos of each other, without asking a permission.

in a society of real, true, sincere , trustful communication, nothing is more natural than to make a grimace or smile when find out being photographed.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Are you aware that those who apparently ‘attack’ you might not be more than 3-4 people?
You are highly insecure. What’s atheism got to do with this? Do you think blacks are not atheists too? How old are you by the way?

3 kinds of people black guys hate most, but maybe some hypocrites hide themsevels better :

1) gay people (i am a suspicious one, in romance column. being mysterious, i enjoy my status a lot )

2) atheists ( i am sure one them )

3) racists (being a white people, i am automatically branded to be one )

the fun to be a troll , is to incense the bigotry, and to be a hero accordingly.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:22pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



In my post, I never mentioned ‘black’. I said you should seek permission before you take photos and if someone objects, you should stop. You are the rude and obnoxious person here. That’s the reason I quoted you. It’s not about being black or white...I just need to remind you as I can see that you suffer amnesia.

Yes if you do same to a white individual and he or she protests,
you should stop. In fact before you do that you should ask first.
If you didn’t and they protest like the woman, you should apologise and leave them alone. Did you apologise? No? Remind me again that in japan it’s rude for someone to refuse taking photo. That means that a certain troll by name ‘Ugandanlady’ can even go to Saudi Arabia and take anyone’s picture and if they refuse, they would be termed disrespectful because as you said you are Japanese and in Japan everyone must take photo whether they like it or not.

1) if you may defend a white woman, as you claim yourself to do, why dont you defend me ?

2) of course you may argue that, you are defending a white woman IN THAT SITUATION.

3) but since you have put you out of yourself, and into a white woman's shoes, no matter in real life or just in literal, it must be easier for you to put yourself into my shoes ! (what makes you fail to do so ? because you are lying, you can not get out of your groove, you just speak beautiful words, such as defending a white woman. but you can hardly even budge yourself to think a little bit about other cultures, not to mention other poeple with other skin color ! )

4) sorry, this question, you had better not answer. no matter you answer yes or no, it will hunt you back.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:12pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


I have answered that but your myopia won’t let you see that. You see what you want to see and that directs and influences your thought processes.

You claim to have travelled but yet you appear very insular, small minded and very reactionary.

bravely answer me : will you defend a white woman in that situation ?
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 12:11pm On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Are you aware that those who apparently ‘attack’ you might not be more than 3-4 people?

You are highly insecure. What’s atheism got to do with this? Do you think blacks are not atheists too? How old are you by the way?

1) that is why i call YOU GUYS

2) are you aware that, those who dislike your race , are not just caucasian race ?
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:41am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Something is not right with you. I don’t visit romance section so wouldn’t know whatever they say about you or what you say about them. I read your post because I saw Ugandan and I quoted you because of the incident with the Ugandan woman that despite her protest and reaction without standing up from her seat, you still did not show her respect.
It’s not my business if you are gay or not.

yes, you should go to romance column, and you may find more "negative" points about me , in order to attack me, which is way better than to say any suicide rate.



by the way, i am an atheist too, another "weak" poinit in the eyes of black ones.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:39am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


You are the troll and the racist by your posts. What has suicide got to do with the topic? Read the comment I quoted.
Are you irked? How do you define harmony and prosperity? Must everything be seen through the prism of materialism?

Are you not the one using the words ‘desolate’ and other negative adjectives to describe the continent and it’s people. You even ‘feel sorry’ for the Arabs.

How pathetic can you be? Let me ask again...what sort of substance do you use? Do you take it every morning or is it just today?

1) i treat you as a human being, and write down words one by one. hope you may treat me as a human too.

2) i have told you before, if troll means truth, then i troll. understand ?! do treat me as a human, and dont let me repeat again and again what i have written !

3) you said you never say racism. wow. please tell me, will you defend a white woman in that situation ? answer me !
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:35am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


You are the troll and the racist by your posts. What has suicide got to do with the topic? Read the comment I quoted.
Are you irked? How do you define harmony and prosperity? Must everything be seen through the prism of materialism?

Are you not the one using the words ‘desolate’ and other negative adjectives to describe the continent and it’s people. You even ‘feel sorry’ for the Arabs.

How pathetic can you be? Let me ask again...what sort of substance do you use? Do you take it every morning or is it just today?


what is suicide to do with what we have talked ? relationship between suicide and racism ? that is refreshingly new perspective !

by the way, the new topic you are trying to broach, namely the suicide in japan, is another evidence that, you are a racist.

have i point a finger to anything else about your black countriess, say , your corruption, you life span, your rape rate , etc other than what i see ?

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holy marriam ! again !
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:33am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


Someone like me can see through you. You can deceive others not me. I’m sure folks around me have enough laser to penetrate your innermost heart.
You don’t know me and you are only making assumptions. I’m ok with that.you can bow 180 degrees if you like, as long as as you don’t overstep your boundaries, we are good and always welcome.

typical black mind set.

tons of black guys in romance column "confirm " i am a gay, with evidences of their own . that is also why i am so controversial and called a troll over there.

it is ok. you may choose to believe whatever you want to believe . if you feel happy to believe that i am from Mars, i am from Mars, then.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:28am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



In my post, I never mentioned ‘black’. I said you should seek permission before you take photos and if someone objects, you should stop. You are the rude and obnoxious person here. That’s the reason I quoted you. It’s not about being black or white...I just need to remind you as I can see that you suffer amnesia.

Yes if you do same to a white individual and he or she protests, you should stop. In fact before you do that you should ask first.
If you didn’t and they protest like the woman, you should apologise and leave them alone. Did you apologise? No? Remind me again that in japan it’s rude for someone to refuse taking photo. That means that a certain troll by name ‘Ugandanlady’ can even go to Saudi Arabia and take anyone’s picture and if they refuse, they would be termed disrespectful because as you said you are Japanese and in Japan everyone must take photo whether they like it or not.

no, in my country we dont need permission . and you had better go to convert a muslim to eat pork . and dont forget , next time, treat the whites fairly

and , forget something, all those black guys, who can not use chopsticks to eat meals, should be deported.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:25am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


Someone like me can see through you. You can deceive others not me. I’m sure folks around me have enough laser to penetrate your innermost heart.
You don’t know me and you are only making assumptions. I’m ok with that.you can bow 180 degrees if you like, as long as as you don’t overstep your boundaries, we are good and always welcome.

wow, another desperate try, about how much degree japanese should bow.

is it where i am from more important than where justice and truth should be ?

why not you tell me, whether you would defend a WHITE woman in that situation ?

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:20am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Your are prosperous and live in a harmonious society yet with an interesting statistics when it comes to suicide rate.

As someone who is into blogging, have you considered doing a piece on the above.

It’s on the news not long ago about the increasing suicide rate that side of the world. Is that your definition and understanding of harmony and prosperity??

what is suicide to do with what we have talked ? relationship between suicide and racism ? that is refreshingly new perspective !

by the way, the new topic you are trying to broach, namely the suicide in japan, is another evidence that, you are a racist.

have i point a finger to anything else about your black countriess, say , your corruption, you life span, your rape rate , etc other than what i see ?

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:16am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


I don’t understand what you meant by being treated as a Caucasian.
I want to believe that you are now attesting to the great hospitality of the people that you met during your travels. If they had treated you differently, that would’ve been a different case.

Africans are generally welcoming and tolerant of strangers
.

sure, by only 2000 kidnapping cases each year , tolerable nontheless.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:14am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


Answer the question and stop digressing. Where did you meet the woman you were harrassing with your camera?

Was it in the streets of Japan or in the streets of Ugandan? Did you consider her person at all? I’m not even talking about her culture here. Did you and have you treated her and viewed her objection with open mind?

so, it should be taken into consideration that, people from these countries, no, actually , from alll countries, should be allowed to have their own culture system taken granted .

by the way, it is a shame to treat foreign guests in such a rude way, and it is more a shame to defend this, simply because you are black too .

by the way, if that person is a white woman, will you defend her ? racist !
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:10am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


I don’t understand what you meant by being treated as a Caucasian.
I want to believe that you are now attesting to the great hospitality of the people that you met during your travels. If they had treated you differently, that would’ve been a different case.

Africans are generally welcoming and tolerant of strangers.


oh, you mean, to be killed for snapping a photo , is the way a foreigner properly treated in your country ?

and not to kill that person, is a great benevolence ?
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:05am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


If Livingstone had your negative mindset and expressed it openly , yes he too would’ve been a great ‘troll’. First I do not believe that you are from Japan. The ones I have met are generally nice and polite. Then again,in every twelve, you’d find a Judas.

who will tell you what we really think ? i can bow 90 degree too, is that polite enough ?
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 11:02am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


The one thing I learnt as a kid is that telling lies is bad.
You lied against me by the above and that’s not right. If telling lies is also part of your culture. Mine abhors it.

I didn’t and never said that you disrespected black people. I said that you were inconsiderate of the woman’s feelings before taking her photo. She is an individual and should be treated as one. I believe that was an isolated incident. I didn’t generalise and never used her case to castigate you or accuse you of disrespecting Uganda.

You came up with a silly argument that people in Japan would take photos with strangers and it would be rude not to do so...That is Japan and I reminded you that places differ...Ugandan woman sitting by herself...used as an example. You invaded her space and privacy to satisfy some needs.

I also reminded you that you should be cognisant of the places you visit. Cultures are different. There are things I’ll do where I am which I wouldn’t do in the streets of Tokyo....would I be losing my cultural foothold by restricting myself from doing that in Japan?

You are increasingly becoming insecure and manic and I ask again....Is everything ok with you?

in a prosperous country, personal relationship is very harmonious, it is totally different from what you know of , since i bet you have never been to a developed country, at least not born in a develop country as a local.

so, it should be taken into consideration that, people from these countries, not, actually , from alll countries, should be allowed to have their own culture system taken granted .

but of course, there could be collision, as we may see over here, since i and that black woman have already finished whatever collision we had over there.

and since you never put an inch out of your body, why should i , then ? you may go to ask a muslim to eat pork.

back to the photo : as i said, in prosperous countries, personal relationship is congenial. and in black countries, it is not. you may feel the distrust , the tension . i guess you know this better, because you guys treat each other way worse than you treat a non black . see the way she holds the knive, it is a big contrast with what i am used to see in japan.

so, how cant i make this conclusion that, uganda is a narrow minded country ? it is what is .

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:51am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


Answer this question...Are we talking about a Ugandan woman you met in Japan or in Uganda? Must a woman in Uganda consent to her photo being taken by a Japanese because it is the norm in Japan.

Are you ok at all. Why are you contradicting yourself? Do you understand the argument and instance you used above about the Muslim man!...you are like someone forcing a Muslim man to eat pork because you consider it a delicacy in Japan...do you agree? Do you even understand that?

Let’s make it simple cos I know your issue here bothers on comprehension....

So because you are from Japan, a Ugandan woman you met on your travel must allow you to take her photo ??

indeed, i would say so. i put the same words on my japanese blog. and nobody, no japanese demured.

and, anyone who disagrees with you , is a racist. i bet, all black guys support you the same.

see ? respect should be mutual.

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my holy peterson! again!
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:48am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


The one thing I learnt as a kid is that telling lies is bad.
You lied against me by the above and that’s not right. If telling lies is also part of your culture. Mine abhors it.

I didn’t and never said that you disrespected black people. I said that you were inconsiderate of the woman’s feelings before taking her photo. She is an individual and should be treated as one. I believe that was an isolated incident. I didn’t generalise and never used her case to castigate you or accuse you of disrespecting Uganda.

You came up with a silly argument that people in Japan would take photos with strangers and it would be rude not to do so...That is Japan and I reminded you that places differ...Ugandan woman sitting by herself...used as an example. You invaded her space and privacy to satisfy some needs.

I also reminded you that you should be cognisant of the places you visit. Cultures are different. There are things I’ll do where I am which I wouldn’t do in the streets of Tokyo....would I be losing my cultural foothold by restricting myself from doing that in Japan?

You are increasingly becoming insecure and manic and I ask again....Is everything ok with you?

cut the bullshit of racism out, say, A is minding its business, and B is trying to taking a photo of A. A is angry. B persists. at last A allows B to snap a photo. and B puts the photo on internet. what is your business then ? it should be the business between A and B, if there is any problem.

but another problem comes, A turns out to be a black one, and B a white one. and YOU are a black too. and you make a fuss about everything , which caucasian call "WHINNING".

please tell me , who is a racist then ? A , B or you ?!

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my holy johnson ! again ! your racism card hurts you back !
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:46am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


The one thing I learnt as a kid is that telling lies is bad.
You lied against me by the above and that’s not right. If telling lies is also part of your culture. Mine abhors it.

I didn’t and never said that you disrespected black people. I said that you were inconsiderate of the woman’s feelings before taking her photo. She is an individual and should be treated as one. I believe that was an isolated incident. I didn’t generalise and never used her case to castigate you or accuse you of disrespecting Uganda.

You came up with a silly argument that people in Japan would take photos with strangers and it would be rude not to do so...That is Japan and I reminded you that places differ...Ugandan woman sitting by herself...used as an example. You invaded her space and privacy to satisfy some needs.

I also reminded you that you should be cognisant of the places you visit. Cultures are different. There are things I’ll do where I am which I wouldn’t do in the streets of Tokyo....would I be losing my cultural foothold by restricting myself from doing that in Japan?

You are increasingly becoming insecure and manic and I ask again....Is everything ok with you?

where did i lie ?

oh , it comes to my mind, anything different to your point is a lie.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:44am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


....and ever since you experienced so called racism, you have been visiting and haven’t been put off by whatever bad experience you had.
Assuming you are what you claim to be, I find it interesting that someone like you would claim to visit and explore the continent with an open and non biased mind but end up insulting whoever didn’t share your perspectives. How comfortable do you find it using negative words to describe places and people simply because they didn’t align with your mindset or expectations?
I hope you are not a journalist because you’ll infect the world out there with false and myopic reports.

race is a myth , you see, at one hand, i spit to the caucasian who behave like first class people in africa, on the other hand, i do enjoy being treated as a caucasian too.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:38am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


....and ever since you experienced so called racism, you have been visiting and haven’t been put off by whatever bad experience you had.
Assuming you are what you claim to be, I find it interesting that someone like you would claim to visit and explore the continent with an open and non biased mind but end up insulting whoever didn’t share your perspectives. How comfortable do you find it using negative words to describe places and people simply because they didn’t align with your mindset or expectations?
I hope you are not a journalist because you’ll infect the world out there with false and myopic reports.

bingo ! you are right again !

that is why i cling to your forum , rather to be a troll.

i think , Livingstone , if living nowadays, would be a great troll too, when he is not discovering the hinterland of africa.

race is forever a myth. no one can disentangle it ,and say , i am done with it.

the people , who like africa most, probably , are the people, who think that place is a shiethole that needs some lashes.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:28am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


The statement above is an example of stereotype. What made you say that?

being a troll in romance column for 2 years , i know evey bit of the mind set of YOU GUYS.

"fvck" "big black dick" "white lady" , randomly combinating these words, would have 10000+ hits.

see, how objective i was when i posted photos and captions of uganda. i dindt mention what i have learned from you guys . those deep dirty shiet.

i gave uganda a positive or at least neutral portray.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:22am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


You guys?? Who are you guys? I’m only one person replying you. Where are the ‘you guys’ coming from??

Are you ok? I want to believe that you are a troll supposedly from japan as you said but seems you are becoming manic on a Sunday morning. I hope that everything is ok with you.

see, over reactive. "you guys" is a taboo word in america, but not in my country. and we dont even tire ourselves to say sub sahara africa.

sorry to those arabs in the north.
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:20am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


I don’t believe your rants up there hence why I’m cool with you. Point out in my post where I used the word racism or any similar synonym. I thought you are the one getting hyper...that’s if you are not being a Sunday mor king troll.

I don’t support bad behaviour . I got involved because of your bad behaviour. You are rude and unrepentant.

to force a people from other culture system to change his or her mind set, is called good behavior ? why not you advise a muslin to eat pork ?

in my country , it is rude not to be taken photos of ! simple like that !
Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:17am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


I don’t believe your rants up there hence why I’m cool with you. Point out in my post where I used the word racism or any similar synonym. I thought you are the one getting hyper...that’s if you are not being a Sunday mor king troll.

I don’t support bad behaviour. I got involved because of your bad behaviour. You are rude and unrepentant.

you dont need to say racism to be a racist. and if you are doing an academic thesis, you may say hundreds of times of racsim , and you are still not a one.

you blamed me for my not respecting black people, while you didnt realize that , at that moment, you were disrespecting me by forcing me to lose my culture foothold.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:09am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:



Why are you obsessed with the word ‘racsim’? Have you just discovered the meaning? Or do you like throwing it around?

you are teaching me. the day when i set my feet on sub sahara africa, i was taught what is racism, by your groveling before whites, by your nonsensical self pitying , let alone your killing each other between different tribes .

i see what i am shown.

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Travel / Re: White Woman In Uganda by ugandalady: 10:02am On Dec 16, 2018
gbosaa:


If there’s anyone out there worried about what you write about Uganda, i don’t. Write whatever you want.

My concern is with a particular person who objected to your taking her picture and your reactions to her objections. That was why I quoted you. I haven’t deviated. All the talks of racism, stereotype, Caucasian etc are all from your insecurities.

the fact is, there is no one there worring about uganda.

only few honest people , with integrity would come to your desolate continent, and do some objective report, or simply to satiate their curiosity.

dont even dry the sympathy of these people.

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