Lilpen3758:
you be virgin abi?

Lilpen3758:
that one dey see to follow girls na patience girls dey stupid like that
You know say girl fit love you die with all her heart and still dey snub you even if you dey make advances to her??
You know say girl fit wan Bleep you before you think of wan fucking her??
But them no go tell you
Girls want make we dey read their mind which is impossible....
So my brother if you go meet girl and she dey form I know say e dey annoying but if you really love her then she wants you to push on
But my no lie you I can never do that
I no get time for that again
Na only money fit form for me and I go still dey chase am
only cash brother

pansophist:
Refuse to be a victim of "confirmation bias". There are far more people of your age that are not in a relationship, than those that are in one. Because you're seeing people your age in relationships doesn't mean it's the norm, they are exceptions. Even at that, many of them are probably unhappy, patching up and not being themselves trying to keep the girl who most likely see them as a bridge to someone better and a source of livelihood.

Yea this may sound doomy, but I just got to say it the way it is. And being in a relationship should not be your priority this time, but your future. Yea I know, its a boring advice, your hormones are probably raging and you're wondering when you'll handle someone's daughter and practice all the styles you've accumulated from indecent movies, but the way to hell is paved with gold, fun and well cemented.

So what should you do now? Face your future. Men start from the bottom and rise to the top, while for women, it is the opposite. I've been your age, and oh boy, it was hard to deal with girls, even though I am a handsome guy. Because they get so much attention for just being women and doing nothing, competition is so high that decent, good looking guys are left in the dark romantically. I was competing with richer men that can buy her anything than a broke youth like me, so I ranked low at the bottom. You're probably at this stage now, but the good times are ahead of you and you'll only reach there if you improve on yourself, resist temptation and delay gratification.

You see the women you're hoping to be with now, you'll run when they start coming, sex will bore you and you'll just want freedom. Go to marriage counselling events or just search for it on YouTube, you'll see the audience are mostly females, not men. If men are desperate for women at that age, they should be there too. But go to money making events, there you'll see men. You're vulnerable now, I know, but your ability to go through this tough time will determine if you can handle the good time. Last last, you'll be fine.

Lilpen3758:
hahahahaha dey feel wanted by someone
After all we all want someone to want us
Sometimes I no dey even tell them say I want sex
I make moves we fit dey discuss I go slap her ass or press am
But you go don read dey kind girl she be ooh make your face no go swell up in 2 secs
See brother to follow girls na sense
Them teach me too I use to be like you
Sometimes you Don't have to talk to a girl with your mouth
Nothing dey talk pass eyes
Eyes loud pass mouth

Lilpen3758:
i no go force you
Since no be konji go kill
Weed or no weed I dey tell girls my mind straight up
sometimes I dey tell them self say na sex I want straight up
and am even a short guy
na money remain Sha .....

Lilpen3758:
I no go hide anything for you
You were born shy I understand now you have to do what you have never done to get what you have never gotten before
Na life
If you change everything around you will follow suit

Lilpen3758:
so smoking weed dey make person run mad??
You never deh ready to dey Bleep sha

SavageBoy:
What do to need a girl friend for

The only thing worth worrying about here is the kind of friends you're keeping.

Lilpen3758:
op go and smoke weed
Bath up
And go shoprite
Makachi if you no come back with 23 girls call me me pastard

SmellySperm:
At 23 you should be more concerned about ur future not puzzy.

You better not make same mistakes I made when I was ur age

VlamesIffect:
At 23years na woman dey worry u....

As you dey bother about that one...just do reality check and make sure you have money or a good source of income.

You're still very young set your priorities right....

Lidocaine:
You are not the only Boss,

Two of my friends are also in the exact same situation

I believe when the right girl comes everything will fall in place.

But try to talk to girls you like

it is only when you practice that you will be perfect.

Doja2000:
People dey learn how to make money. Na woman you wan learn how to talk to.
Don't worry,it will soon end in tears.

dudusky007:
Correct score 1-0 and Chelsea was my last game on ticket. My chelsea..not just Chelsea but the KING OF CHAMPIONS LEAGUE MADE ME WON 178K for this bad government..God I thank you