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No! We never had sex. It was only a long distance relationship and we were just teenagers then.

Hello Nairaland,

Please help read to the end!

Growing up in my early teens, I had two sisters as friends from church. In fact we came from the children department to teens together. But I was closer to one of the girls than the other.

After secondary school, we all left the town and they relocated to the West, while I relocated to the south. We lost contacts and thanks to Facebook i reconnected with one of the girls (the one I was not really close to) and we started conversations and frequent calls, and eventually started a long distance relationship not knowing when we are ever going to meet, because we were still teenagers, although I was in the university then.

Along the line, I lost interest in the whole relationship because I didn’t really liked her that much from beginning and the whole relationship was her idea, I was only playing along.

After a while she noticed my resentment and loss of interest because of my numerous excuses of not taking her calls, and all that. I guess I broke her heart, because I left the relationship while she was still inside. Apparently she got tired and moved on.

Sometime in 2021 she told me she was getting married, because we are now adults and we still talk once in a while but as normal friends. So I congratulated her and told her I couldn’t attend because I won’t be in that part of the country at that time. I was sincerely happy for her again when I got the news that she has given birth.

So recently I connected properly with the other sister (who I was close to then) and I am developing some feelings for her and according to her body language she is also having same for me.

I am really concerned if I should give it a try because I really want to settle down and this girl has all the qualities I am looking for in a wife. I am going to be 27 years this year, and by Gods Grace I can afford a comfortable life for my wife and kids!

My fear is will she accept my proposal if I ask her knowing I was one time in a long distance relationship with the sister (as teenagers) and how will the sister feel if she introduces me as the man she wants to marry even though she’s already married with a child and knowing that what we had then was just some youthful exuberance.

Please I need advice on this family.

The money i need to pay is 10500 pounds. I can't use card. I can only do wired transfer with either telex or swift

I used my access bank visa card to make intl payments for certain certifications twice, and was charged the normal exchange rate for my transactions. I think it's around #402 or 420/$[/quote]

[If they pay they pay the money i will still need to pay back according to Naira black market], and the money is huge. Can't afford that with other expenses


Your best option is to network with people in the UK, to facilitate this transaction on your behalf...........[/quote]

Hello Nairaland Travel,

I recently got an unconditional offer from University of Bedfordshire, Luton, UK for a masters in Applied Computing and Information Technology with Project Management. I have done My TB test at the IOM Office Abuja, and credibility interview with the school (virtually) which I passed.

I have applied to the Nigerian Trade System for me to get CBN rate for my tuition, but its over two months now, but it's still showing Reviewing stage and I am running out on the deadline as September is fast approaching, hence this post.

I will need advice on the proper channel to fast track the process or other available alternatives. But getting FX in the Parallel Market is not an option for me because I am required to pay 65% of my entire tuition before i get CAS and this amount will be very expensive getting from the Parallel Market.

Resourceful opinions on getting FX for tuition will be very much appreciated

Regards

God don pick her call...

If I say I nuh do again, what will happen.

Today is Saturday

GO TO HIS HOUSE AND WASH FOR HIM!!!

All these requests on a woman

Just to be accepted by a man,
Hmmmm

It's not a request dear...
A woman is elegant, beautiful, industrious, intelligent and a soul healer...not a sex donor.

Men are looking for Intelligent , respectful ladies with idea to marry so that they can cheat on her with Ladies with bodily asset .




Dont be that lady with whom they cheat..

It's possible for any man to ask for sex in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that sex, can't keep him..(Sex isn't enough)

There are two major factors ladies complain about sex in a relationship:
√ After giving him my body he left me..
√ He left because I refused to have sex with him..

NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining...
( Whats the difference)

Ladies Listen, Sex isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man.
If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside Sex, Please remain Single...

A man can't stay with you because his having sex with you....

Relationship is not buying and selling.
There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ...

Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally?

Men love intelligent ladies...
Men love ladies with ideas..
Men love respectful ladies...

Sex is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it.

You need to build yourself beyond sex.
Leave make-ups and be a productive lady.
Men are looking for ladies with ideas and solution not those who paint their faces with different colours.

What a man wants is beauty with brain not make ups with boobs or hips....

[quote author=Vulcanheph post=82571363]This is appaling, Barbaric and disgusting at the same time......[/you have talk am finish brother]

Iran Parliamentarians have moved a bill in order to protect the rights of children which includes a clause that lets a man marry his own adopted daughter considering the fact that she is 13 years old.

However, activists of the country have expressed alarm that the bill sanctioned by parliament, gives an opportunity for the caretaker of a family to marry his or her adopted child if a court orders it is in the best interests of the individual child.

Iran’s Guardian Council, a body of clerics and jurists which reviews all parliamentary bills before the constitution and the Islamic law, has yet to give its final verdict on the controversial legislation.

To the shock of rights campaigners, girls in the Islamic republic can marry as young as 13 years old if they seek permission from their father. On the other hand, boys can marry only after the age of 15.

In Iran, a girl under the age of 13 can still marry but needs a judge’s permission. As of now, however, marrying stepchildren is prohibited under any circumstances.

42,000 children aged between 10 and 14 got married in the year 2010, as per the Iranian news website Tabnak. At least 75 children under the age of 10 were married in Tehran alone.

Shadi Sadr who is a human rights lawyer with the London-based group Justice for Iran, told the Guardian website that she feared the council would feel safe and secure to put its stamp of acceptance on the bill while Iran’s moderate president, Hassan Rouhani, grabs the attention of the press during his UN visit to New York.

This bill is legalising paedophilia,” she alerted. “It’s not part of the Iranian culture to marry your adopted child. Obviously, incest exists in Iran more or less as it happens in other countries across the world, but this bill is legalising paedophilia and is endangering our children and normalising this crime in our culture.”

She added: “You should not be able to marry your adopted children, full stop. If a father marries his adopted daughter who is a minor and has sex, that’s rape.”

As per Sadr, Iran officials tried to play down the sexual part of such marriages, adding that it is in the bill to fix the issue of hijab [head scarf] complications when a child is adopted.

An adopted daughter is likely to wear the hijab in front of her dad, and a mother should wear it only in front of her adopted son if he is old enough, Sadr said.

“With this bill, you can be a paedophile and get your bait in the pretext of adopting children,” Sadr said.

Some experts reckon that the new bill is opposed to Islamic beliefs and would not pass the Guardian Council.

However, an initial draft of the bill, which totally banned marriage with adopted children, was not sanctioned by the council and it is feared that MPs introduced the condition for marriage only to satisfy the jurists and clergymen. This is the reason why Sadr fears it can pass the council this time.

The bill drew huge backlash in Iran with the reformist newspaper, Shargh, posting an article warning about its consequences. “How can someone be looking after you and at the same time be your husband?” the article asked.

Shiva Dolatabadi who is the head of Iran’s society for protecting children’s rights gave a warning that the bill implies that the parliament is legalising incest. “You cannot open a way in which the role of a father or a mother can be mixed with that of a spouse,” she said, according to Shargh. “Children can’t be safe in such a family.”

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Corrupt and indolent , clueless and confused buffoon

Has no clue on morsern economic practises nor does he understand what mordern governance entails

Idiot[/continue...]