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Thank you all for your advise.

kiddoiLL:
Haha bro you've been in love.. you sound like the older version of me. Trust me you'll meet someone different and captivating. They're out there. I'm sick of it bro, this thing called love messes up with guys mostly. One day you're feeling loved and hurt and telling people that she's the only one you feel for.. then boom!! Love comes fvck you up and next day you're madly in love with someone you just met

You just resuscitate my moral. Thanks bro

kiddoiLL:
My guy you're welcome, just take your time and decide what's best fr you

Hmm!!! Thanks bro. Let me burst your brain, Sometimes i just think am under a spell. No other ladies interest me aside from her.

kiddoiLL:
Well bro it's all about Trust and accountability... Who'll be held accountable if you lose her and later on you start feeling you made the wrong choice?
who'll be held accountable if she's really cheating on you, and and continues to do that while you think they're just friends? I believe if you look at it from a certain point, whatever you do, if it ends badly, people will call you names. Personally I have no problem with my Girlfriend having male friends? I'm not married to her, I have lots of female friends too. Either ways bro, I know your fears and where you're coming from, seeing the guy is an ex... Make I burst your brain with all these Naira landers Anthem... “A pussy Fvcked can never be unfvcked, and will always be fvcked”.... are u willing to risk it with a guy that might've fvcked her pussy?...

Thank you brother. I can deduced a lot from all you’ve said.

Luciferdevil2:
Op, thanks for pointing out that you are not a sissy but actually you are really a sissy to be toyed around by a girl cause you love her and she was with you from the onset. What a distasteful statement from a sissy. So because she was with you from the onset, she is allowed to treat you like this? no wonder you still in Polytechnic, now up your game boy .

I disagree with you sir. I wish you know what we’ve been too and been through together. I decided to forgive and forget cos we are human.

greatnaija01:
you have NO SELF RESPECT.

do you NOT know what you are WORTH.... and do not know what you DESERVE.
If you have truly been there for her and faithful then you do not need to take the rubbissh she gives you. You should be hold your self to the best standards and walk away peacefully....

PEOPLE are not meant to dictate for you.... SOCRATES said, MAN KNOW THYSELF.... one man's OLOSHO is another's WIFE MATERIAL... so know what FUTURE YOU WANT AND KNOW IF SHE CAN FIT INTO SUCH FUTURE... knowing your siblings and friends is not a CRITERIA for long term marriage... she may cheat on you with one of them soon.


GROW UP... thank God for the lesson and move ahead to the blessing that awaits you... LADIES FIND MEN WHO DO NOT HAVE THEIR TIME VERY ATTRACTIVE and they CHASE THEM.

Pls shake off the sadness and step into the light... there are BETTER GIRLS who will treat you right till you forget this PLAYER you call your girl.
IT MAY BE A TOUGH CHOICE but you will thank me later in 5 months.

It’s a very hard decision to take, but I’ve concluded and would admit I’ve wasted 8yrs of my life trying to shape her.

Hello Nairalanders,

I decided to open a new account to post this. I’ve known my girlfriend since 2010 when we were both in the polytechnic. We started dating 2012 and we were both in love. She went to Lagos for her I.T while i stayed back at Abeokuta.

Unfortunately for me, she met a guy and they both started having an affair, I wouldn’t know about this if she hadn’t told me. Yet, I forgave her cos we truly loved each other. It was a very hard decision to take but, we came back together. She later proceed to the University in Lagos while I was still in Abeokuta for my HND. On so many occasions have caught her chatting with the guy, whenever i ask her what’s going on, she’d keep on telling me he’s just a friend and nothing more. Recently, she came over to my place and i noticed she was still talking to this same guy. I’ve told her it’s over between us anyways but i still love her. But those times she was dating the guy, we were not together. We decided to let go of our past and it’s seems she’s not ready to let go.
She’s known all my sibling and likewise me too. I’m confused here, I'm not a sissy but she’s the only one who has always been there for me from onset. We’ve both shared a lot of things together.