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cooooooks:
Just be honest. You're not looking for virgins and don't consider it especially important.

That is my option B, it doesn't exactly work

helinues:
You had this experience and you still want to read mine?
"Christian-mother" not even "Christian-girl"
In summary, you are an opportunist

Oga "Christian-mother" is in quotes, with hyphen, it's a jointed word, a general phrase like "mother of Jesus", if you don't understand, that's not my business

It seems when you hear single mother, it is only old people like 40 and above that comes to your mind abi

helinues:
But wait oo, is sex your first priority with the said lady?

Lol, the episode is this long, and you are still asking this question, the answer is obviously No.

Share your experience, you don turn am to interview

helinues:
Op, so you wan go buy a fresh car without test driving?

That one na black market oo

That's the whole point of my episode

Now, straight to the focus, most ladies are found of lying about their virginity, in other to play games with men for several reasons know to them.

I'm completely indifferent about the virginity status of my potential partner . Now for some strange reasons more than 80% of the ladies I get close too always give me that line, of which from day one, I have never believed it. In those my early years I handled it by just walking away immediately, few times I stayed in and played along until the truth comes out by itself, which I come to realize that more than 90% of ladies that claim to be virgins, apparently are not.


I once dated a single mother, who left her baby in the village to come to Lagos, and all along she was forming virgin not knowing that I have been gisted by her aunty who thought I knew.


After several repeated experiences, I can now strongly sense that vibe from ladies, from first contact

I need to say that, I hate deceit with passion.
Also need to say that I'm not a player, and I do not believe in marriage before sex (I don't even want to debate on that).


Back to the topic, for example, there is this lady I have been secretly noticing for awhile, she is very carefree and all, I've heard information from one or two persons about her life and all, but when I approached her casually and we got talking, then, she started forming "Christian-sister"; all her status on Whatsapp are religious incline, from scriptural quotes to choir praise videos. Now the green light is there, but the problem is I know how it will end; I approach her, we start dating and then the 4 words comes up.

The issue is, my type of woman is a carefree one, and I just lost that part of her to the game she wants to play. My question now is, how can I break that game, to reset her to default,

My options:
A. I have once been tempted to handle it roughly by exposing the fact that I know about the game, but I know that will not end well

B. Stylishly let her know my type of lady is not the religious driven type:
This has never worked, it hasn't changed anything

C: Play along and watch as things unfold:
Well I stated earlier my stand on deceit and pretence, I can't stand it.


D. Walk away: This I have also done severally but I can't keep walking away forever.

So I come to Nairalanders to seek advice from both male and female, one what I can do, or share your experience on how you handled yours if you once experience the same thing as a "virgin-indifferent" person.

Pls mature comments only