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Lagos is now showing Jan 4th again after showing Jan 11. Something is wrong with that site or they're deliberately doing it

Malone122:
I am based in Lagos that’s why I’m rooting for Lagos
Yeah I can see dates in Abuja but not Lagos

I don't understand the site again. It is showing 11th jan 2022 for me and nothing for you and some May 2021. nawa ooo

Diamondjuli:
It doesn’t show anything.

There is available date for Jan 4 2022 for Lagos

donstan18:
Traditionally, a man is the chief sponsor of any wedding ceremony while the woman supports in a way she can. Reason, it's expected a man goes into marriage when financially stable and ready.

Allocating 50% to her passed a message that you'll be a type of husband who will be after the statistics of the wife's earning and spending. You sure wouldn't have done what you did if you hadn't any knowledge of her earning, you acted because you know her earning and that's a red flag for Nigerian ladies, because they don't like dragging and equal responsibilities in a home.

You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person]

No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head.

You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority.

Happy married life in advance!

Thank you. I guess he should read his bible often instead. Wisdom they say is profitable to direct

1million for a traditional Igbo marriage & wedding in port harcourt is so feasible. I’m a planner,I have known vendors in the east that can work that out but it would require professional counseling too to tell you things involved in achieving it. Lemme know if you need my contact to assist. My company is giving discounts for bride to bes this season.