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Seating comfortable on another man's table and eating food cooked by another man's wife,
 he loudly curses the wife and says his children are no good,

, May God give us eyes that we may see
          what is ours and what is theirs and tell the difference between them.

No matter how long I live in a land it still would not be the land of my root,

@poster
you created a thread for her in celebrity,  now in romance,

One is enough. If you are feeling something for her,  better tell her.

See me see trouble,  next thing you will create a thread for her in Auto or Food section

A way seems right onto a man but the end of destruction,

Sleep with me and I will promote you,  is she the owner of the bank ?,  what if she is fired tomorrow, !

Just pray, fast and ignore her,  only God can decide your fate,

Promotion comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.

Sometimes gut feelings are true.  If what you feel is right, then  2 things about her have changed.
There is a distraction and she is not handling it well.
The distraction could be from external (other chaps) or from internal (something about you is putting her off)

The easy part is that you can do something about it.

1. Wake up from sleep.    [ Throw off the love story, dream, i love you, avatar world etc from your head]
2. Work on yourself.         [ Get correct baffs, look clean, expensive perf, good watch, nice shoes]
3. Add the swagger.         [be calm, no hurry, nothing do me kind a thing,  self control, no I am sorry ]
4. Be happy                      [See have some friends--girls especially but keep it casual, let them call you. If she wants to know just say a friend]
5. Create some space.     [reduce the time you spend with your girl, but increase the quality of time spent]
6. lay off  love making
                         [love making with an unmarried partner beclouds your judgment,
                          spend time to study her,  learn her, evaluate her, decide if she is worth your value of her]
7. Call it quits   
[ By the time you finish step 6 you would really know whether she is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with
  and if she is not then you call it quits
or
she would say something like she is dumping you, smile and let her go, you already know what she is worth
but
you cannot do step 7 without  the lay off love making part of step 6,  for what hurts is not rejection but the lack of  ]

@poster,

Sometimes gut feelings are true.  If what you feel is right, then  2 things about her have changed.
There is a distraction and she is not handling it well.
The distraction could be from external (other chaps) or from internal (something about you is putting her off)

The easy part is that you can do something about it.

1. Wake up from sleep.    [ Throw off the love story, dream, i love you, avatar world etc from your head]
2. Work on yourself.         [ Get correct baffs, look clean, expensive perf, good watch, nice shoes]
3. Add the swagger.         [be calm, no hurry, nothing do me kind a thing,  self control, no I am sorry ]
4. Be happy                      [See have some friends--girls especially but keep it casual, let them call you. If she wants to know just say a friend]
5. Create some space.     [reduce the time you spend with your girl, but increase the quality of time spent]
6. lay off intimacy
                         [intimacy with an unmarried partner beclouds your judgment,
                          spend time to study her,  learn her, evaluate her, decide if she is worth your value of her]
7. Call it quits   
[ By the time you finish step 6 you would really know whether she is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with
  and if she is not then you call it quits
or
she would say something like she is dumping you, smile and let her go, you already know what she is worth
but
you cannot do step 7 without  the lay off intimacy part of step 6,  for what hurts is not rejection but the lack of intimacy ]

Last Nov,  I met D guy at her Place again en she told me he jst proposed, Wat ya'll tink?I av real trust in her.


A guy proposed and you are asking what we think,

If the guy has proposed as in marriage and you are still saying my girlfriend then wake up,

she is soon going to be another person's wife.

Of course you are not ready for marriage but you want to keep her,  keep dreaming.

take wine to her people or stop going to count the number of times  a serious chap is going to see the wife to be.

No matter the answer you get on NL,  it will never be enough.

it is your decision,  your investment,  your bargain,  your goods,

honestly, only God knows how it will turn out,

2 secrets that will surely see you through,   

   a.         build your love/marriage on his character and not on emotions[yours or his]
         
    b.       Hand it over to God,  his help makes the most sense [always]

For your parents,  just give them some time, with a and b they will come to see it your way

You have been going out with this girl since school and you just got a job.
She has been in a relationship with you and she has finished school[secondary].

Now she wants marriage and you want to buy a car first.

Let us review the scenario, 

You could not afford to go out with a big girl and you looked for a cheaper alternative.
She stuck by you.
She now wants you to show some level of commitment and you come to NL?

The people closest to us feel our hearts pulse,  she knows you will fly away without commitment.

Better go and do introduction at least ,  or else
you will be surprised that what goes around,  comes around.

@poster
You really make sense.  White babes say it as the feel it. If they like you then they will not pretend about it.

But black babes,  yes means no,  no means yes, 
they accuse you for trying ,  and condemn for not trying,
You have to guess what they mean from what they say,
or how they feel from how they look.

Just move on to your oyibo dream but be careful,
not all that glitters is gold.

Nwa nne,  You dey dream?

China Ko, Jackie Chan ni,

U for at least put Jackie for background of the poster,

Ambition no bad, hustle on,

Nice Subject,  No message

Must everybody love us? I smile at a girl must she smile back? A girl winks at a guy must the guy feel her?

We do very little work on our personality and expect our every gesture sweeps people off their feet.

Get back to reality and start working on the real you!

You need a lot of humility to accept that not everybody will like you.

Just cut others some slack!