₦airaland Forum

tonyx4x44:
Truth is if this thread were filled with people like you, it would have been long dead...

So whats 'alive' about having 1-50 stretched out on the thread?

BaDMnK:
Please i don't understand the call up number thing

NYSC/FRN/2015/******

The above is my call up number
what i don't understand is the "FRN" and the starred figures

FRN probably means FOREIGN... Others have their school name abbreviated in place of that..

Morning all,

IS there anything one can use as substitute to school ID at camp? I dont have one and cant get a new one at this time..

Cant even buy N5 akara on Nairaland at the moment..

debeejay:
Happy idipendence

That yansh tho...

Funny that its always the DILs complaining.. are there no MILs on Nairaland?

DollyParton1:
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Lol..Dolly, Lets just agree to disagree.. This back and forth could drag on for a while.

Until MILs on Nairaland open their own thread.. MY EVIL DIL(later changed to my 'kind of' DIL), maybe then, perceptions would change.

Of all the things to be addicted to.. Nyama

DollyParton1:
Did u miss the part where they came back from the honeymoon and met the MIL cooking up storm.
Someone who is that that sick to the extent of recalling people home from honeymoon should not be at home but in the hospital, but if they are at home, they should be in bed.
It is called being considerate. Normal parents don't bug their children on honeymoon if they are sick. They look for someone else to take care of them.

And when there isnt anyone else to take care of them, what do normal parents then do? They would rather die as you said in your first post right?

When Nigerians start dey do honeymoon sef.. i am not absolving the MIL of blame, but when did honeymooning become so important that a son cant decide to call it off just to check on his own mother.

yougosee:
Don't mind that Venom104 of a guy.
The motherinLaw doesn't have other relatives, it's only the ones that went on honeymoon that were fit to come treat her illness mtcheww

Do you have a monster in law of your own? You don't have to agree with me anyway.. Just sharing my own opinion

zaynie:
Before you judge and castigate, listen to both sides of the story.
I live with my MiL and many times I have wronged her and so has she too. Sometimes when she tells me my offence( most times she doesnt, she just gives me bad eye) I will be so surprised cos I may not even be aware of it as being offensive. I apologise when necessary and I give my reasons for my actions when necessary.
How are we sure that you are not the one to blame? Afterall all we hear is your side of the story.

These folks here don't like MILs.. Their prejudice has clouded their ability to be rational.

DollyParton1:
No normal mother will recall his son home, from the honeymoon.
Most mothers would not bother, even if they arr dying. They would want the new couple to enjoy their first few days together.

The bond in this case is weird, I have seen mothers whose husbands passed away and single handedly raised their son from when they were just few months old, yet they knew when they had to let go.

Well, this thread has made it more apparent to me the animosity most wives/to-be wives have towards their MIL. You failed to pick up on the subtle clues that this DIL has her own issues, isn't it strange that smack on their honeymoon the husband already thinks she hates his mom and a wicked person? and she said they were friends before the marriage.

I dont see how the MIL seems over attached to her son and wont let go from what the op wrote. The OP was more concerned about her honeymoon than the well being of her MIL, would she if it was her own Mum?.

tonyx4x44:
who get time for that one

Not you, obviously..

MrsDoctor:
Hum, the bond between mother and son, do you wish your mother inlaw calls off your honey moon just 5 days after your wedding?
They haven't been living together so where is the smoke?
Remember they were friends before the marriage don't your think there is a problem beyond the new wife can see?
Let us be logical here, when did the son become a Doctor and how come the woman with so much pain could go to the market and cook, in his house still.
i want people to understand the story before commenting, i like the diversity, it will only make me see my story from another point of view.

So if it were your own mother that called in with ill health (which at that time you couldnt have known if she was lying or not if thats what you are implying), would you shrug it off and cross leg since/if you aren't a doctor and continue with your honeymoon or rush down to see how you can help the woman that you have known all your life as the only parent?

If you were 'friends' at one point, why would the son just assume you hate his mom out of nowhere? it makes no sense to me. Come on, its obvious you hate the woman sef.Your tittle even labels her EVIL, just because she disrupted your honeymoon... i pray you never see evil.

You dont like the woman, you wont see anything she does in a positive light.. My opinion, i might be wrong(i doubt).

Anyone seen the Lunar eclipse yet?

MrsDoctor:
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Hope you aren't one of those 'me and my husband' type of wife. Its kindah strange that straight on your honeymoon your husband already feels you hate his mother and that you are bad person, as they say, there is no smoke without fire. Check yourself

Be compassionate and understand the woman, don't see her are as just your MIL but as a second mum, treat her as you would yours. Surely if your husband is a rational man, he will see your efforts and believe you.

The bond between sons and mothers is quite strong especially one without the father in the picture. Help foster that bond and include yourself in it instead of trying to make him believe you over her.

ademasta:
Oga why u dey ghostmode now... This ur name self na venom e be o

I no dey ghostmode o.. I contribute when i can..

Make una carry on..

ademasta:
Stretching my tentacles i stil see kbs468, and venom104

We see you too brother..

adoubleu:
Thanks dear.

Hello ma'am

Sent you a PM, Kindly reply

Here's my email just incase.. Venom_104@yahoo.com

fadconsult:
same with ARCHITECTURAL PRACTICE , the seniors in the practices pay peanuts to the younger ones after spending over 6years in school, i kind of regret studying the course

Brother in practice.. Kindly mail me

Venom_104@yahoo.com

abimolu:
WE ARE A FURNITURE/INTERIOR DESIGN COMPANY AND NEED AN ARCHITECT WITH MINIMUM OF 3-5 YEARS EXPERIENCE.


EMAIL: zoncaglobal@gmail.com

Location??

Oduok:
I intend to do Masters in the State i'll be posted to. Do I have someone in the house that share same thought?

Nice.. In what department/field?

Happy Birthday Deracathy.. Prosperous years ahead

Chikaodili345

Venom_104@yahoo.com

KeriBaby:
Lol it depends only on how much you pray for what you want.... Based on believe

So na by who pray pass??

Cant see how Nysc is going to sustain this new initiative.. The so called 'Freedom' of choice is defeated when the options are restricted..

NYSC is like that one dumb lecturer in schools that will ask students to choose and answer any 2 questions and give only 2 questions

Interesting structure..

chikaodili345:
Lol..yeah, apparently I have fans. I had a minor issue with fingerprinting but I finally finished yesterday.

Cool, Good for you.. I'm not pleased about this preferred state of deployment thingy

My ideal choice was unavailable to me.. We are still gon end up in the same camp though

Marcelinho:
Did u have d signature on ur printout?

Nope??.. Why?

chikaodili345:
Venom104

Hey, what's up with you? How far with registration?

I'm alright.. You've been missed here by quite a few

Registration was a success.. Yours?

Gazaliah:
Hope you don register...Over

Yes sir..I was able to earlier today.

This is what happens when one marries a parasite that sees her husband as her daily meal ticket.. IS she a cripple that she cant go look for a

Job to support the home?