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Armstrong34:
Please NL,pardon my grammatical construction due to the fact i was an engineering student as it may not meet upto standard to the level of the professors of English we have here....

There's this lady am currently in a relationship with and Sincerely she's really the type of girl we guys are always hoping to come across.... I have come to love her buh only for me to notice she has à tattoo on her arm...And sincerely there's this societal perception about tattoo that speaks of Waywardness and irresponsible lifestyle..... buh on the contrary... this babe is just so different that am just confused.....I have come across girls who appear so so bad and even sleep at the club buh are still virgin while some girls who claim to be responsible and decent are upgraded and modified Oloshos....
Please help a brother, I don't wanna make a mistake based on the general assumption on what people would say

Guy I see so many things wrong with this question. First off it is clear that you care too much of what people think or say about you. This is also a problem with most people in Nigeria, with the what would people say mentality. lol like olamide said "who you epp?" who wetin people go talk epp? like seriously think about it. How has closeminded opinion of people helped? Now to think about it there is clearly a double standard here, because if a rich tattooed guy asked for my hand in marriage, some may say he's a criminal but at the end of the day nobody truly cares that deeply. why? because he has money. Look at all these male Nigerian musicians with tattoos, I bet you some parents may even pray that their daughters hit the jackpot like aunty Chioma assurance has with uncle Davido. why? because in this case money speaks...… Now let me ask you what if she were to be a rich man's child? would you even waste your data to ask all of this unnecessary questions ? NO! you won't. Because once again money is speaking. Now besides all of that; you mean to telling me that you are willing to giveup a good person because of a tattoo on her arm? what if it was on her back where nobody can see it? would still waste your data to ask this question? Guy your problem is not what people would say, its simply your mindset.... Because if you accept her for who she is and defend her, nobody else around you would have the audacity to say otherwise. Change your mentally and stop accepting what society say, because at the end of they day society is made up of people trying to figure life out their own way. So you figure it out your way too.

Cholls:
My brother there is a proverb i no too remember, but the thing wey the proverb mean b say......Any Lady with a Tattoo is a slut either serving or retired.

Guy who your proverb epp? who dem say epp? So you are telling me that you are willing to past up a wonderful woman because of a washed down social perception? a very bias perspective if I may add. just sad

kbanty22:
My only question is that if it was a white girl that has the same tattoo would you come to nairaland and ask this stupid question?

Exactly ooh!! Thank you better person.