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I'm not going to write long epistle because you know what you can do to be free from this messy life but the pleasure you derive from this sexual escapade and her filling a vacuum in your life won't let you do the right thing to let her go. But I will advice you sir to burn the bridges with her, get more closer to your wife, communicate more with your wife and whenever there is a urge in you to communicate with the girl in question just divert the attention and what you are driving to do to your wife. In short, stop being care about her, stop communicating with her not to talk of discussing private matters, stop showing her love in any way and focus your attention on your wife. I believe you will be free by this.

At a start: Communication, caring and attention.

OMG! Though I didn't know you but your write up shows the guy only want you for sex.
You are still very young consider the fact that you are a graduate at 22, there are many profitable things you can still do with this your age that will make other ladies look up to you and give you a glorious future.
Thank God for your strict parent who don't want your destiny and glory to be battered and butchered on the altar of sex, listen to them the more and be more close to your creator to know why you are here on earth so that your route and journey life can be defined. Being bothered by boy enemy is a distraction to you now and a poison to your moving forward.
Make meaningful use of your time on something profitable, not in pursuit of men that is only around to empty you of your glory.
Let the guy go and have a close relationship with God for the best.
Listen to your parent, don't be bothered by the word lust that rapped as love, make meaningful use of your time for a glorious future and have a close relationship with your creator for your self discovery.
I see a glorious destiny!
I see a brighter future!
I see a world changer!

Naija my country.
This is the day I've been waiting for to see thousands being discharged of this scamdemic.

But like I'm seeing and sensing it, you don't know what you want and you have build your life around men's verdict and conviction.
Marriage is an institution that make or mare destinies depending on who you marry, discovering all this mystery about your fiancee is enough for you to back out, CALM DOWN, think and seek God's leading and guidance. If you rush in, to rush out will be a disaster and a show of mockery.
Marry someone who is align with your purpose and if you don't know your own yet in the process of your waiting discover it.
Marry someone that you can trust.
Marry someone who respects you.
Marry someone understands you.
Marry someone who can help you in all spheres of life.
Marry someone that you share the same value and beliefs in every spheres of life.
Marry someone who has a vision and has many other qualities you may need for a successful home.

No matter how beautiful it may look, I still dislike the governance and the situation of things especially primary and secondary school education absolutely poor.
Though I'm proud to be an Osun born.

Salako01:
This is one private school in Ibadan I reckon. How those government school for Saki West (Ansarudeen etc)go take implement all these. I just hope they get it right. Let FG observe them and see key take aways and implement same in general school resumption guidelines.

I am from that local government you mentioned and I'm a teacher as well. I can tell you factually that almost all the schools comply even that ADS you mentioned have to sent some of their students back to their various houses because they are not putting on their nose mask.

Happy birthday to you daddy... May you live long to declare the word of God more. Love you so much �