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Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

OP, if you are a christian, divorce is not a good option for you, even your husband.

Have you(you and your husband) explored all other options of settlement outside court?
I know, most marital issues can be resolved with understanding, humility, love and patience.

Remember that divorce comes with eternal consequence! That is what scares me about it!
This could also directly affect the children.

try and explore possible resolution outside courts. It is possible!!!

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