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We don't deserve this kinda embarrassment from a fellow man..kai

your case is normal because it happens,
The truth is your mother has grown to be so fond of you that she's almost loosing it.
She's gradually crossing the line of which if special care isn't taken fast.. you'll regret it as a man.
She feels threatened that you may not be there for her as you use to as soon as you get married,that's why she hates the women you bring.she uses the one she recommends to buy time.
At the moment she doesn't know what she is doing..so my advice to you if you want to get married is
(1) Be a man. What I mean by that is..you need to stand on your ground on what you want. Sit her down talk sense into her...don't be surprised she's not gonna listen but talk anyways.
She will cry, be angry at the end of the day she will forgive you later. But you have to stand on your ground.
(2) even after your wedding.expect her because she will Wana come to your home to spend some time and cause another havock. Be prepared when that time comes..to let her know she won't be staying like when you were a bachelor. All these you do will gradually bring her senses back to go focus on her husband.
(3) buy her gift after you have let them know your final decision.
(4) call a meeting with your nuclear family.make sure your sisters are there to support you

Good luck man