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Toolegit123:
Good day everyone out there.

Lately, I have been traumatized. Like so depressed. My fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years and we've been planning to take the next step,which is our marriage arrangements.

But recently,I have noticed how she has been distancing herself from me. Though we had a little quarrels not quite long ago,but I really wanted to settle things up. And unfortunately, before I could calm things up,I noticed she had blocked me on Whatsapp.

Now,the pain in me,is that I've tried to talk to her,but she seems like who doesn't want to listen to me and it's really hitting hard on me.

This is someone who has always been toxic and disrespectful to me,but whenever I try t walk away completely from her,i always find myself going back to her. And I'm so tired and fed up with the whole thing.

I have tried to walk away,like forget about everything we've together in the past but the healing process hasn't been easy. I really want my peace of mind back. Please,has anyone been in this kind of situation before? How did you navigate yourself through it. Please,help a brother in need.

rip the band aid now, no matter how painful it is, you'll eventually heal. She knows you always come back to beg that's why.. cut her off too completely and move on.

My 50 naira charges contributed to it

Come and finish it o

Next year will be really tough.

I can't just imagine where all this money they'll be getting will go to

badaru911:
#800 million. Dash everything to charity. I like that and cool with it..

That charity can be one set up by me or a family member 😁

brain54:
I remember watching my friend Bala cry uncontrollably...

When he lost his dog. I was 12 he was 13. We took it out and buried it together. It was a "mini" funeral.

My sister also lost her Pekinese dog. She didn't eat for weeks. Ironically, she had to travel some time prior to the dog's death and had to leave the dog in my care... the dog refused to eat anything during her absence and was looking so sad and miserable until she returned.

I understand the bond between man and pet but in all honesty I don't think I have the ability to bond so much with a pet.

Anyway rest in peace Roscoe... you came, saw and probably lived a better life than some humans!

definitely lived a better life than most humans

NassBoy:
Sme thing I'm saying.

But why do you think her husband could be a suspect?

the time doesn't add up.
He didn't return that same day. And they came that same night, so I'm just being objective

Someone knows something in that village.

Everyone is a suspect including the husband!

Almunjid:
Person no fit book space in peace again? Are you new here?
The comment has been edited, go and verify! Lol

😂 You should have modified it earlier 😂
I greet you o

delugadou:
If I were in your shoes, I will tell the man that the only condition for me to honor his invitation is that my kids must be released to me first.

If they release the kids, block their numbers and send them 10k for their troubles. If they refuse, forget about the kids & stop sending upkeep money to the woman. She will get tired one day and send them back to you.

You don't have any reason to associate with the family as far as divorce has been concluded. They are using the kids as hostage to collect ransom from you

Honestly I agree with this take.
Even her family didn't have the decency to call and inform you! That says a lot

Almunjid:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

What didn't I spell correctly Mr teacher

I believe you have better things to do with your time

[quote author=ByBitVictim post=136856309][/quote]That's what I have a good number of trusted people I trade with on bybit.. I even have their number on WhatsApp.. this person doesn't meet my criteria to trade with though. The ratings are poor

What's th update now?

Please can I see the trade history of this seller?

Like how many transactions done and his ratings

Why are they touching her like that

Why she cover face, still seeking sympathy from us?

These people know what they are doing..

Will it be hygienic to eat after they finish?
Just think of all the things sir will bring into that pot by the time it's done!

I wish her success though

tunde1200:
Is it the country or the people in it?.
Let say things as it bro.
The wicked ways of people make the country to be like this a d me and you can make different.
Imagine lots of fake drugs in our system and the damage this have done.
I treated malaria for almost 4 times this year alone not until a Dr directed me to Palacin which actually cured it.

The country refers to it's people.

But I get your point

This country is gone 😔

Imagine treating malaria with fake malaria medicine

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

whatever you do, don't accept her back.

You shouldn't have accepted her back in the first place. Let her continue with the first guy

Happy for them. Does seem a little overbearing to watch. As it seems like people staring a parade of excotic animal, the man might be feeling uncomfortable

Suicideboy:
Once in a while try starve yourself make unneccessary sjit comot your body



Fasting day help


E get y our ancestors day slim af

Exactly 💯 fasting goes a long way. Not every time food. Nigerians don't like exercise too. Just a 30 mins walk daily could go a long way

I love seeing things like this, I wish her well. She might place second or third in the world best category

Because it is known that once you go black, you can't go back!

Of course there's no privacy in today's digital age.

Use tape and cover the camera on your devices when not in use

A lot will be expected from these ladies after the cash Mr. President gave them. I hope it doesn't turn to something else

Everyone is free to dream.

Let her enjoy her 15 mins of fame, tomorrow the world will forget

Men should realize that sex is not a competition, there's no trophy for how many orgasms you're able to give. It will be shameful to family and friends to have to bury you because you died from the act taking unsafe enhancements

One may mistake them for a couple.
The boy might be having some ideas in regards to picking up where his dad left off

Righteousness2:
One of the worst ways to Depart this Earth is to Depart inside the act of Iniquity. What Exactly will tell Baba GOD

No Prayer in Earth or in Heaven can change the Eternal Destination of a man who Died in the act of Fornication or Adultery. It is Straight to the Lake of Fire

Lake of fire because man decided to use what nature gave him freely, how is that a fair punishment? Do you know what eternity entails.. try and hold out a candle on your Palm and see how long you can endure the excruciating pain from the flame then tell me if you can watch someone burn like that for a year continuously let alone forever. "Far be it from God to act wickedly and the Almighty to be unjust." (job 34: 10-12 )