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BrokeNhustling:
Me I always tell myself this would happen oo..so now I am not even planning to get married.. I sat my baby mama down and we talked..I told her she is only 30yo and I am 24yo..that is it possible I would be the only guy she sleeps with in the remaining part of her life same with me if she would be the only woman I sleep with...there was silence...we have 2 kids...I opened a business for her..sometimes she makes 100k a day from her business..as of now she is the one handling and funding the house but me I don't allow all that to enter my head..I done tell her..look you can leave anytime you want..me I am here for you for life..I gave her a car..her mom usually comes to our house to stay for weeks and sometimes months..I just tell her say babe..marriage is like a bondage..we really don't need to get married..at least not yet...I don't want to hold her down and I don't want her you hold me down..my mind is already fixed.. I still go out and have my fun..she confessed to me how she did hers but said since she had our first child she has not done anything with anyone..me I don't believe or trust anyone but I just took it as she said it..I wasn't pained because I already prepared my mind that I can't be the only one she would fancy before she dies...she be human being too...I told her that she can do her thing oo..but just respect me and take care of the kids..hence I gave her a life..I trained her in school and changed her life...she said she's not leaving me ever..again I don't believe and would not because of today go and marry...we would stay like this for a while when we done old small we go marry..and one thing I learnt...never ever displease yourself because of your family..be it your wife or your kids..do whatever you want..if you are a womanizer keep at it..just use your head..if you sleep out keep at it..if you drink and smoke keep at it...because the moment you let them(family) change or try to change you ..you would have some hatred towards them for limiting your fun and trying to ruin your life..trust me I have been there.. i am young oo but I have seen things in this life..don't change your ways..because las las same people you try to change and live a good life for and sacrifice all you have just to make them happy can still come around and hurt you saying you did nothing for them and you are a bad husband or father...all your effort wasted..na that one go pain you pass...so me I still do my thing..I only respect my girl and let her know she is my Queen for life as long as she wants..she's always going to be my number one and the mother of my kids..but marriage for now is no no...I don't want to limit any of us down Just because of marriage..so bros..don't really expect too much and don't really do too much..you be man..have a side chick..get angry and just sleep out most times..there was a day my girls mother came around with her other son..them just full my house but I nor mind because they are fun...my girl made me angry and I yelled at her..even at her mother join...I go work for money and still come home then she would ask me what I want to eat..that question really irritates me..do I ask you when you need money before I provide??...I told her that if putting and making food available before my coming is difficult I would get a new girl for that..her mama start to cry o..she too start to cry...I went inside my room and smoked my weed..I never apologized to her mom..just my girl..but the apology wasn't really good..guess what..all of them woke up since then..this happened last year oo..but now anytime I enter my kitchen there is always food..her mom go clean everywhere..carry food come give me like king..I never marry her pikin oo..we all are happy now..life nor really hard..just make yourself happy because the moment you try to change for someone or something and then they betray you..life would be nothing to you anymore..you go feel like loser..

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lamlohlah:
Yh , the application was rejected yesterday.

Applied Nov 7th.

Second application. I don tire

I know it's tough being denied with all the efforts and time invested.

I'd recommend you take your time and see what the real reason for denial is. Oftentimes, it might be trivia issue. You can order for your GCMS notes using www.canadagcmsnote.com. That way, you know things thatat they are having issues with.

Also, after ordering the GCMS notes, take a bit time off and ensure your condition has really improved before applying again.

JustMellow:
Hello 1oak,

Don't defer but change your program to a PGD/C or a Post Baccalaureate program. Then request for your GCMS Notes. BTW, you don't need to re-do medicals.

All the best

You can use canadagcmsnote.com to request GCMS note they serve individuals directly from Nigeria.

Heard from a consultant recognized by IRCC that they are using IELTS as basis to improve applicant's visa approval.

There's an understanding that Nigerians do not need IELTS at least for schooling or study permit. Unlike other countries like India or China, but seems to increase approval rate.

kesiana:
Hello everyone . Pls I need your help . I have gotten my admission and paid my tuition for university of regina. I submitted my app on sept 5 and got a denial a week after . Based on 3 counts :1- he isn’t satisfied I will return based on my purpose of visit .
2: he wasn’t satisfied I will return based on the limited employment prospects in your country of residence .
3: he wasn’t satisfied I will leave based on personal assets and financial status.
I was made aware I made some mistakes in my first app cause I used myself as sponsor and I am an enterpreneur . I’m presently planning to reapply, this time using my mom as my sponsor. Is there anything I strongly need to add as have been seeing tax clearance and pls keep in mind am an entrepreneur , no employer. I still understand number 3 but I’m confused to reason 1 & 2. Pls I will appreciate any form of help as am new to the forum . Thank you so much

One more thing . I googled how to get a detailed gcms notes , it’s saying you have to be a Canadian citizen , dunno how true or if there’s another way .
Thank you

I'd suggest you request for GCMS Note. A relative of mine used this site to get her GCMS Note for Canada Study Visa on www.canadagcmsnote.com. She was able to pay directly Naira and I believe it was about 7K.

Did you submit an application and wondering the state of your application? Want to know what is delaying your Study, Visiting, Work, Permanent Residence Application?

Global Case Management System (GCMS): This is Immigration, Refugees, and Citizenship Canada (IRCC) integrated and global system used internally to process applications for citizenship and immigration services and all applicants have a certain record kept in their system.

The GCMS notes capture the entire immigration file from the IRCC computer systems. The report has valuable information on the current status and notes from the officers reviewing your file.

Want to know more about the GCMS you can drop your question here.

Wyoming is one of the less-visited states in the USA, but it is really beautiful, serene, and not overly crowded like New York, California, Atlanta.

Nowhere cool they say.