₦airaland Forum

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
is she a teacher?
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Obynoscopy
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cheapdealz:
buy me sweet deal sc

2cribz:
No be infinity or lexus gx be that So dis man no get money

Dangrace01:
Ah bros e no reach
U fit borrow

Godson213:
Good afternoon my amiable family people. I am planning a wedding with my fiancée my budget is 500K. Will it be enough for food and drinks. People coming from my side aren’t that much. She is yoruba and her mum says she wants a low key wedding and she understands we are young couple. But I just want my money to be able to cover for most things so it doesn’t look poor or low class.

Even this 500k na struggle I struggle am. Babe is on my neck and her business is going good. Please I really want to know what is needed

TheZooHasFalln:
What kind of white lies is this? I can still remember vividly that Nokia 3310 which happens to be the first phone in circulation came in 2002, so how come you started using phone in 2001? Or could that be priority misplacement?

DreamzInc:
Holla

ihemyoro:
I am a very a senior safety professional. We speak out when we see unsafe acts or conditions. Ur cynicality can not stop me!!!

hustla:
You just dey make noise. I used Siemens a50 when it came out in 2002 and i wasn't any big man. The box still dey my room till today with the manuals. Other 'cheap' phones were around in 2001. Before that i used one yeye blue screen phone that was on life support

Again ill correct you, we used to order for Yankee and UK school catalogues back in 2001

Infact i rmbr all the phones i used after that period, Nokia 3250, Sony Ericsson p910i and the likes

In 2005, phones like sendo x, sagem myx 6 and 7 and Samsung d500 series were already common and that's probably the time you know well

Yahoo messenger became common around 2002 when boys used to use what they called Gene to order goods online, particularly PhatFarm and FuBu

I have seen it all, nothing wey u fit tell me around that era

light099:
You just want talk for the sake of it. Let me school you a bit. Nokia phones plenty 2001? Let's say around 2002, only few big Nigerians were able to afford the Nokia blueface and the likes, while the money of SIM card alone was enough to feed the whole family of an average Nigerian. Phones/SIM became affordable for everyone around 2003/2004/2005.
2005 upwards was the time most average students were able to get phones.
What about school fees scratch cards in 2001? Were there scratch cards in 2001? Do schools even have websites then? That was the time internet was still very young, with only yahoo messenger popular then. Internet was dry AF then. Some people just like dragging what they can't argue,

rs172:
Let me share a story a by Friend, this happened at Avontrou, it happened that this friend of mine, his mom suddenly called him and told him not to go out night that night, it was strange to him because Nigeria to Cotonou is very expensive to call, he told his room mates too about the message his mom told him, but they ignored him, but one of his room mate adhered to him, so the ones that ignored him went to the club that night, so while the ones that ignored was coming back, walking through the street of Avontrou they sighted middle aged men, with only tyed wrapper holding a human head, they quickly hid themselves, luck ran out on them, they were caught by the disciples of the men with human head, the disciples were with cutlass ready to cut head, what saved them was that, the disciple could identify them because when they visit local bars, they usually buy beer for the disciples, which made them have pity on them and told them to quickly leave without looking back.
That's what saved them, if not them for don turn gunner, till they left Cotonou, non went to club late night again or say they want to walk late night again.

They even have a day dedicated for the voodoo celebration, January 10.

Passionate888:
that bolded part is one of the thing I find annoying here, who told u that he's a cultist? Can't you make your point without trying to hurt another?

rs172:
Bro... if you think they are lieing, enter Tokpa market at night, they don't lock their goods or shop when going home for the day, enter one of the shop at tokpa market, then steal anything you like, there you will understand that Benin republic official religion is Voodoo.

Sheybi u no wan hear word nii, you go hear by force.

CAPSLOCKED:
HAVE THEY SENT MAN TO THE MOON?
ARE THEY NOW WORLD POWER?
HAVE THEY WON THE WORLD CUP?
ARE THEY LEADING IN THE FIGHT AGAINST POVERTY, CANCER, AND CORONAVIRUS?


ABEG WHAT EXACTLY ARE THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS WITH THEIR ALMIGHTY JUJU?

geezyk:
Bro, I stay in cotonou too oo, I no go lie, that place na juju capital, if he said those things happened, j believe him, cos wetin eyes don see.

KingAzubuike:
Grow up and stop believing in these nonsense. There is nothing like jazz. Same jazz your fellow cultists do and they still end up dying like chickens. As expected , the excuse will be that jazz pass jazz. It's just an illusion, a psychological weapon, it doesn't exist .

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL, FAKE NEWS.