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Politics › Re: Wike To El-rufai: History Will Be On Your Side For Supporting Southern Presidenc by VTJN(m): 10:01am On Apr 07, 2023
MikeofAfrica:
Tinubu is a lightweight in politics. He was the candidate of a ruling party with 21 Governors and over 70 senators.

At the end, Tinubu lost his local government to Peter Obi. He lost his state, Lagos, to Peter Obi. He even lost his root, Osun, to Atiku.

The northern APC Governors had to mobilize the amajiris to cover Tinubu shame. Wike was contacted to cover his shame in Rivers through rigging when it becomes clear that he will not get 10% of Rivers votes..

INEC chairman and officials were heavily bribed to manipulate figured for him.

Shagari was a weak candidate in 1979 but he defeated heavyweights like Zik and Awolowo through party structure and manipulation. Tinubu has repeated that pattern in 2023.

Even a Sowore as APC presidential candidate would have done better than Tinubu.
Obi struggled to come a distant third

Soludo is a prophet indeed. My respect for Soludo increased after the outcome of the election 💯

He's a good political analyst and forecaster. I foresee Soludo becoming the man to break the jinx of Ndigbo becoming the president since 1999


Obi knows he would struggle to come a distant third and he knows we know that too

Prof Chukwuma Soludo
Politics › Re: Don't Recognize Tinubu, Chimamanda Adichie Tells American President by VTJN(m):
LOl

Chimamanda is about to relegate herself and project her silly self beyond her self worth .
Did you watch WS interview? You would have known why Biden congratulated Tinubu.

Chimamanda is a small fry and will make herself look like a nonentity to even the people that respect her and the people she is blindly sticking neck for will feast on her when she is stripped of her respect.

Anyway, some people just like to chase shadow. The same people who believe UN, EU and the likes will take over Nigeria during #ENDSARS that took place in some southern part of Nigeria



Dey play
Politics › Re: May 29: Preparation In Top Gear At Eagle Square For Tinubu Swearing In (Photos) by VTJN(m): 7:04am On Apr 07, 2023
candygist:
You know why i like una, you guys always have somthing to make you feel alright for the main time. After may 29 you go relocate go Mali.
Lol

They will still have something to say after May 29th. Don't forget Buhari was proclaimed dead and being cloned as jubril of Sudan🤣🤣
Politics › Re: May 29: Preparation In Top Gear At Eagle Square For Tinubu Swearing In (Photos) by VTJN(m): 7:02am On Apr 07, 2023
Nnefada:
By God Almighty Tinubu will not sit on that throne, in Jesus name, amen.
Hahahahaha

GO and pray first for God to deliver you and your household from misery and penury grin grin
Politics › Re: May 29: Preparation In Top Gear At Eagle Square For Tinubu Swearing In (Photos) by VTJN(m): 7:00am On Apr 07, 2023
Kentuforchrist:
Let place a bet bro

He won’t be sworn in
only fools will place bet with you on Tinubu presidency. You're a pained serial loser, so you can continue wishing from now till thy kingdom come grin grin
Politics › Re: May 29: Preparation In Top Gear At Eagle Square For Tinubu Swearing In (Photos) by VTJN(m): 6:53am On Apr 07, 2023
Kentuforchrist:
He won’t be sworn in mark this
Bet your money 100k Tinubu will rule Nigeria for 8 years

Are you game?
Politics › Re: May 29: Preparation In Top Gear At Eagle Square For Tinubu Swearing In (Photos) by VTJN(m): 6:51am On Apr 07, 2023
ogbe88:
He might be arrested on that day, just saying.
Anything to make you sleep at night Nwanne 🤣
Politics › Re: Wike To El-rufai: History Will Be On Your Side For Supporting Southern Presidenc by VTJN(m): 6:19am On Apr 07, 2023
stanluiz:
After Atiku dump him and appoint Okowa as his VP cheesy

The thing pain wike die cheesy

All his tantrums will end after may29.

He will fall out with the new Rivers State governor who he forcefully imposed. Diri will fight him the rivers state money and resources and will retire him from politics.
super story

This was how you lots were deceiving yourself that OBi will win the election. Lol, Obi go win JAGABAN of Africa?🤣

Anyway, Soludo is a prophet
Politics › Re: Wike To El-rufai: History Will Be On Your Side For Supporting Southern Presidenc by VTJN(m): 6:16am On Apr 07, 2023
Samfloxin:
Wike is an Ikwerre man,was he supposed to be governor after 8 years of Amaechi another Ikwerre man? This is against zoning agreement of Rivers people. Forget politicians,they are all there for their selfish interest. May what befell Ekweremmadu befall them all
including your Obi i guess right?
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 9:18pm On Apr 06, 2023
BigYash:
Why will I be paid? Did I contest election? Did you contest election? In all you and I have no gain in all these drama... Government no send your papa and they will never send you. Obi no know me,even tinubu too doesn’t know you.. So try get sense..
consolation speech

But you wish Obi had won no lie Nwanne grin
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 8:48pm On Apr 06, 2023
Algold:
You and your people evil manipulation will not work. Even in your backyard on a free and fair election. Out of 6 states in Southwest. Your bedwetting father can't win 2. Thieves
Hahahahaha

Soludo is the hero of this election. Soludo na confirm prophet. He did predicted Obi distant third position 🤣🤣

My love and respect for Soludo got increased after the outcome of the election

To be a prof no be child's play 💯
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 8:44pm On Apr 06, 2023
BigYash:
Obi or Datti are two wise men that won’t go saying trash on air like your Kayamo ,Lai or even you(cux you all are the same) And it seems you guys thinks every Nigerian is foolish like the apc members.Lol! What’s up with the said call ,apshit claimed obi made with Oyidipo? That’s an example of how stupid apc and it’s members can be.. I hope you’re good now?
Lol

GO sleep abeg. Pained looser🤣
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 5:17pm On Apr 06, 2023
Algold:
FG can't do shit... It all be worst than civil war. It will be fight against south-south, South-east North-central and minority Christian in the core north
olodo na the same mentality calculation make your Obi struggle to come distant third grin grin

Soludo is a prophet. He did predicted Obi distant third position🤣
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 5:14pm On Apr 06, 2023
BigYash:
The last time I checked, Nnamdi Kanu didn't contest for election and he is not even a politician. You are just carried away by the political games these men play.. They only form opposition on TV for you to see,meanwhile behind the scene,they are all one.. Na you dey just dey fool.. Example is Wike challenging APC for years.. What happened at the end of the day? So if you think these guys aren't one,then you don't understand Nigeria politics.. No be only Treason,na Three-some ..
Stop deviating from the subject matter biko. If Obi or Datti should go on air to sprew trash they'd be apprehended and nothing will happen

Heaven will not fall.
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 4:51pm On Apr 06, 2023
dawnomike:
You are making the mistakes our parents made that some of us are trying not to make with our kids now.

Having touts or estate beat up your son in public like a petty thief facing jungle justice is bad enough, not making him to pursue his person in IT is bad, giving hope of pursuing his football dreams and snapping it away from him at the tail end is insensitive.

I know you are a good wife and mother... But, Please, you are losing your son. Win him back before it is too late that is, if it is not already!
the boy dropping out of school after spending millions on him is pretty bad. The boy is a spoilt brat. How come the father insisted that he'd be going to school from home spending 3k daily while his younger siblings live in school hostel? You don't know this boy more than his father. Besides, we haven't heard the father side of the story


I don't support the man using thug and security men beating up his son though. That's outrightly bad but i can tell you for free, that boy is a spoilt brat. His father know him too well to have insisted he goes to school from home spending excess money while his younger siblings live in school hostel peacefully

The man isn't a fool. He knows his son too well than you and i
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 3:24pm On Apr 06, 2023
Caaz:
Oh pls just shut your loose if you don't have anything meaningful to say
woke generation, the boy is the black ship amongst 5 kids. You think you know him more than his father to have insisted to be going to school from home but allow his younger siblings live in school hostel?

I laugh at you in Swahili grin
Politics › Re: Treason: Arrest Obi And Datti Next Time They "Blab Anyhow" - Reno Omokri To FG by VTJN(m): 3:17pm On Apr 06, 2023
BigYash:
I pray the FG listen to him. Make we watch drama small. You think Reno doesn't know what he is doing. His plan is to cause crisis in the country,since his master didn't come close in the election..
Tell any of them to go on air and say anything treason again. Both of them will join Nnamdi kanu where he is

You can only chest beat but you can't do nothing. A region cannot defeat the FG
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 3:06pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
you never get money to take go interview na Europe you wor send your pikin go? 😂 😂 😂
Yes daddy 😂😂
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
no go pack your fowl shit dey here dey engage me
Yes daddy😂😂😂
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 3:01pm On Apr 06, 2023
Fiscus105:
I dnt know that we still have rational human beings in nairaland ooo.

I fear who no fear stupidity of foolish people gather on faceless forum called nairaland.

A child just drop out from expensive university, yet foolish people conderming the father totally.

If u read the passage properly, u will noticed that wife herself trying hard to make egocentric son an hero.

........from the passage,I see a stubborn, egocentric and prodigal son that met extremely strict dad .....


At the end son and not father or nairaland will suffer great consequences.


A father working in a company which he might have assured it would give opportunity for his son to work thr.

Son said he wanted to study another course which father won't have golden opportunity to secure his son job in that profession.


Yet foolish people blaming father 100%

To me father 30% while son 70%
The boy is a complete spoilt brat. I personally won't allow my son go to any Europe for any football without having at least a degree. His father might be wrong to have imposed his choice on him but that isn't an excuse for him to have dropped out of school after millions of naira spent in year 3, having just 2 years left.

Millions of kids out there in Nigeria will pray to have someone like his father
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 2:57pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
😂 😂 😂 how much Tinubu give you? Foolish thug, no wonder you support a father using thugs on his son……. I pity those around you
Hahahahaha i guess obi lynus will give you money if he had won

Consolation speech by a serial loser grin grin
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 2:50pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
You even get time to go through my profile 😂 jobless and senseless
pained looser I'm done engaging you biko grin grin
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 2:18pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
From this alone I know for a fact that you don’t have sense……. Goodbye
You're Obidient who believe Obi can be president in Nigeria ahead of Tinubu

Sorry for engaging you grin
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 2:06pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
After forcing him to study a course he’s not interested in…… I pity for your child
why going at the first place when you know you'd stop half way? You've spent 3 years already, just 2 years remaining. That boy is a spoilt brat

If he was my son, he won't go to any Europe for any football. If he insists on his football career he must have a degree first and start from our local league here in Nigeria then prove himself to be a star. He doesn't even consider the millions of naira spent on him within that 3 years. Whatever pain he may be passing through. He shouldn't have abandoned his study. That's a wrong decision. He drop out of school because he knows he has a rich father
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 2:01pm On Apr 06, 2023
Jungpablo:
you’re just spewing thrash, you don’t force a child to study a course he does not love, I told my dad I wanted to go to NDA and become a soldier, he sat me down and made me saw reasons why the Nigerian army is not worth it.
the boy is a spoilt brat. He dropped out of school in year 3 after spending millions of naira. Who does that?

What stopped him from completing the remaining 2 years and pursue his football dream or start his computer science course?

He knows he has a rich father, reason why he has that guts to drop out of school easily without thinking twice
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 1:31pm On Apr 06, 2023
booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.
hello

I wish to have your husband as my father. I'd be the most luckiest boy on planet earth. Your son seems to be a spoilt brat because he has a well to do father spending millions for his education and still have the guts to dropout without thinking twice. Wow!

I wish, i wish, i wish sincerely
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 1:19pm On Apr 06, 2023
deltateam:
He can afford to hire thugs to beat him abi and he can afford to pay millions in tuition fee.
why dropping out of school in year 3 after spending millions? That boy no serious

Even the father told him to get educated before considering his football dream

I wouldn't blame the father for accusing him that he wanted to become a footballer because of girls

I believe we don't know him more than his father
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 1:12pm On Apr 06, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Pharmacy wey my guy spent 6 years in Oau only to be sent out at 400 level.


Una go dey do things wey I no understand.
Many pharmacist don dey do business

Not all practised.

Some turn tailor.

At the end you discover your potential and what you love.

Some medical students will never practice it because in the long run they found something interesting they want to dedicate their life to.

Football is blood money. To me your husband wants to control your son destiny.

If your son goes abroad. Even your husband will not be able to see his back. What many parents are praying for if only they could sponsor their children football dream.

Na im una dey delay with you na mumu understanding.


The boy supposed comot that house.

Una be destiny destroyers. I hope say your husband no he occultic man.
The man isn't against his football dream entirely. He only want him to get a decent education before considering his football dream which isn't bad. Are you justifying the boy dropping out of school after spending millions of naira in year 3?


Btw, hear from the father first before crucifying him
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 1:04pm On Apr 06, 2023
eddyvilla:
This young boy's future has been tampered with by his parents especially the father. A lot of the time, parents wants to enforce in their children that perfection they wish for themselves forgetting that the child has his own life to live and has his own preferences. You guys are pushing the young boy to depression already. Allow the child decides what he wants to become. I think the Dad needs to sit the son down and apologise for all the wrong decisions he has forced on the boy and try to regain his trust. But i can guess like most Fathers are in Nigeria, so proud that they will never apologise to their child and allow their ego to ruin them. The more the parents keep making others feel he doesn't know what he wants for himself even when he clearly spelt it out initially, the more depress the boy will become. THE TRUTH IS IF YOU PEOPLE ARE NOT CAREFUL, YOU WILL SOME DAY SEE A CHILD THAT HAS TAKEN HIS LIFE WITH SUICIDE NOTE IN THAT ROOM HE NORMALLY CONFIDES HIMSELF TO
I will not allow my son go to any Europe to play football without having a decent education. I understand he wanted to study computer science but the father insist on pharmacy which I'd not support from the father though. But the boy was wrong to have dropped out of school after 3 years spending millions. The father wasn't even against him becoming a footballer after all he did told him that he can pursue his football dream after his degree. He has just two years left. The boy has problem on his own. I won't condemn the father not until i hear his own side of the story
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by VTJN(m): 12:36pm On Apr 06, 2023
dawnomike:
I am sorry ma, but your husband has damaged his self esteem and many more.... I felt angry on his behalf reading this and I wonder what you did to save him.
The earlier you as his mother start to try to get through to him, the better!
how did the father damaged him please. By not allowing him go to Europe to play football? Or telling him to study a professional course even in a private university? You don't know him more than his father. The man already said it that his son want to become footballer because of girls. That boy doesn't know the luck he has having a well to do father

The father was even telling him that he can become a footballer after school. What else does he want please?
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by VTJN(m): 3:23am On Apr 06, 2023
PRYCE:
WES GPA CALCULATOR gave 3.47/4.0

Good or bad for funding??
please how did you calculate to arrive at 3.47? Mind sharing? Thanks
Politics › Re: Release Nnamdi Kanu, Create 6th S’east State – Ohanaeze's 4 Demands From Tinubu by VTJN(m): 3:07am On Apr 06, 2023
Denoh68:
OGA SHUT UP,TRAVEL AND SEE
Lol

You don't have to travel to know anything Nwanne. Didn't you study geography in high school?

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