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The wife will go back to her father's home. She also Don daint her image for any prospective partner, condenmed to die alone.

Meanwhile the brother might be forgiven in a few years from now.

Women are always at the receiving end of the punishment but this I thought should have made them wiser...

Before you quote me, I identify as Transparent and my pronouns are Who/Where.

DevilsEqual:
100m no fit rebuild this thing na

Still better than Pity Giringooory who wouldnt drop shi shi for anything

Grivingory thinks ordinary condolence tweet would feed hundreds of flood victims

They are both civilians without any office, and don't owe you anything. Focus on your leaders

tunjijones:
I have actually lived in ABA before, you idiooot.

Now you've resolved to insults...

Tell me where you lived in ABA and what year ewu ohi

The people supporting this should not that one day the won't be in power and things might not favor them...

And when that day comes, the also should remember the are the ones who banned protest in naija

tunjijones:
If you can't show evidence to your claim, pls keep quiet

No I won't be quiet, do your worst 😂

Travel and stop judging people from your father's sitting room

sarrki:
Building a designated bustop is different from bolekaja bustop

😂 😂 😂

Oh now u recognize their are by stops here...


Buh it's not bolekaja bustop

I know about 5 standard and I don't travel much....

Just don't say what you don't know else you will appear as an ignorant person

tunjijones:
Pls if you are in Abia state, kindly post pictures of several bus stops in Abia state to discredit this news

😂 😂 😂

Nope, let them believe it...

Since the don't travel..

sarrki:
Wooooow

Wooooow


Wooooooooow

Yet some miscreants from abia are fixated on Lagos politics

Oboy I swear I will never argue with anyone from that side anymore

That means you don't even travel, because how cana you believe this?..

People wey dey come from Lagos and all over the country to Aba... Na for their papa compound the bus the stop?

oloriooko:
I didn't read this but i know Falana will always yearn rubbish, he's always backing the wrong horse, the same way he did in occupy nigeria
so schools are run with stones and sand abi with skyrocketing prices left right center
stoopid man, gerrarahia mehn!

You are crazy...

He's wider than you and have more empathy compared to you.


Ur neighbors suffering no concern u because u dey chop 3 square Meal

Very soon, e go touch u too

Vdm for president...

Our president has shown us that age doesn't matter in leadership 😂

But The promised us that the price will be drop lol

Now the have started speaking big big English.
The system isn't working and everyone is hustling with the office dem get.

We failed as a country when we decided not to be our brothers keeper..

Wetin do ur neighbor no concern u

Wetin do u no concern ur neighbor..

That's why we can't be united and fight against corruption and our leaders.

Nigeria spoilt when we refused to be our brothers keeper

More injury to their squad

yinkeys:
1B ~ $1000

Ok can i withdraw now and get the money immediately or when it's launched ?

So how much is this hamster because I have lots of it and how can I withdraw them...

Nicoddemus:
A party that has discipline was supposed to wield big stick on him for even talking too much

You are right, but after a while it feels like he is being ignored and he's looking for attention...

Anyways we are not sure which is which

Nicoddemus:
It's obvious pdp is afraid of this man if not I wonder why he has not been suspended

Or he is the one afraid of pdp because he has been the one talking and fighting himself since...

He's trying to show that he is relavant but no body send am

Magicalsineros:
This is how it has always been. So coming online and casting blame on only the woman is hypocrisy.

Then why are you online casting the blame on only men...


Isn't that hypocrisy using your logic ?

Magicalsineros:
There's this trending news of a man who committed suicide after discovering his wife was cheating with his friends to feed the family, as the man was incapable of providing for the family. I've seen several negative comments Both on Facebook and here addressing the wife wrongly.
In as much as I am not applauding the wife, but
Dear men, don't be a hypocrite. How many of you can assist a helpless woman without demanding for her body?
How many of you can render help to your fellow man in difficult situation?

This is the same country where a young man was shouting endlessly '' I don't want to die'' ''pls help me'' he even ran to the police station and drop a statement, yet nobody stood up for him until he died, and immediately he dead, the whole country stood up in protest,
Ranting justice for the dead.

What was this man's wife suppose to do, if she has tried all her effort and it's not enough?
Was she supposed to wait and die with her children because of hunger?

Many of you can't even support your family members in need, but once it results to suicide, you will start pretending as if you care.

Death is not the worst thing that can happen to a man.

Many of you, suddenly becomes lawyers and Chief judge when bad news comes up.

Why is the government not helping our citizens



Why are women hypocrite, pretending the don't sell their bodies to the highest bidder


Why are men devils and not helping their fellow men,


Why

Why


Why

Ignore the attention seeker above

Meanwhile Otti should do the needful, we need to treat our senior citizens better.

Some of them are suffering from terminal disease and don't deserve this after serving our darling nation

Shadomaan7:
Peter Obi should get a life. Always crying more than the bereaved

He is Nigerian and has the right to do what ever he wants....


Why don't you get a life...

Ashley86400:
Because Yahoo bois and younger Nigerians don go soil the place.
Now they only want older rich nigerias and politicians since they know they will behave themselves.
This is why Nigerians are choosing Qatar as their new destination. Till they spoil that place too.

Doesn't make sense...

If you had said drug dealers I will understand

Why are the treating us this way?


UAE especially, why?

Are we thiefing all their money when we go there or what? Someone explain

Victims: Vp, our home is flooded, we have no shelter or place to sleep.


Vp: I will give you rice


😂 😂

Yes I can confirm this


I used to be a good man only getting my babe's pussy...

Nazgul:
And just like ritual, it doesn't last.

I remember the days of Dbanj, wandy Cole, 9ice, Tony tetula, Azadus, Tuface, Plantation boys, Konga, Olu maintain... Etc. Where are they today, most have moved on from music to other endavours. Some left the country, some became broke, some died.

It's easy to get a hit track, but it's not easy to maintain your popularity for long cos with time, you'll eventually fade away. That's why if you can survive up to 2 decades as a musician with back to back hits, the world would respect you.

Little wonder why people like Fela, Celine Dion, Snoop... Etc are know all around the world.

Bro everything fades out eventually...

Weather football, music money, business or just anything.


Some go use am build generational wealth, some won't

chatinent:
I read this post by Ishilove: https://www.nairaland.com/8209708/how-man-helped-accident-victim and wanted to comment this: avoid being a victim of your kindness but it may be stomached with a wrong conception.

Here is my story:

The help I did in 2017 to FMC that cost my three days? I rushed the woman who's just been hit by a kinda hit and run..and the issue of police report started. Good Samaritan me drove with my Bolt vehicle to the station and after narrating, what came out from the Police Constable was "Guilty Conscience. God works in mysterious ways."

The rhetoric hit me like a letter bomb. I stuttered to explain myself better, and was finger-signalled to meet was caricatured by another officer who asked me what happened again, in an attempt to add his own mockery as an end-remark....which he did: "Una no dey ever change this story? Pray she lives or you are in for a long ride."

I wan die that day. I explained that I was with the military (if it would make a difference) and I knew the law and all that. And why would I hit her, come to the station and deny it? Glaring to me, the first Constable who was a woman responded to my rhetorical question with a scorn again: "guiltttttttty conscienccccce ooooooo."

I gazed at her, consumed by a sense of hollowness. And then, from behind, a voice echoed: "'I was in the force, I was in the force's, so what? Make we run? So you want to threaten us or what after nearly killing someone?"

The female constable responded again: "no, he wants to beat me. Na so dem dey"


I was told to write a statement of what happened but this officer won't let me write my own narration. He'd be telling me how to write it if I wanted to be out of there quickly, what what he was dictating was implicating which I refused...and he resolved to teach me a lesson "so far na en station where I dey."

"Oga, I am the one who is trying to save a life, why do you want to implicate me? Would it have been better I left her to bleed to death? Where did I go wrong?"


I demanded to speak to my lawyer or the DPO and they laughed, mimicked scornfully and laughed harder.


Ok, both of my phone's was siezed...and my smartphone was where I had some contacts who could use their position to help me out of this...plus my CO then who was serving in that state. But this people gave me my Itel button phone. I politely requested for the smart one and they bluntly refused giving clumsy excuses.


I sat behind the counter until my black trouser wore out. And it was a Friday. One officer who's been observing for a while came to me and asked what my case was. I explained to him. I couldn't adequately express myself as tears threatened to accompany my words...but I did. After he calmed me, he asked who could corroborate my story and I told him. He told me that the officers wanted the DPO to leave so I could be in cell until Monday when they'd revisit my case. My heart was just shattering anyhow. I told him I needed to speak to the DPO, then my smartphone to call my people, plus the hospital.


They (without this new good officer) took me to the DPO and the black devil trying to implicate me before started speaking for me, rephrasing my speech but instead of adding sugar, they added salt to the injury making it look like I wanted to outsmart them. I requested to speak for myself and the officer who brought me in told me to shut up.


If I hadn't given the Nurse in charge of the accident victim my number, e for don bi for me o.


The DPO told the officer to let me talk. I narrated everything again, and didn't leave any stone unturned, even the few pebbles about trying to implicate me. She asked for the hospital to be called. And I gave the number.


At that moment, they couldn't reach the doctor. But the accident victim's family were present in the hospital. The DPO told them to take me to the hospital. When we were out of her office, this officer insisted he'd cuff me before I am allowed to enter their vehicle...of course which I refused. I SERVED NIGERIA TOO AND WONT BE TREATED LIKE A CRIMINAL! And that by law, it was false imprisonment, and against my human rights. At this moment, swears, I was ready for resistance. I spoke loudly that I am not a criminal and won't be subjected lesser as a toutish one. I also told him to his face that after I am exonerated, I will make sure he pays for all these (and he thought I was joking).

Amidst all the back-and-forth, the hospital reached out to the DPO and she promptly called us back to her office. The woman victim was conscious and verified that I did not harm her. She mentioned that everyone else abandoned her while she was bleeding, and I was the only one who came to her aid. It was being broadcasted for everyone to hear. She expressed her dissatisfaction with the way I was treated and questioned the reason behind my arrest.

The DPO, in my presence, ordered I should be released unconditionally and apologized.

But can an apology heal the trauma?


Could you believe after the DPO left, this godforsaken demon asked me to pay bail or he'd keep me in cell till tomorrow. Omo, I screamed "over my dead body" subconsciously and audibly. And he was like "hand go touch you soon no worry."


Anyways I left after deliberate delay tactics of about two hours. I could not go back to the hospital because the whole event made me fall very sick. But the accident victim lady visited after recovery. She's visited a sick me because my mental health was affected. I couldn't even meet my weekly sums from the Bolt. Two days after the whole event, I tried to drive and my eyes was still seeing rotating images so I had to hug pillows again until I felt much better.

About that officer, story for another day.



But you see me now?


I refuse to be from Samaria anymore. It nearly cost my life.

I have a question ?


Is it right to track an officer and make them pay for the unjust the did ?

Because some of us don't easily forgive and forget, especially since we are innocent