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chatinent:
I read this post by Ishilove: https://www.nairaland.com/8209708/how-man-helped-accident-victim and wanted to comment this: avoid being a victim of your kindness but it may be stomached with a wrong conception.

Here is my story:

The help I did in 2017 to FMC that cost my three days? I rushed the woman who's just been hit by a kinda hit and run..and the issue of police report started. Good Samaritan me drove with my Bolt vehicle to the station and after narrating, what came out from the Police Constable was "Guilty Conscience. God works in mysterious ways."

The rhetoric hit me like a letter bomb. I stuttered to explain myself better, and was finger-signalled to meet was caricatured by another officer who asked me what happened again, in an attempt to add his own mockery as an end-remark....which he did: "Una no dey ever change this story? Pray she lives or you are in for a long ride."

I wan die that day. I explained that I was with the military (if it would make a difference) and I knew the law and all that. And why would I hit her, come to the station and deny it? Glaring to me, the first Constable who was a woman responded to my rhetorical question with a scorn again: "guiltttttttty conscienccccce ooooooo."

I gazed at her, consumed by a sense of hollowness. And then, from behind, a voice echoed: "'I was in the force, I was in the force's, so what? Make we run? So you want to threaten us or what after nearly killing someone?"

The female constable responded again: "no, he wants to beat me. Na so dem dey"


I was told to write a statement of what happened but this officer won't let me write my own narration. He'd be telling me how to write it if I wanted to be out of there quickly, what what he was dictating was implicating which I refused...and he resolved to teach me a lesson "so far na en station where I dey."

"Oga, I am the one who is trying to save a life, why do you want to implicate me? Would it have been better I left her to bleed to death? Where did I go wrong?"


I demanded to speak to my lawyer or the DPO and they laughed, mimicked scornfully and laughed harder.


Ok, both of my phone's was siezed...and my smartphone was where I had some contacts who could use their position to help me out of this...plus my CO then who was serving in that state. But this people gave me my Itel button phone. I politely requested for the smart one and they bluntly refused giving clumsy excuses.


I sat behind the counter until my black trouser wore out. And it was a Friday. One officer who's been observing for a while came to me and asked what my case was. I explained to him. I couldn't adequately express myself as tears threatened to accompany my words...but I did. After he calmed me, he asked who could corroborate my story and I told him. He told me that the officers wanted the DPO to leave so I could be in cell until Monday when they'd revisit my case. My heart was just shattering anyhow. I told him I needed to speak to the DPO, then my smartphone to call my people, plus the hospital.


They (without this new good officer) took me to the DPO and the black devil trying to implicate me before started speaking for me, rephrasing my speech but instead of adding sugar, they added salt to the injury making it look like I wanted to outsmart them. I requested to speak for myself and the officer who brought me in told me to shut up.


If I hadn't given the Nurse in charge of the accident victim my number, e for don bi for me o.


The DPO told the officer to let me talk. I narrated everything again, and didn't leave any stone unturned, even the few pebbles about trying to implicate me. She asked for the hospital to be called. And I gave the number.


At that moment, they couldn't reach the doctor. But the accident victim's family were present in the hospital. The DPO told them to take me to the hospital. When we were out of her office, this officer insisted he'd cuff me before I am allowed to enter their vehicle...of course which I refused. I SERVED NIGERIA TOO AND WONT BE TREATED LIKE A CRIMINAL! And that by law, it was false imprisonment, and against my human rights. At this moment, swears, I was ready for resistance. I spoke loudly that I am not a criminal and won't be subjected lesser as a toutish one. I also told him to his face that after I am exonerated, I will make sure he pays for all these (and he thought I was joking).

Amidst all the back-and-forth, the hospital reached out to the DPO and she promptly called us back to her office. The woman victim was conscious and verified that I did not harm her. She mentioned that everyone else abandoned her while she was bleeding, and I was the only one who came to her aid. It was being broadcasted for everyone to hear. She expressed her dissatisfaction with the way I was treated and questioned the reason behind my arrest.

The DPO, in my presence, ordered I should be released unconditionally and apologized.

But can an apology heal the trauma?


Could you believe after the DPO left, this godforsaken demon asked me to pay bail or he'd keep me in cell till tomorrow. Omo, I screamed "over my dead body" subconsciously and audibly. And he was like "hand go touch you soon no worry."


Anyways I left after deliberate delay tactics of about two hours. I could not go back to the hospital because the whole event made me fall very sick. But the accident victim lady visited after recovery. She's visited a sick me because my mental health was affected. I couldn't even meet my weekly sums from the Bolt. Two days after the whole event, I tried to drive and my eyes was still seeing rotating images so I had to hug pillows again until I felt much better.

About that officer, story for another day.



But you see me now?


I refuse to be from Samaria anymore. It nearly cost my life.

I have a question ?


Is it right to track an officer and make them pay for the unjust the did ?

Because some of us don't easily forgive and forget, especially since we are innocent

I believe sex is more like a mental exercise...


Try to calm down, Focus on giving pleasure and not receiving...


Bring specimen F to class lemme show you in practical

helinues:
What's the total number of all the LP executives across Nigeria?

If a presidential candidate from a party couldn't handle the party internal disagreement without making unnecessary news, please why should such person be aspiring for presidency to start with.

After all, the so called party candidate lacks conflict resolution. No record of him handling political party issue amicably

Simply because he's better than the current presitby all means..
Are you just reappearing ?

Maybe you should check the price of things and answer why the current president should be given another chance

optionalY09:
The victim is here - acting like the victim up and down.

The truth - nobody cares your game is cheap

Bro can't even take a photo without you crying 😢 😂 😂

Nobody stole your husband, he left...

You probably wasnt giving him peace of mind.

Some women think all the got to keep a man is to be fine, well you can get a man with that but to keep them you've got to learn to cook, clean, Bleep and shut up

Tinubu why


Some people soup no sweet again, we are just eating make something dey belle 😭

Drop the specific location and address

The woman's phone number

And your prettiest sisters number for further explanation, or we don't believe it

Women generally bro...

You just have to pick your poison well.

I advise Nigerian men to start marrying from other African countries...

The will be left with those men that can marry outside the country due to financial issues and their pride will reduce.

But Nigerian men are simps. That's why foreign women the rush them cause una sabi pay for pusey

Hmmm


Well, do what you must to find justice for your child...

Women don't know shit.

Women talk about women intuition but that's just false

Op

Give me ur sister

Soon enough the government will start taxing the citizens like Solomon before Jeroboam

Plumbing no be work?


Atleast he won't die inside river for 100k

Imagine trying to do small cheating


Boom, then u see yourself for nairaland front page 😂 😂

The average Nigerian is done

No hopes

Is this a joke 😂 😂 😂

Throwback:
More like the truth Igbos have been trying to revise because of shame.

What shame?


Na u guys no wan gree them go because of the shame...

NorthernAgender:
Lol you people always sound foolishly gownon only implemented the plans of irons before ironsi was brutally murdered he has already created 12 states to replace the existing regional government.

That Ironsi abolished Regionalism and introduced unitary rule with Decree 34

Of course they know you will never Google Decree 34 to find out it was a civil service Decree. What Ironsi introduced was military rule. He neither abolished the 4 Region's Nigeria had at the time, nor denied them resource control. It was Gowon that came after Ironsi, used Decree 14 to abolish all 4 Region's, created 12 states to replace them, and introduced full blown unity rule with Decree 15 which abolished resource control

Does what you said make sense?

alanto:
Why do you always set your people up for bashing. If you pride yourself or claim to be spotless, other people will disagree and they'll flaw you to prove a point. Better get senvr.

Shut up,

yinkabeauty:
You don't even know and understand, who is doing banter with you? you are not using logic.

Just tell the reason for the argument, simple, no stories.

Adieu

Mpagi Adieu

cococandy:
What a Riveting response

If we are being fair, is this fair ?

Don't cry


Just wish him the best. He's not urs okay.
Anyome is free to leave anyone

REDshouse:
Dangote is a private company who is meant to make profit, the arrangements with Fg failed when FG could not fulfil and sustain it's share in the company... You don't expect dangote a private company to buy crude at international price and sale below cost of production... So leave dangote alone let NNPC concentrate on her refinery to service the nation... NNPC refineries can sell at whatever rate dim fit as far as they are the owner of crude and it's refinery capacity.... Leave Dangote to decide where to buy it's crude from and who to sale it's crude to ...don't influence dangote just regulate and collect dues for FG

No buddy, I'm just trying to grasp and understand the situation here....

We can't keep leaving everyone alone, but I understand that Dangote is a private company...

Why does the FG find way to make our life's harder?.


Why didn't they go through with the whole arrangement since it will be better and yet no one is saying anything about it.


Omo we are all the cause of our misfortune. The wise ones have already left this country

REDshouse:
This is a very bad move by NNPC ..why will NNPC buys from Dangote and not allow dangote a willing seller to sell fuel to willing buyer,

My deduction from this is that subsidy will still remain cos dangote will sell at 1000naira per litre to NNPC while NNPC sells to Nigeria at 568 naira per liter.. in the long run it wont be sustainable and thereby resulting in NNPC owing Dangote and creating another set of crisis ....

Why can't Dangote bring the deal to 568, I thought that was the whole agreement with the FG...

That he sells fuel to us at lower price..

I thought that was what he preached

That should say more about you guys than us...



If your friend hides his food anytime he sees you, doesn't that say more about the kind of person you are huh