wonder233: I don't think I quite agree with the submissions made here: 1. Hookup has two participants, the male and the female, which of these two is the writeup talking about? If it is the male, the average man in Nigeria grows up to understand he has to provide something before he can earn the affection or intimacy of the opposite gender - even marriage is ratified only by PAYMENT of money called bride price. Whether it is literal or symbolic, it is money and must be paid for him to get a wife. Other interactions follow same patterns, you must give an amount, you must provide, before they reward you with pleasure.
For the female on the flipside, it is an entitlement ratified by the larger society. Money must be paid to marry them, gifts must be provided. So, why are we all acting sanctimonious as to why sex is transactional in Nigeria? It is entrenched even in our most sacred cultures and traditions. People will come here now and try to say bride price is different and something noble and honourable. I never said it wasn't, I'm merely pointing out the nexus.
tojahh: He shouldn't regret or feel dejected. Life happens., op story just as similar as when I was on my desert journey to Tripoli with Palermo (Italy) as final destination crossing the Mediterranean Sea. We were just changing connection men up and down, some were Alhaja.
From Kano to Niger to agadez to duruku to Gathron to Tripoli to Shabhad, spent 16 days before I got to Tripoli. But this time it wasn't a scam because I knew when was awaiting me and the motive behind the sojourn. The numbers of Nigerians outside ehn?! Hmm.
Well let's not derail ops' thread. Fire on my brother.
Bro create a thread n tell your story jete by jete, don't let anyone derail the thread
Politicstoday: Fubara is a clueless coward, you quickly decamp to APC to get the ticket and that of your camp members, but you refuse to fight your war. I salute Obaseki of Edo State here. Now Ogoni people will be short-changed in the next 8 years of Chinda government. Fubara is a coward.
Bellfun: I already knew SMA will step down...because it will be foolhardy for him to go ahead with the contest...but SMA has created a political awareness about the situation of Badagry in Lagos politics
Politicstoday: I’m disappointed in Fubara for withdrawing from the Rivers APC governorship primary.
He should have considered his followers and the development of Rivers State. Why make a decision that will destroy the destinies of the people who stood by you?
If you weren’t ready to defend the people who risked their lives for you, you shouldn’t have started the fight in the first place.
What now happened to people who risked their lives for you ?
Why the abandoning campaigners, ward coordinators, and grassroots members who invested time, money, and reputation with nothing to show for it.
shortgun: Omo, from what I am seeing in Rivers State currently on ground, Fubara is gone. He's not coming back as governor. The man is not a politician and should have no business with politics
Kalulu44: Lolz! eepeepook, I was expecting such from your type that's why I apologise from the beginning. But I'm not sure you have read this before commenting, cus I just drop it now now and here comes your comment. Well it's what it's, yours and others comments keeps me engaged and kills my loneliness
Bro look into her eyes n tell her "I love u or I like u" Then after that, if small change dey, make una drink n eat fish........dazzzoll
Nor be Yoruba girls? They are loyal and respectful
ErnestNc: Don't try it o. Especially single moms in their 30's. The one I dated was 33 with series of male orbiters and friends. She had her baby daddy calling and kept contact with her exes(3 out of 6) ..hahaha.
She abandoned her 13yr old with the grand parents for 13yrs despite her financial stability, all just to avoid being a responsible woman. I tried so many times to have her daughter stay over at hers , for holidays even if it was 3days. She wouldn't allow it. The poor child would beg me to speak to her mom to let her come over.
She still prioritizes night life (night club and night parties) with her unmarried friends( circle of one female and multiple male).
I've never been so insecure my life. What's worse was I even wanted to wed her .
In the end , the same male friends she told me not to worry about were the same guys she went to sleep at their houses for 7 consecutive nights(3 different male friends ) because she was depressed and needed to be cheered up cuz we fought and I said harsh things to her . Really ?
She confessed this and still claimed nothing happened because she saw I was all in and still wants to manipulate me.
I even recalled sending her tp to transport the industrial machines she bought, and alongside her was a male friend who assisted her with the machines. Guess what? She told me the guy helped her set them up and couldn't go back home so she let him pass the night . She said nothing happened. Lol cuz I'm dumb.
Flee from single mothers pls!!! They are unrepentant. She's a single mother for a reason.
timidapsin: Over the past few hours, social media has been buzzing over reports that a Delta State High Court sitting in Effurun ordered social media commentator VeryDarkMan (VDM) to pay over ₦30 million in damages following comments he allegedly made about comedian Mr Jollof’s wife.
But many people online are only reacting to the judgment without understanding how the whole beef actually started.
The feud between VDM and Mr Jollof reportedly started back in 2024 after VDM called out Blord’s BillPoint app over alleged customer complaints and withheld funds. Which led to a serious beef between him and BLord
VDM then criticized Mr Jollof for allegedly promoting the platform despite the complaints from some users.
Mr Jollof strongly denied the allegations, and things quickly became personal between both sides.
At some point, Mr Jollof reportedly threatened to slap VDM if they ever met physically, while VDM also responded aggressively online.
But the real turning point reportedly came when allegations involving Mr Jollof’s wife, Mrs. Atsepoyi, entered the picture.
Now fast forward to today, and reports claim the court ruled in her favor.
OP is comedian DeeOne of BBN
Cos e has all the time to follow people up and down
timidapsin: Over the past few hours, social media has been buzzing over reports that a Delta State High Court sitting in Effurun ordered social media commentator VeryDarkMan (VDM) to pay over ₦30 million in damages following comments he allegedly made about comedian Mr Jollof’s wife.
But many people online are only reacting to the judgment without understanding how the whole beef actually started.
The feud between VDM and Mr Jollof reportedly started back in 2024 after VDM called out Blord’s BillPoint app over alleged customer complaints and withheld funds. Which led to a serious beef between him and BLord
VDM then criticized Mr Jollof for allegedly promoting the platform despite the complaints from some users.
Mr Jollof strongly denied the allegations, and things quickly became personal between both sides.
At some point, Mr Jollof reportedly threatened to slap VDM if they ever met physically, while VDM also responded aggressively online.
But the real turning point reportedly came when allegations involving Mr Jollof’s wife, Mrs. Atsepoyi, entered the picture.
Now fast forward to today, and reports claim the court ruled in her favor.
OP is comedian DeeOne of BBN
Cos e has all the time to follow people up and down
Whenever I reason about those opposition and their self inflicted drama, I just dey laugh..Even if they unite together and get serious, it's too late for them to win the election in 2027 because election campaign funds will still be issue. Only Atiku is financially strong in the coalition, they are yet to have any governor.
Meanwhile, there are 2 Africa countries on standby ready to fund president Tinubu's reelection. Gambia and Senegal ( Why, story not for now)
Like I have been consistently saying, should Obi or Kwankwanso leave ADC, they are definitely working for president Tinubu
I thought u were blinded by bigotry.
I never knew you have sense and cognitive abilities
EmonOghenewoke: By Oghenewoke Emonido Nurse Assistant | Startimes Medical Centre, Benin City BSc. Medical Microbiology & Parasitology | MSc. Clinical Biochemistry
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## ⚠️ How Do You Know a Child Is Choking?
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If the child is coughing loudly, do NOT interfere yet — coughing is the body’s way of clearing the airway.
But if the child is silent and struggling, you must act immediately.
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## 👶 How To Help a Choking Infant (0–12 Months)
Stay calm. Panic wastes precious seconds.
### Step 1: Position the Baby - Place the baby face down along your forearm - Support the head and neck firmly - Keep the head lower than the chest
### Step 2: Give 5 Back Blows - Use the heel of your hand - Deliver 5 firm blows between the shoulder blades
### Step 3: Turn and Give Chest Thrusts - Turn the baby face-up - Place two fingers in the center of the chest - Push inward 5 quick chest thrusts
👉 Repeat the cycle: 5 back blows + 5 chest thrusts
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## 🚫 What You Should NEVER Do - Do NOT shake the baby - Do NOT blindly put your fingers in the mouth - Do NOT delay action waiting for help
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## 🆘 If the Baby Becomes Unconscious - Call for emergency help immediately - Begin CPR (if trained) - Continue until help arrives
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## 💡 Prevention Is Better Than Panic Most choking cases can be prevented: - Avoid giving small hard foods (nuts, popcorn, grapes without cutting) - Keep small objects out of reach - Always supervise feeding
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## ❤️ Why This Matters
As someone working closely with patients at Startimes Medical Centre in Benin City, I have seen how quickly situations can escalate — and how powerful quick action can be.
Many tragedies happen not because help wasn’t available, but because people didn’t know what to do.
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## 📢 Final Word
You don’t need to be a doctor to save a life. You just need to know what to do — and act fast.
👉 Share this. Teach someone. Practice it. Because one day, it might be your child… or someone else’s.
And on that day, knowledge could be the difference between life and loss
Freshtruth: This one never do second term he done follow he OGA they hold ground he get sense pass fubara small tha one na 2weeks him craze start with wike
Sheriff obiowerie of Delta state dey wait till he win second tenure ist before he knack okowa better big akapco
Freshtruth, Ukodo might not act like that dat. But diplomatically all his boys in Delta Central n South will be positioned should incase of any eventuality
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OP, after Government you are the problem of this country.
Crazy copy n paste article, of not......u should have list some recommendations phone to get.