Busta:

and what if your soulmate is not virgin? or not meant to be one?

Good point Busta
So how can I know my soulmate?

There are many qualities that all girl can exhibit,but there are certain other qualities a few can possess.If I marry a non-virgin,how will I be sure about the number of men she has slept with?How will I determine it?I know I will eventually have sex with whoever i marry but I am just scared of having it with a woman who has had sex with other men.I just dont know why.It sounds silly.The other girl (virgin)I mentioned earlier on says she will only sleep with one man "her husband",there seem to be a sense of fidelity and faithfulness in every virgin.I aso read a lot of complaints by men and ladies about their spouse leaving them high and dry.It sounds scary,imagine me having a GF,sleeping with her and then one day she decides to walk off.I will feel used ,abused ,ridiculed,raped.

Sisikill:

The more I read your post, the more I like oh jare. . .sadly I don't mess with younger men.

Imagine 16 years old! What will she do when she's 18? I shudder at the thought. Your expectations are not unrealistic. . .there are virgin girls out there, they are just afraid to announce it for fear of being victimized. Isn't that funny? It used to be the other way around. . .at least when I was in secondary school but now, girls will even make up high numbers of guys they've slept with to feel sophisticated.

Victimized?? I 'm hearing that for the first time.Though a girl(virgin) shouldnt go about boasting about her status,she shoudnt be scared of letting pple know,when they ask her
On the other hand girls who celebrate and are celebrated for the numerous number of men they have slept with are sick,depraved and mentally retarded.
This world is getting crazy every passing moment.The opposite is the rule rather than the exception

Sisikill:

I was going to go all sarcastic on your behind. . .like wa pe ni be type thing until i saw you are a virgin yourself and my prayer for you that you find the. . .

Bone of your bone
Flesh of your Flesh
Virgin to your virgin
(Amin)

And I swear to A l l a h, I am not being sarcastic.

please pray on my behalf.I am lazy in that regard

Busta:

nothing funny there . . . just an advice.
u either take it or leave it

Indeed!!! what is strange about my post, and what advice was that?You are one lady I yearn to see her replies,and when I see mockery and insult,I feel so downcast.Anyway I never expected any good reply.I am just scared of dating a girl who is not a virgin.it is a morbid fear.Just like some peeps are blemenophobic(fear of needles).You get my point?

HR.hotness:

I gather from your numerous and distasteful statements that you definitely wont find your virgin on nairaland,
so why don't u do us all a favour (save us from reading the crap put together by a mind as small as urs) and take your search elswhere.
try the village or better still a slave market!

Great nairalanders havent kicked me out.So who are you to vomit nonsensical statement?If my post isnt suitable for your cranial consumption then kindly vamoose with automatic alacrity,except I have seen a new reader in you

Busta:

@topic,

what is it with u and this craze of wanting to marry a virgin?

are u dying of some kind of incurable diseases and u were told that unless u marry virgin before u can be healed? Cos your case don't seem ordinary anymore. Be careful so u don't turn into a child molester or a pervert!
If u can't find a virgin, then make do with what u have! Who knows, this your quest for a virgin might lead u to an early grave.

Busta,though I have a soft spot for you.Please desist posting funny replies.

HR.hotness:

u have nothing to worry about, those girls also find u disgusting!

Really?

Steroid101:

even female mensturation will irritate you too

Very true,how u take know sef?

oyb:

abeg will some virgin please stand up and end wahala 2007's long quest?

based on all he has posted on this topic - the unbroken hymen is the sole criteria.(i'm not sure if he is bothered about virgins who can give head, maybe he should clarify on this)

you can be ugly, illiterate, 40 years plus, it doesn't mattter. will the real virgins please stand up - your wait is over!

Did i employ you as a campaign manager.I go soon use koboko for you.

adesodgi:

wHeRe AV yoU sEaRChEd?

I have had the opportunity of meeting several ladies,having acquired 5 years of university education, and another 2 years at an advanced level.Gone are the days when I received love letters.My last love letter was received before my 19th birthday.No more show .Na small small pickin dey toast me nowadays.Imagine a 16year old girl sending her younger sister on an errand that “she loves me”.Na koboko I go use chase am ,if I go visit my friend again(she is my friend’d younger sister)

Why do girls believe I have a GF? and when I say no,they take offence.All girls I have met so far,has had a boyfriend and indulged in sex.I know if I decide to accept girls for who they really are,I'll get many of them.The only virgin I have seen so far(at 23years) is very proud and an "omo mummy".She says she can only marry a whitie.She even says she can kiss,and I can handle her(which kain virgin be that sef).

Where can I see a virgin of reputable standard and is ready to stand the test of time until marriage?

@vicade
It isnt because I am perfect or godly.i am just wondering what is happening these days.

@omega25red ,with all sense of honesty.I am a virgin ,25years and I am not not hiding anything.I just hate premarital sex.I find it very disguisting.The way people are flaunting it ,is really irritating me.I just feel ,I will find it more irritating marrying a girl,that has had sex before,especially because of the countless partners she might have had.Even if she has had just a guy,the frequency of their sex/love making,would br disguisting in my mind's eye.

@Shady or whatever your fucking name is

You are a bastard for posting this
and if it is true ,if it is really true
then you are a
DOUBLE BASTARD
ISI EWUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

This is getting serious by the minute.I find it difficult to attach myself to any girl,who has had a boyfriend and/or had sex before.My dream of marrying a virgin is fast fading away.I cant seem to find any near me.The crase for sex these days is getting on my nerves.A guymeets a girl for the first time,they have sex almost immediately.I am not insulting any gender ,contrary to popular opinion?(in my other threads).
The crasy thing about this sex thing is that ,the girl is not doing it for m0ney,but for fun.
I still intend to remain a virgin until marriage

Gamine:

@TOPIC

Yes ooh!

Lack of Opportunity to Have unneeded thoughts and wahala
Lack of Opportunity to contact HIV, STDs,
Lack of opportunity to induce abortion
Lack of Opportunity to Die!

Yes, Opportunity not needed!

I heard my name ,and responded

God bless you yafun yafun

You forgot to add,lack of opportunity to have a wide hole