too root?
It must be a descriptive term for his wife's
Warri boys and their slangs

Sisikill:

They do. . .Guys just don't listen or hear what they want to hear.

The wise one

j-girl:

Exactly!!!!! Even if you say something a hundred and one times - they only hear what they want to hear.

and yet another

GIRLS!!!!!! why they wont stop speaking in parables.

If you are going to be comfortable with it.Why not?Although Its safer remaining as distant as u possibly can,because it could back fire on your current relationship.

Would you like to spend the rest of your life with him?Ifyes, you are in love,if No ,you are fond of him

Whenever I dream

Cook for him a peppered meal of beans,ensure you lock all toilets and bathroom.I am sure he will open up

bgees:

i was, thats was when i was in secondary school. we used go through thick forests , to peep through the walls of the girls' hostel.what encouraged us was that d wall was very near their bathroom.we coined the word '' geography'' for it.maybe thats why GOD punished me and i had to forcefully study geography at te university.

LMAO
you should have coined medicine rather than geography.

You shouldnt be promoting market value.Your 3 paged sermon should have been on chastity ,faithfulness etc
Finally your long boring sermon does not hold water GBAM

Diokpa kedu ka imere?Biko wete nwanyi na religious section

Thanks guy for being tuthful with her.I wish all men would be like you
My only grouse with you is your title .I'd have rather you said,why do some women use some me as spare tyres.It isnt fair to categorize all men and women as the same.For example are you a spare tyre? NO

emmenuela
You are seeking for advice from nairaland
My advice-Go back to your based in Nigeria lover.You are not being fair.Are you aware if she had had to turn down numerous people seeking a ralationship with her,just because of your alleged love?Are you aware that she has had to sacrfice a lot because of you?You are not being fair because relationship is all about commitment.
If everyone was to act like you are about doing,thee would be more broken hearts and suicidal attempt than there currently is

stillwater:

Whatever

lol, what now?

D-reloaded:


let me expose him for you.

Truth is, he isnt packing much and he needs a virgin so she wont be able to say "I've seen or had bigger", thus he'd die from shame. So he'd be able to fool someone into thinking his midget weenie is actually normal size, he needs a girl that wont be able to tell the diffrence because she's never had it before

capice?

Really
so when did oyb become D-reloaded?Living a dual user name lifestyle isnt too much of a good thing .ok?

Sisikill:

wahala2007
This is me signing on the dotted lines. . .so much for cyberlove. Ours didn't even last a day!!!

sorry,i couldnt help shoving some insane peeps away.There are some imbecilic posters stalking since my first thread in Nairaland.

say that to the birds EWU

k

wtf? What is my biz with your son? Who is he? where is he? If he's in your profile I don't care because I don't go about checking out pics of posters.Even if I wanted to ,I wouldnt have troubled myself going through yours,as far as I am concerned you are a lowlife stupid son of a bitch.
I still maintain " I HAVENT INSULTED NIGERIAN GIRLS" and I will never do that.You are the one saying that you are surrounded by non virgins ,that virginity is a non existent name to you,that virginity is not in your dictionary,that only girls below 13 and stay in the village are virgins
You are an idiot.Just because you decided  to have a son through the your non virgin wife,you have the audacity to refrain me from insultin him,as if I did in the first place.
I only have four words to tell you
YOU ARE AN IDIOT

@smartsoft
sha dont let her sweet talk you.From all what I can gather she has been in charge all this while.It is now your turn to be in charge.
It takes a man who is charged to be in charge.
It is time for you to turn the table (of course m, you aint being selfish)

What is the worst thing that can happen?
She will reject you ,shey?
Relax,she is was not worth your niceness (if you are really nice) in the first place.

Like Busta said "your  own companion is somewhere"

It shows the calibre of people you are surrounded by.People who have lost their virginity.Hence your belief that virgins are non existent.Can you boast that you met your wife a virgin as a virgin.Do you have record of how many men she slept with?
I don't have pity for you,I rather have pity for your offspring,because "like beget like"
Ewu malu

@smartsoft
When anything goes wrong .Pleasde don't come back for advice.Like charcal said KICK HER OUT LIKE POLIO .
She is just using you.You let her cry deceive you.It shows how weak you are as a man.She will continue using you until ,she begins to take you for granted.
Whenever a girl takes me for granted ,I warn her.If she repaeats it again,I abandon her.
Is that a behavior of a future wife? You sef ,where you pick that one from?Because she is beautiful ,we no go rest again?

HR.hotness:



,,,,,,,,, and it is quite annoying

however


it would appear u have trust issues, if u meet d right person her past shouldn't matter and I'm sure she'd be happy to tell u everything if u so desire,,,,
besides u've been going on about what might happen to u and what u want,,,, u, u, u! its all about u,
how about what u have to offer this virgin,
what makes u such a good catch
i really really really hope you're not the kind of person u portray on here, it would be sad.
i'm willing to accept that in some twisted, moronic way (like all men) your intentions are good, but i think some self searching is in order.

It is very sad that up until now ,you still havent understood me .I cant /wont marry a girl who has had sex before.
Forget about what I can offer my intending virgin wife.It is my personal problem

oyb:

thank you o. . .

abeg no vex. . .i'm just being sarcastic.

you will observe that i referred to mr wahala as sanctimonious.if you got through his previous posts, you will find that he keeps harping about the fact that todays girls have no morals ,etc. you will also find that he isn't bothered about the morals of men.

Must you reply foolishly to every post?

Sisikill:

wahala2007
You want me to divorce you before we even start our cyber loverness? Be nice now, not everyone will agree with you. . .it doesn't mean you gotta be rude about it. Anyway, you still own a small piece of my cyber-heart.

lol,so we have cyber married already?Thanks for nice comments.I am not being rude o.Some people just enjoy stalking me and insulting me.Its my defence mechanism jare

oyb:

look, there are no virgins on nairaland. go search somewhere else.

the last thing the shameless, remorseless, worldly  fornicators of nairaland need is a sanctimonious prick blathering about finished products etal.

Thanks oyb,but contrary to your false and unruly opinion.nairaland are not known for such names you have mentioned.For your information,I havent come to nairaland seeking for a wife.I came here  because I was wondering what calibre of boys and girls we have nowadays.I have got a few splendid advices and nasty comments too.

oyb:

look, there are no virgins on nairaland. go search somewhere else.

the last thing the shameless, remorseless, worldly  fornicators of nairaland need is a sanctimonious prick blathering about finished products etal.

Thanks oyb,but contrary to your false and unruly opinion.nairaland are not known for such names you have mentioned.For your information,I havent come to nairaland seeking for a wife.I came here  because I was wondering what calibre of boys and girls we have nowadays.I have got a few splendid advices and nasty comments too.

Busta:

@wahala2007

Its Nairaland.
u don't have to concur with me neither do I.

Hope u put that behind your experinced self.

This is NAIRALAND. So?
Must you follow the crowd?Probably you are angry with the niceties, i am commenting about you.Truth be said,you are suddenly proving difficult.I dont know why? Anywayz Kind Regards

uspry1:

You, the poster, sound insecure finding your soulmate---worrying about your soulmate's ex will cheat her out! It is not fair for you have many ex-girlfriends whom you dated in the past, did your soulmate worry about your ex?

What happen to LOVE CONQUERS ALL? For strong relationship between two people connect that is based on below that lead to stronger marriage:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

Thanks for you psychological analysis,but next time when you wanna help or reply ,try to read the post form the origin.
I have never had a girl friend and I intend to have sex with just one person :-my wife

HR.hotness:

try lookin at it this way

u meet a virgin, u get married, u have sex, she likes it, she reads books and watches movies all with a different ideas on what sex should be,,,,
inevitably her mind will begin to wonder,,,, then comes one of those shamless excuses for men,,,, they tempt and prod, she gives in,,,,,, what has happened? she has cheated, depending on how much she enjoys it, she continues to cheat,,,, then leaves high and dry!

the truth is that being a virgin is not an accurate measure of virtue and dignity
by choosing to define a girl by her virginity status is a complete disregard of her mind, of who she is as a person and very very disrespectful.
Girls have many different reasons for doing what they do and being judgemental and declaring them cheap and without virtue doesn't say much about you.

how about focusing on a girl who wants simple things, marriage and a family
who wants to build a successful home, who is loyal and has strong beliefs
if u are lucky she'll be a virgin, if not she probably had a good reason why she isn't, and if u manage to look beyond this, you'd find your perfect girl.
Its rather naive to expect a virgin is automatically the perfect wife material, u never know u may have a monster lurking beneath the surface dying to come out! trust me, i'm a girl and I've seen this happen time and time again.

HRH Hotness,you wrote a piece for me? Thanks.Well I am not out to degrade any woman who isnt a virgin.What I feel is that if a lady or guy has waited that long (till marriage) to have sex ,then it would be stupid for him/her to prowl around to get satisfaction else where,no matter the books or films she consumes.I have a very scary scenario :-If I eventually get married to a non virgin,how am i sure that the guy she greets everyday and/or the guy next door is actually her ex,and she has been keeping this secret from me?.I have many scary scenarios,not because I have debased the women folk.I 'd rather i marry a non virgin,whose ex is deceased  and buried  -x did i say that

Busta:

Na your fault? Take your time.
u are more experienced than me because u've sleeping around with girls trynna search for a virgin? too bad because I don't do that. . . besides ain't u supposed to be a virgin?
I am not the one desperate to marry a virgin.
My brain sure works better than urs enways.

There you go again .I meant ,a less experienced person tryna advice another inexperienced person.What advice would I expect to get?The part of being more experienced than you was kind of a joke,seems you didnt see it that way.You dont joke.I wonder why

Busta:

good question-----wish i could tell because even I haven't found mine

But like they say------It just happen!. . . .Instant connection.

You dont even know and you have been commenting all along.You are the wrong person to take advice from then.I am even way more experienced than you.You should start consulting my wealth of experience.
Instant connection? what's that ?

Sisikill:

The more I read your post, the more I like oh jare. . .sadly I don't mess with younger men.

lol,why? .Supose your soul mate is a younger man