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I thought I was the only one experiencing the same issue. Can't I be happy when I see a nigerian girl and chat with her freely wityhout suspecting I want to date her? What if I want to date her is it a crime for her to act friendly? well I still believe there are better one out there so I wont generalize at this time until I have tried enough!

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
And you gave up, that easily?!

not really but I'll not put much time there.This is American born chick not naija.Once they wants you they dont pretend.And its been over 8 months I've known her.So maybe I should somewhere else.

She has replied, she says " I dont think its a good idea ". Case close. thanks all for your comments.

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Thanks. I will try even though I'm not the patient type, that's why I only asked when I'm sure of the "green" light.well, I just hope it turn positive, because I really like the babe!

she used to reply your mails but she has not reply this one.does it mean no?

Dyt:
Its nt all bout moni guys
sayin it n meanin it beats it all
i wanna hear dat frm him as much as possible #datsme
gifts r jst secondary

i like you mindset, just hope you mean it

Shy-One:
I love gifts from him.

It gives me a clear picture of who he is and what he likes

His gifts say if he is a cheap individual or if he is a quality person

Gifts are reflective of who you are. But saying the words Love are just as important to me. I want your everything - you, your words and your gift.

Yes, give it to me baby.

its not about the girl, its about me.I think saying that word is so deep and i dont want to play with it. Anywhere this one that you want everything, are you sure your guy is giving everything?

BABE!:
What do you mean live up to the word? What is your definition of true actions?

Bottom line is, the most relevant thing you can do for her is saying "I love you" and really meaning it! You don't necessrily have to buy gifts for her to prove your love. Coz if that was the case, Jimmy Choos and Pradas must accompany every "I love you" my guy says to me.

Babe are u sure your materialistic and yet dont care about your guy spending on you?

NL. I want to know your views, I feel I did not live upto the words " I love you" in my previous relationship. Now I am thinking starting another relationship right now.I want to avoid these words in this relationship, I want to show how I feel true actions rather than just saying words. Will that affect my girlfriend? If I dont tell her I love you?

Wislet:
Hehehehehehehe. @OP, I ain't dark neither do i stay in d US, though i get other qualities. So i dont qualify. LOL. But wait o, how many missing ribs u dey find, cos am sure plenty(some) gals wil hav des qualities. Smh@men of nowadays. :-P

I'm looking for one, but getting more than one is an added advantage.

Mrs.Chima:
;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

you're not the one

BABE!:
Nud bad!!!

INKIRU! Your suitor is here o! They are looking for you!  

are u the one? can u tell me why you are a good fit?

Crude Oil:
Have you checked the toilet?

I have checked I can't find it there.

I am looking for my missing rib, she should be God fearing, tall ( 5ft9') , Dark, beautiful, Nigerian born but live in the USA. Additional qualities include, she must be a voracious reader, very gentle, have ambition, engage in an intelligent communication for a long time without getting bored etc.

just heard that women enrollment increase by 40% at st.Andrews university when it was announced that  Prince William was going to attend the school.No wonder I've been looking for my princess, hope she did not go there to find the wrong prince.

High_Chief:
I think the problem is from you, its from the way you treat them that will make them re-affirm their love for you regularly bro

sometimes when you act so good to a girl they take you for granted. believe me this is my experience, I only earn their respect when I quit
behaving like mr nice.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Where are u located? [/color]

You know I can't tell you my location here. But let me hear your advice first.

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guy I understand. But when you're not getting younger one night stand is not the option.

I have tried all I could to be very humble in my relationships but I cannot endure it for a long time.I have called off all my previous relationships because I can't just stand the women pride( making me feel as if I wanted them more than they do). I have realize that this trait is common to most women I've come across. Can I ever find a girl who will be very humble and express her feelings without pride? I have met some who do but after starting the relationship they relaxed. Well I need advice on our to tackle these issue as most women I have met seems to possess this trait.Any help or suggestion is welcome.

I have open this thread for virgins  NLs in the house so we can get to know each other, share our struggles, encourage one another and hopefully hook up who knows?
so if you are one of us let's meet.