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RomanceRe: My Galfriend Is A Nymphomaniac by walebizz(m): 1:54am On Jan 16, 2017
bring her to me, i am more nymphomanic in nature, (hope she gat boobs sha)
RomanceRe: Meet The Shuwa Arab Women Of Nigeria (photos) - Most Beautiful Women In Nigeria! by walebizz(m): 1:51am On Jan 16, 2017
who beauty EPP, if a female gat boobs....to hell with beauty #team_big_boobs#
Romancewhy do girls on NL do not drop ur numbers on every what's app hook up thread? by walebizz(op): 1:44am On Jan 16, 2017
I have noticed girls on nairaland don't always drop there digits on every what's app hook up thread......don't they find it meaningful or what?or could it be that they are taken and dey don't need any other person, I will start dropping my digits when the girls starts to drop theirs, cause i dont see reason where I will be in a group where 90% of members there are male, #WHEN I NO BE GAY#
RomanceObsessed With Boobs by walebizz(op): 1:21am On Jan 16, 2017
the obsession I got for boobs it just getting ridiculous, I just too love boobs(especially the big ones). are we gonna call it nature or that just what I tend to like as a man?? whenever I see a lady i don't even care whether she is fine or not as long as she got boobs, I no go get my self again.......Abeg, Wetin I fit do to conquer boobs obsession?
RomanceRe: Guys Stare At My Boyfriend? by walebizz(m): 5:31am On Jan 15, 2017
[color=#990000][/color]PICTURE OF HIM OR I DON'T BELIEVE IT
RomanceRe: 10 Qualities A Man Will Have That Make Him Perfect Husband Material by walebizz(op): 4:48am On Jan 15, 2017
TrapQueen77:
cheesy


To whom it may concern... Prolly my future hubby...


Abeeeg come down Here and read it, who knows it myt be u I've been looking for grin
let me fill his place
Romance10 Qualities A Man Will Have That Make Him Perfect Husband Material by walebizz(op): 2:01pm On Jan 14, 2017
A lot of women write to us begging to understand why their relationships always fail… why guys treat them badly…why they always get hurt…why they can’t get a guy to commit. The common thread in most of these cases is these women are choosing men who clearly are not husband–or even relationship– material and hoping by some chance he’ll suddenly transform and be the knight in shining armor she wants.
This type of situation doesn’t exist anywhere aside from cheesy romantic comedies. If you choose to pursue a relationship with a guy who clearly isn’t relationship material, then you’re setting yourself up to fail before you even begin.
Trust me, I know all too well how enticing those damage cases can be. Sure, he’s has emotional issues, he’s jaded, he’s struggling at work, he has no direction, he still acts like a frat boy even though his acting like a drunk idiot and getting away with it days expired years ago, but there’s a really great guy underneath all that and as soon as we deal with all this other stuff, then we’ll have an amazing relationship. I’m sorry but no.
The problem with these damage cases is that they often have a lot of the qualities we want, but not the ones we actually need. There is a big difference between wants and needs when it comes to relationships, but it’s not always easy to make the distinction. You might think you need a guy who is tall and strapping and charismatic and a CEO of a major company, but a guy with those credentials might have a host of other qualities that wouldn’t be good for you, that wouldn’t fulfill your fundamental emotional needs.
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a serious relationship, these are the 10 qualities you need to look for in a man, the ones that tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he’s the one and this is it and he
1. He loves your good qualities, and accepts the bad.
Without making you feel guilty for having flaws.
You don’t need to hide your true self from him and put on a front in order to be what you think he wants. You can share your true self and be vulnerable and feel safe doing so, knowing that if anything it will make him feel even closer to you.
2. He is there for you when you need him, even if it’s inconvenient for him.
A partnership will sometimes require sacrifice and compromise. Life is unpredictable and unexpected. You can’t predict what will happen and nothing can possibly go as planned 100% of the time. A guy who is husband-material will be there for you when you need him, he will be in it with you, he will be your partner in whatever happens and will weather the storm with you, even though he might prefer to stay in the sunshine.
3. Considers you when making decisions, both big and small.
A relationship is a partnership, not a dictatorship. Factoring you in shows that he respects you, that he wants to create a life with you, not simply envelope you in his world. Our worlds can be comfortable, it’s not always easy taking someone else into account, factoring in their wants and needs and preferences, but that’s what a relationship is.
4. He is growth-oriented.
No one is perfect, we all have flaws. And these flaws aren’t black and white- usually a person’s greatest strength is a hint to their greatest weakness. In a relationship, his behavior affects you (and vice versa) and sometimes his less developed traits will have a negative impact on you. A growth oriented guy will want to strengthen his character and work on it. A guy who isn’t growth oriented will say your problem and this is the way he is and you need to deal with it.
For example, let’s say you’re dating a guy who can be insensitive at times. Maybe he doesn’t give you emotional support when you’ve had a rough day and instead just gives you matter of fact advice in a direct way. His no nonsense approach to solving problems might be useful to him in the workplace, but it might be hurtful to you sometimes when he doesn’t empathize with what you’re going through and instead just tells you what to do about it, or gets impatient by the fact that you’re upset over something he doesn’t consider to be that big of a deal.
You want a guy who will accept that his tone can be harsh and hurtful and who actually tries to work on it, not one who says it’s your problem and you need to deal with it. He probably won’t get it right every time, but if he’s growth oriented he will at least try.
5. Common beliefs and values.
This one seems so obvious yet it’s so often overlooked. If he is going to be your life partner, you have to make sure you both are on the same page when it comes to issues that matter. And if you aren’t on the same page, then make sure he respects where you stand (and vice versa) and that you both are willing to work together to reach a mutually fulfilling middle ground. This can refer to religion, core values, lifestyle preferences, where you want to live, whether you want to have children.
6. He views you as his partner.
The relationship is something more than just you and him… together, you and him are a team. And as that team, you are both individually stronger than you could be on your own. He sees you as his equal, as someone of great value who he can grow with, not someone who is there to feed his ego, give him validation, be his emotional crutch, be there to satisfy his needs.
He respects everything about you- your thoughts, ambitions, opinions, the things you say, the company you keep, your job. He doesn’t make you feel bad about your life circumstances and he appreciates the person you are and the choices you have made.
7. He is willing to put effort into the relationship.
If there is a problem, he wants to find a way to solve it, he wants to work harder, to be better, to be his best self. The important thing to keep in mind is that people have different ideas of what it means to put effort into a relationship. He might believe that working hard and being good at his job is putting in effort because he wants to provide for you and give you nice things and a comfortable lifestyle (I use this as an example because it’s a classic point of contention between men and women because she will often view him working too much as him putting no effort into the relationship and being married to his work).
8. You’re able to communicate with each other.
Even about tough issues and even if one person is upset with the other.
With the right guy, you won’t be afraid of brining up certain things for fear of rocking the boat. You know he respects you and will see what you have to say as valid and important. Every relationship will face its share of obstacles. There will be fights, miscommunications, arguments, and also times when one partner isn’t feeling loved. The only way to emerge from the tough times better and stronger is to work through them together and this starts with open communication.
9. He’s trustworthy.
You feel safe being open and honest with him and are not afraid of him violating that trust or using anything against you. You trust that he won’t leave you unexpectedly, that he is genuine, that he does mean what he says. You don’t feel an underlying sense of suspicion, like he has some ulterior motives. You trust that he cares about you deeply and would never intentionally hurt you.
10. He wants to marry you.
Ahh, it seems so obvious but yet, it’s not. A guy can have all the qualities on this list but if he doesn’t want to marry you, or maybe doesn’t want to get married in general, then he is not your husband. When a guy is ready to get married and meet a girl he thinks he can spend his life with, he knows pretty early on. That’s not to say they get engaged right away, but he knows this is it and she knows it too, maybe he tells her or maybe it’s just so obvious and he doesn’t even need to. It might be the wrong time, maybe he wants to wait until he’s more established in his career, more financially stable, but he will still convey his level of commitment, she won’t be left hanging and guessing and wondering.
If he still feels like he has wild oats to sow and is still drawn to the single, bachelor, party boy lifestyle, he is not marriage-minded and you are setting yourself up for disappointment. If what you want is a serious, lasting commitment, make sure he is on the same page before you do anything. When a guy is ready for a serious commitment, it’s usually pretty obvious. And if it isn’t, then bring it up and discuss it with him. If he’s husband material, he’ll understand. If he isn’t… then at least now you know before it’s too late!
RomanceRe: Meet The Hot Slim Ibadan Lady Causing Havoc On Social Media With Her Body by walebizz(m): 1:43pm On Jan 13, 2017
Damn. ...that boobs tho, it gat me, op...u get her contact??
RomanceRe: What Makes You Love Him/her? by walebizz(m): 1:30pm On Jan 13, 2017
she Is bold, carries her self in a gallant matter, beautiful, curvy and short and to top it all, a fluent speaker[color=#990000]
RomanceRe: Meet The Lady With The ‘Biggest Natural Boobs’ On Social Media (Pics) by walebizz(m): 1:27pm On Jan 13, 2017
una sure say no be baby wey she suppose carry put for belle she gather put for breast so??___ it too much
RomanceRe: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by walebizz(m): 7:07am On Jan 13, 2017
seize his fone and get him a smaller fone that won't be able to browse or visit porn sites
RomanceLadies,this What U Should Do After A Break Up by walebizz(op): 1:11pm On Jan 12, 2017
Lol

RomanceRe: "I Am Proud To Have Big B*obs" -- Lady Flaunts Her Boobs Online by walebizz(m): 1:04pm On Jan 12, 2017
eyes rolling*OMG* I LOVE THEM SO MUCH
RomanceRe: As An Okada Rider, Will I Be Able To Get A Learned Woman To Marry Me? by walebizz(m): 8:56am On Jan 10, 2017
GreenPlumes:
For now, I'm an Okada rider, and single. I always go for the best, but once they get to know that I do earn money from riding Okada, despite that I do other things not known to them, their disappointment is better imgined.

At this rate, does that not mean I will remain single for a long while?
lol
RomanceTen Kinds Of Women U Shouldnt Disvirgin If You Arent Ready to marry Them by walebizz(op): 8:35am On Jan 10, 2017
Guys, Be Careful! These are 10 Categories of Ladies You Should Never Deflower If You Won’t Marry Them
.If you a man who is fond of entering into a relationship just to have s*x with the woman and then back out, you must know that there are certain kinds of women you must not do that to.
In a nutshell, almost every Nigerian guy wants to be the first person to pop a lady’s cherry as it is a thing of joy and validation of being a real man. The major concern is that many guys take ladies V!rg!n!ty without without having any intention to date let alone marry them.
Before taking that step, there are categories of ladies you should not disflower nor impregnate if you know you won’t marry them
1. Spiritual Ladies
Some ladies stay away from men just because they have vow to God not to lose their V!rg!n!ty before marriage. When you trick these ladies by promising them undying love just to take their V!rg!n!ty from them, God’s wrath will definitely come upon such a man
2. Hot tempered Ladies
In case you don’t know, some ladies are very aggressive that they don’t take poo from guys. If you dare break their V!rg!n!ty and try to dump them, they can torture you either by biting off your joystick or pour acid on you
3. Native Doctors Patronizers
To be very frank and sincere, guys really need to take a chill pill on whom to break their V!rg!n!ty if not calamity will befall them. This reminds me when I was reading profusely for my final exam last month just to escape probation when I overheard a lady making incantations and raining curses on his boyfriend who robbed her of her V!rg!n!ty and broke up with her afterwards. I had to quickly lock my window and switched on my home theatre so that the curses she laid will not lose direction and come straight into my own room
4. Ladies who coerce you into Blood Covenant
Some ladies put guys in bondage by forcing blood covenant on them when they breach their promises to marry them after sleeping with them. Such guys may eventually breach their promises carelessly and may end up in six feet.
5. Ladies whose Families are Fetish
It is very paramount to know that some parents make incisions on their daughters and lay curses on any guy who tricks them into $ex. Some guys out of ignorance will do the deed and won’t be able to get jobs after graduating from school. guys may not know this. Sometimes they graduate from school and end up playing Bet9ja and 1960bet as a result of the spell
6. Ladies whose Family Forbid Abortion
In some families, it is a taboo to impregnate their daughters and opt for abortion. That was how my friend tricked this neighbour’s maid into his room when dying of konji and before the girl could say Jack Robinson, my friend don begin comb the girl after which she got pregnant. Am impromptu wedding was fixed and he was forced to marry the girl.
7. Underage Girls
Some guys are ambassadors for deflowering ladies just to brag to their friends that they’re indeed men. That was how I read on Nairaland front page about a man who impregnated a soldier’s daughter a d was sent to 21 years imprisonment.
8. Ladies Suffering from Physical Disability
It is very disgraceful that some guys even take advantage of the physically challenged ladies when they know they can’t marry them. Guys should really caution themselves because the girls parents will always be praying for a scape goat that will impregnate their daughter and the man will marry her by force by fire.
9. Rural/Village Girls
Some of us who school in villages will know that some students will always flirt with local girls in the village just to enjoy their lives. This is a very risky thing to do considering the fact that when casala burst, the guys will be forced to marry the poor girl.
10. Ladies whose Fathers are Prophets
A word from an angry prophet especially the one from a white garment churches can either sharpen your life or destroy it. These prophets can see you when bleeping their daughters through revelations and will use Bible verses to lay curses on you.
HealthWill Taking Of Too Much Salt Kill An Individual At Once!? by walebizz(op): 9:23am On Jan 09, 2017
Just wants to know if consumption of salts kill an individual, if taken @ once!!
need Answers please
RomanceRe: The 25 Strangest Phobias You Could Have by walebizz(m): 6:30pm On Jan 06, 2017
I have phobia for animals, my heart beats fast each time I see animals of any kind and fear for aggressive people
Jokes Etc"Mummy, The Made Is An Angel" by walebizz(op): 8:11am On Jan 05, 2017
A little boy said "Mom, did u know that Anna is an angel"? Mom said "U mean the maid, why do u say that"? The boy said "Well, because I saw her naked in your bedroom with her hands on the wall & she was shouting; "Oh God I am coming... I am coming ... I am coming...". If it wasn't for dad who was holding her tight from behind, she would have gone up to Heaven...!!!" ***MOM FAINTED***.
RomanceRe: 8 Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Ladies With Small Bosom & Butt by walebizz(m): 1:07am On Jan 05, 2017
lol...e no necessary mean say she must fine, she might be averagely beautiful but she has to have big boobs, I don't like ass that much except from the curvy girls own type
RomanceRe: Busty Lagos Big Girls Parade Massive Boobs To Celebrate New Year (photos) by walebizz(m): 12:46am On Jan 05, 2017
heard an average normal boobs is equivalent to 4 bricks what the hell will this be equivalent to my pple.......maybe 2 cements
RomanceRe: Hot Pics Of Guys Women Will Find Irresistible by walebizz(op): 8:51am On Jan 02, 2017
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RomanceHot Pics Of Guys Women Will Find Irresistible by walebizz(op): 8:49am On Jan 02, 2017
Take a look @ this wonderful sexy creatures

RomanceRe: Reasons Why Chika Ike Should Be Your Woman Crush by walebizz(m): 1:28pm On Dec 29, 2016
[color=#006600][/color]she make sense Abeg
RomanceRe: Are Nigerian Women Getting More Beautiful Or Ugly By The Day (honest Opinions) by walebizz(m): 2:20pm On Dec 28, 2016
Every one base on their different opinions....tho

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