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tivta:
We all have our addictions, some to chase women, some music, some movies, some eating etc.
It's always best to do all moderately, afterall no one is a saint.

How about not having any addiction at all?

Oluromantic:
You need to be distinguishing your fact well

Everyone knows the meaning of TV. MC is also known by a lot of people.

Thinking everyone knows what you know is a proof that you do not know everything and no one does. Learn as you grow

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



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Only sane mentally, socially, physically, financially and emotionally matured adults should marry and everything you raised will not be an issue.

tivta:
People need to learn never to bet more than they can't afford to lose.
For instance, instead of buying designer wears, drinking or womanizing use part of the money for gambling then you won't lose much.
Always make sure all your bills, feeding and medication are paid for before gambling, most of all just gamble for fun, it's better that way...

How about not Gambling at all?

Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

Lets start from a logical point of view, why do you think arguing and quarreling will make him stop? You said someone is deeply addicted in a destructive act and you are engaging the wrong tools in stopping him. Well, divorcing him is a very strong option but do you love him, do you want the marriage to work? Then its help he needs, all the help he can get, including a psychiatric evaluation