seguno2:


So you were telling lies below

I alone can not be a "we".........

Enyia hapum aka

seguno2:


Why did you vote for the old thief and his APC Presidency cabal in 2015
Ayam not understanding.
Adonbelieveit.
Please explain.
Thanks

Never voted, will never vote......but PDP is not the solution we need. PDP = APC.......no difference.

PDP should go and sleep, we are voting out Buhari for a younger generation and not old thieves in PDP

mceze:


You are an id*ot..Did you actually saw the four walls of education? I doubt you did, if not, you won't be spewing this trash..These guys are Thieves! Speak the truth when required..

Chinekke mee, only me get all these insults.....lol

One day, just go to the market, check the prices of a 125amp change-over, then go online and check the price of same change over at a reputable electrical company like ABB.

You may not understand what I mean sha.....

Please which one be seeing four walls of education education don get wall?

Take it easy with the insult biko

....for once I beg to differ, you know we are calculating this money based on the common appliances we buy....like bulbs, sockets....most of these items are very inferior, to get or buy the original of these items are very expensive. Seriously, original electrical appliances are very expensive......

hmmm, but 4.9billion is too much oooo.....

....But I continue asking, is cattle raring a national business, is it not a personal business again, why is the federal government so concerned in forcing cattle colonies in every state.......to what end?

Ike gwuru

....While his mates are at Davos...


Mtchewwww


Ike gwuru

donstan18:
She's indirectly searching for a husband, hereby telling us that she can cook soup.

She should try another pattern, cooking pattern is outdated and old as Buhari's first pubic hairs


She de form "Men are scum" with her face looking like a bucket face and her nose looking like an ancestral whistle


Afang soup kor, Adam soup ni

Dude....ancestral whistle kwa, kai, kai, kai........

Donald3d:
In addition to the strong points listed by the oga above me :

First of all you know your wife more than anyone else
How is she with other people normally,friends family etc .

If she is normally accommodating and this is the first time you are seeing her "putting off " people then there is an underlying problem , something else you must have done ,or something else you both agreed on and you went against the agreement you both had .

If I am to do a "psycho" analysis and take your words for it :

They came on the 28th , you all were happy together till 1st , when you went out .

Wahala and first sign of her behaviour(according to your story) came up at the bar when you told the two women to go home and you wanted to drink with your friend .

So its safe to say she was comfortable with their stay if they could stay for five days without her showing any sign of being uncomfortable ,women are generally not that patient ,to stay for five days with people they are not comfortable with , she would have given you or them a subtle sign or would have told you straight from like the third day, things like "when are they going "(this is danger) , take note its different from "how long will they be with us"(this one is ok,especially if she asked before they came) ****I love psychology**** . If she didnt show any sign like that or ask any question like that, its safe to say she is ok with them staying .

Moving on , from the points above i can conclude that she has no problem with them , na two of una get wahala between una sef , she is just pouring out the anger on them . Its also possible she is trying to protect you from something because the trigger point here was the bar and you telling them to go home . Now lets dive deeper .....


Lets ask some questions :

1.Is your friend a womanizer ? (if thats the case she probably feels , he might be "corrupting you" )
2.Did you both(you and your wife) agree that you would limit or stop drinking ? (it might sound crazy but trust me its possible, thats why she is angry)
3.Do you guys have any unresolved issue ?
4.Is there something she asked you to do for her that you have not done ?
5.How much did you spend on drinks , was she trying to caution or limit your spending ? (probably telling you to save ? )

All these little details might seeem irrelevant , but might have triggered her reactions .Even though it was wrong of her to have gone to that extreme lenghth .

All these could have been avoided that night you got back home from the bar .

She is your wife you should know her weak points , all women have something that triggers them to open up and talk no matter how difficult they are .
When you got home was it

"Why did you just leave the bar angrily and why are you not talking to me , and where is my food "

OR was it

"Baby , I noticed a change in your face when I asked you and kemi to go home last night , if there is anything wrong , I would be more than happy to listen to you so we can resolve it , you know you are my sunshine , when you are sad I am sad too " *while carressing and pecking her*

Oga, every woman has a "pin code", if you cant figure it out , it would be hard resolving issues

Some of them its making them laugh
Some its promising them gifts
Some its just being caring
Some its just using a soft tone of voice
Some its a combination of everything


Bottom line , you should have found a way of making her open up that night so the issue doesnt go into the morning.You should have also found a way to give yourselves some pencil and sharpener (that thing can solve quarrel for Africa , thank God ! for pencil and sharpener in marriages )


And to the point where you asked your friends wife to cook, that was totally totally wrong sir ,
Number 1 they are your guests , no matter how close you people are, you should not tell your guest to cook
Number 2 thats your wife's territory, she should be the only one to give anyone authority to use it (even though its your house)
Number 3 all men should know how to cook for situations like this





Just talk to her , dont just talk ,COMMUNICATE and most importantly LISTEN , there is something amiss somewhere

I would suggest you read this article I wrote a long time ago :





How to spice up your marriage and prevent divorce
https://www.nairaland.com/3314181/how-spice-up-marriage-also

Woow, dude, are you a psychologist, you nailed it, every point you raised was correct.

Her anger, I spend too much...I was the one paying the bills
I allowed my friend stay in my own room while I stayed with her in her own room
We usually come back late
No sharpening of pencil because of little boy around


But I still think she should have come to me directly than heaping her frustration on the girl. All the same, thank you so much, I now see where I fuxcked up

simiolu1:
Case 1: You didn't inform your wife of your friend's visit or you did and she kicked against it.

I just have to ask; did you inform your wife before your friend and his wife showed up at your doorstep?

I know this may sound unreasonable, but I don't think you informed your wife of your friend's visit early enough. Or you informed her and she kicked against it but you went ahead and still accommodated your guests.

And to top it off, you gave a guest she didn't welcome the permission to enter "her" kitchen to cook! Damn!

If my hunches are true, then your wife is just being territorial. First you need to talk to her that you didn't mean to offend her by bringing guests to the house without her knowledge/consent. Then have her apologize to the couple for her behavior.

I know the chauvinists here would scream blue murder! How dare he apologise for bringing visitors into "his" house!!! Bros, they won't be there when your wife is making the house a living hell for you o.

Case 2: Me and my husband; no friends, visitors or relatives allowed.

But if this is a case of her not wanting friends and family to visit, then you have your job cut out for you by making her understand that people and relationships are greater than money.

In the meantime, your wife has already embarrassed your guests and I don't think your friend's wife would allow them stay in that house till the period they originally planned.

I informed her 3days before they came, she was good to them untill the day we decided to stay a while out before going in.

PuntHunt:
Your wife feels uncomfortable having them around. The size of your house may also be another problem if your wife isn't free to express herself how she would have when she is with just you at home.

Talk to your wife and find out her reasons for making such an utterance and maybe she will open up to you and you could work out a way through it all till your friend and his wife complete their stay.

A 3 bedroom flat, accommodating someone for just one week is it a big deal? basically, she is trying to make my house a no-go area for all my friends and probably my family members in the future.

I am just tired and confused

Ike gwuru

Politicians only care about their pocket.

Pmb means well for this country but the level of corruption being perpetrated is so sophisticated that he can't even begin to unravel it.

Buhari is just clueless, he has no business acumen, he has nothing at all to offer Nigeria, he is not fit to be a 21st-century president of a developing country.

Imagine explaining basic statistics to Buhari with current prevalent computing software......you are just wasting your time.

I am depressed. I just don't know how to tackle this issue.

A friend of mine came over with his wife on the 28th of December to my house. I have a wife and a kid.

Everything was okay till on the 1st of January when we all went out together, on getting home I decided to still hang out a while with my friend at a bar near my house while we told the two women to go on home. My wife became angry, didn't talk to me all through the night and until the next morning.

When we woke up, she refused cooking till 12 pm, I had to tell the wife of my friend to fry some eggs so we can have brunch, till evening, she didn't cook anything, I had no option than to tell the girl to cook indomie to eat if she is hungry.

I then went out with my friend only for the wife of my friend to call and tell him that my woman says they should pack and leave the house because she has had enough of them.

I was flabbergasted, this is a friend I do stay in his house when I do travel to his base weeks when on a business trip.


I am still short of words, what exactly do I do in this situation because I can't fathom the audacity she has to tell a visitor to pack and leave. If she starts acting this way, what does the future.....

If you listen closely to that song....shether..... Remy Ma really got Nicki real bad.

yvelchstores:
I remember a neighbour whose children used Caro white. It's really sad. The most common one is the use of funbact A on newborns. When I had my daughter, at least 4 ladies kept recommending it because she had a rash. It's scary how shallow ppl think.

I remember years ago in boarding school, a friend was using sivoclear right from primary school cos her mum bought it for her. Soon Enof, she always had injury and bled when the seniors asked us to fetch water and the bucket of water brushed against her leg. It was scary.

Sad sad sad. What

Is funbactA bad for newborn?

jokepearl:
1st, pregnancy date is counted from the day of your last period not the day you conceived.

So if your wife period started May 12th, then she is almost 7weeks pregnant.

2nd, Scan uses the size of the baby at a time to predict the age, this may change and vary everytime a scan done. Also big babies appear older with a scan.

So relax

Biko explain, how is pregnancy date counted from the last day of the peroiod

Biafrannuke:
Standing in the middle is a sin according to the Bible
you must stand somewhere otherwise you will be worse hit.

how can you be worried at the same time not knowing what you want?

I stand for a better Nigeria, because I have come to realise that all politicians are the same no matter tribe

Nigeria is going through a very trying period which might make or mar the sovereignty of Nigeria as an entity.

The Igbos threatening secession, Arewa giving Igbos quit notice from their region, Yorubas just watching, other Tribes waiting on the sideline for the outcome to decide, the FG trying to make peace and placate everyone....

In all these, I strongly believe that there is a group of Igbos which unfortunately I am amongst them.....

I don't subscribe to the way Ipob and NK is going about the Biafra struggle at same time I am tired of the way Nigeria is being governed. I believe that there are other folks whether Igbo or not who thinks the way I do, so my question is, how do or what is the best solution to this Impasse.

Should Nigeria be divided along ethnic lines or should Nigeria be restructured .......What's the best solution that would leave every Tom and dick happy .

I can see that many Nigerians are not conversant with reading detective and espionage novels. Novels from authors like Tom clancy, Robert ludulum etc.........they will understand that the Man is partially right, just that in Nigeria, everything is usually abused and used as a conduit for corruption.

Forgive him, then look into how you can give him that he is seeking outside, because I believe if a man is getting the whole deal at home, what's the essence of going outside......just saying

Amberon:
Fear women?

Women are not the ISIS, boko haram, armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists , drug dealers that kill and maim people everyday. I pity your life.

Re u married if yes, pray never to be in in situation where ur will-power would be tested by the woman in the middle of the night with no where to go.

Thats all I have to say.

PaulKillerman:

I was like you before... I felt enraged seeing men touch women, until I saw myself acting irately without controls when a woman brought out the devil in me...

U never can tell bro, after that day, anytime I see domestic issues like this, I am not quick to judge; NY first question will be. "What did she do"
Women could be something else my brother... , like devil in human skin . If u see something's u would understand.

You are right brother, I used to think same way till I nearly did it, had to restrain myself with the utmost will-power I couldd muster, the worst was it occurred late in the night.....


Fear women that's all....

In the next 15 years, will that job you can't afford to loose still matter to you

In the next 30years, will you still have the joy and zeal to go to that job like you are doing now..?


But in the next 30years, how joyful will it be for you to see your son or daughter all grown up and doing well..... think about it, sometimes there is more to life than work.....

who dropped the bomb on IDP camp?

what has been done about it?

who has taken any action or responsibilty for the mistake?

Many questions....... no answer.

They said it was a mistake, yet no inquiry was done, maybe no compensation was done either.

Nigeria my country.......

Chukwu nyere anyi aka

if you can brother, drop the game to help others. instead of begging for money we can stake and win.

NgeneUkwenu:


Mark these handles, I quoted, they are recruited by Jonathan --the world acclaimed ineffectual buffoon, to defend criminals on the internet..So dont even bother, replying to their hollow attempts to muddle up discussions..

Mana, chere oooo.....

Sentiments apart, are Fayose questions not valid, leave Apc or pdp out of it.

Critically examine the questions he raised.

sarrki:

Wait oooo
Am confuse?
Not Gej again?
Oh sorry I forgot that anyone that oppose pmb is wiles hero

What's "wiles hero" biko?

I don't understand the outcry......she didn't met her bail conditions that's why she is still there.

She hasn't been sentenced na.

As for the cloths, what else would she be wearing inside the prison yard......GUGGI GOWN?


Maybe she didn't wanna stress herself changing into her cloths before going to court cause she might have had the premonition she wont be leaving that day.........

As for those calling the pastor names........wait till someone defames your name publicly, then you know how it feels. If what she said and wrote about the pastor is true, let her prove it to the court and then sue him for damages.

If you are sincere and sure of your key, why not drop it here, it doesn't remove anything from you.


If you have won millions or became a millionaire with this key, then be magnanimous enough to drop it here as it removes nothing from you.

Na wah, from the comments so far on the front page, I can assuredly say NONE,Not even one of those that commented read the article.

Then, Nigerian journalist eh, an impeccable source says EFCC arrests two CBN directors, CBN refutes the claim. No names whatsoever was mentioned.

From that they jumped into Saraki's matter with paris refund money.......


Everything inconclusive