₦airaland Forum

uyiekpen26:
she has to leave the house i paid for and also forfeit everything in her possession. She has been calling me since morning. But my mind is made up.

Go on and do what ever you deem right, but remember, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.....

DeeTus:
The problem here is that you don't view things in someone's shoes very properly. You sound a little selfish but I do understand why.

Look, let me tell you; a woman who doesn't appreciate a man who works hard to make her comfortable, should be deprived of things she enjoy.

see, am not arguing the fact the girl bleeped up big time, all am saying is he shouldn't go to the extreme just to get at her.

Tamper Justice with mercy...

Also I still maintain, she is not his wife and so she is not under any obligation to be faithful to him, he should have used all those money he was spending on her to pay her bride price......

DeeTus:
Your advice is mediocre.

Where is the mediocrity in my advice, so he should go ahead and disgrace her, stripe her of everything because she cheated on him......

He who has no Sin should be the first to cast a stone...


All am saying is he should forgive her and move on with his life, moreover she is not his wife, there is no law that states a gf should be 100% faithful.......

@Op, if you have never cheated on the girl for the two years you guys were dating, your actions are right, but if you have ever cheated........

Secondly, you are taking this too far, yes she cheated on you, we are all humans, no body is perfect.......

What happened to forgiveness, forgive her and move on with your life. You have already broken up with her, so what's the essence of going the extra mile of disgracing or making sure she goes back to the gutter you picked her from.


All I have to say is this, be careful, nobody knows tomorrow . Forgive and forget about her, don't go to the extent of disgracing her or trying to get back at her.

This world is like a rotating standing fan........

please how is the autopilot system created.....
cc alabiman

The APC "BROOM" was actually a symbol of sweeping the pdp away from power,.......

My question is this, since the APC is the incumbent party in Edo state, what is the broom symbol meant to sweep away this time around..........

lancehayat:
But why are we still having so many unemployed graduate, if the programme was good enough. Beside most people who benefited from this programme are related to our politicians or sinior civil servant.

Seriously, I personally know of a friend that benefited from this scheme, he is not connected to any politician or civil servant ........

He had a first class in Electrical Engineering from FUTO.......

We Nigerians are missing something important here, the main issue in this post is not even the food he is eating but who he had lunch with....... THE CABINET SECRETARY OF INFORMATION AND COMMUNICATIONS of Kenya..


May I ask this pertinent question, how many Nigerian Government official did he meet with before he left......

This goes to show which country takes things serious....

This Man Katsuya Takasu is a plastic surgeon, no wonder he looks so young at 71...


Kudos to him though....

oglalasioux:
1) Are you saying you believe in the Egyptian and Greek gods? Do they exist? My answer is no.

2) Everyone believe in a higher power (my posts on different religious topics affirm I believe a higher power is responsible for the universe), but is the Abrahamic religion god real? Is it the god responsible for the universe? Does that god even exist? No.

3) Evidence have shown that mankind created gods of different forms to suit their opinion of the universe especially the forces that rule the universe; gravity, electromagnetism and the nuclear forces.

4) Science found out that what mankind call gods doesn't exist. It's just the forces of the universe in action and that is the basis of atheism. Because all the gods manifest in exactly the same way (I can give you more insight on this), they are nothing but the laws of physics in action.

5) Who created the laws of physics, you may ask. It goes all the way to the big bang and I strongly believe a higher power set it off (if we are not products of a black hole from another universe) and such power cannot single out the Jews as it's special people giving them the leverage to murder other people and usurp their land.

you sound quite intelligent, I will admit to that, but beware to avoid committing HUBRIS...


You believe in a higher being right? others also believe in this same higher being, but saying that others belief in this same higher being though albeit different from your own interpretation of this higher being is not genuine is what I don't subscribe to .......

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HazzanTazzan:
There is still enuf sun in the sky to dry my clothes...

Who wld ever think I can make 220,000 naira in 17days...
A guy parading the street of Ikeja last December ... Doing petty marketing job of 25k per month..

Hard work plus critical thinking pays ... alhamdulillah

Which Niche re you into on Fiverr

oglalasioux:
The Egyptians and the Greeks never believed in the christian god. Civilization started with them.
As for the progress of later times, your bible can give us an answer to why they are no records of the achievements of people who don't believe in a god or gods. The people who formed your religion unleashed age old genocidal murder of everyone opposed to them and their god. Do you know how many books on science the church banned or burned? Galileo's Dialogue and even Newton's Principia were nearly wiped out.

I still urge you to read James Michener's The Source.

(I suggest you make your arguments with points than insults. It doesn't tell good of an intellectual and I believe you are one)

one question......

The early Egyptians and Greeks that started civilisation, did they believe in any God at all or were they pure atheist......

Buhari's government will count this feat as one of their achievements in office. Very soon LAI & Co. will start telling us "had it not being for Buhari's governance, the Nigerian Dream team wouldn't have gotten any medal at all".....


Watch as this prophecy gets fulfilled.......

omenka:
As expected, Samsung Flatron LCDs are already here showing their anger over Nothing!!

You just can't envy their life at all.

You better purge yourself of this misguided hate against the Igbos.

IGBO AMAKA!!!!!

The white man came, he put a knife on the things that held us together and we have fallen apart.......Chinua achebe (Things fall apart) .

@Ibrahim1975


So 90% of all crimes committed in Nigeria are by the IGBOs......

igba jiri chalk n'eziokwu.......

ethnic bigot......

I will love to know more about this...
Thanks

@Maclatunji, I used to have so much respect for you when you were a mod, but this your thread.......SMH!!!!!!


Never knew you were such an ethnic bigot, tufiakwa!!!!, look at the amount of hate you are spewing......

This is really pathetic, I thought the "red beret wearing" sports minister is there at Rio, what's really going on.....

Just 18 players and 5 officials Buhari and his ministers can't take care of, is it Nigerians that are upto 180million he will take care of.....

#thisunfair....

@Op .......isi adighi gi mma 4 real.......LWKMD!!!!!!!
Imagine.........

Stella42:
Now let me explain things here, since she had the opportunity to work with me through this platform. I placed an advert for a personal assistant needed, several people called and I did the interview, I chose Mrs Peace because I believe she's matured and can handle the position well. I have alot of businesses I do mostly online. That's why I needed a personal assistant, to work for me in areas where I'll be to busy to attend to. I told her that there's no physical office to work, and that this job is very flexible, She can as well as do other jobs. We agreed on 30k per month.
Fast forward to a week later when I had to do recruitment for my ushers, I told her to come for the recruitment so she'll meet the new girls joining in. After the recruitment was over, I told Mrs Peace that she should come the next day so she'll sign the necessary documents, she didn't come, God knows I can't remember the excuse she gave, I called some days later to remind her, but she didn't. Why will I keep bothering myself over someone that isn't even interested in Signing any papers? I was too busy preparing for an event coming up so I let that slide. Pls note that she started working on May 20. The only job she did was the event I told her of which took place on June 14. After the event my so called PA never called to make enquiries on other jobs, she didn't even bulge. Obviously she was waiting for her salary. During the interview, I told her I need someone that knows the in and out of events management and planning, she said of course she does, but trust me she has no idea. If I don't call, she won't call. How can a worker be this bad? A graduate for that matter? And you expect me to gladly pay you 30k? When I didn't see anything you did? I attend my meetings all by myself and I have a PA?
I travelled for business and I told her that when I'm back I'll like to see her face to face and not just transfer the money. She agreed, just two days ago she said she can't take it anymore, this is someone that insulted me last two months Even when her salary isn't due. Mrs Peace, you better learn to be polite. Am in Lagos now. I have promised not to call you, so when you're ready, call Me and let's meet at a place. I won't pay you 30k because you didn't live up to expectation. I'll rather use the remaining half to buy provisions for the less privileged than to pay you that 30k. Mark my words

Stella,

Am not here to judge, but biko since she did some work for you during the event, strive to pay her...

Since you guys agreed on a certain amount, endeavour to pay her that......


Posting pictures on NL is not necessary , you guys should settle this issue amicably to avoid aha ojo......u re a biz woman, so avoid anything that wld bring you to bad repute .....


Your reputation.......guard it jealously, don't let anything tarnish it

Stella42:
Thank you so much. She worked for me for just a month, I told her I'm no longer interested in having her as a PA as she has no idea what it means to be a personal assistant.

OK, did you pay her for the one month she worked as your pa.....

That's the bone of contention......

Leviticus 19:13;
Deuteronomy 24:15;
James 5:4

Pay her whatever you guys agreed on.......strive to do that to avoid reproach.

Stella42:
Okrika get grade madam. Have you heard of boutique grade? That is what I sell. And yes the bags is as good as new.The 'okrika' looking type can never be sold at the price my bag bale is sold. That one is either 50k or thereabout

Somebody called you out on a thread that you are owing her for some couple of months after working for you as a pa.......

Biko do well to give her the money you owe her; for her to call u out, it means she has endured and can no longer endure......

Good name is better than money....

https://www.nairaland.com/3274930/exposed

Stella42:
good day everyone, we still have lovely trendy sneakers in stock. Place your order asap...

Somebody called you out on a thread that you are owing her for some couple of months after working for you as a pa.......

Biko do well to give her the money you owe her, for her to call u out, it means she has endured and can no longer endure......

Good name is better than money....

https://www.nairaland.com/3274930/exposed

Stella42,
Eziaha ka ego........good name is better than money

Do well to pay people that worked for you. If you don't have the money now, be sincere and open to them rather than bringing such disgrace and disrepute to your name.

For this to reach Nairaland, they must have tried all available means to get their money from you.

I advise you to endeavour, try your possible best to settle them to avoid.........

praemonitus, praemunitus.......

This same el-rufai said Buhari has nothing to offer Nigeria..... Now he is saying he has always been the saviour.......I fear politicians.....

http://pointblanknews.com/pbn/exclusive/buhari-has-nothing-to-offer-should-retire-says-el-rufai/

Something fishy is going on in this country and with the government of BUHARI........

Shall come shall come when Shall come shall go.........

Thanks beatzone for this wonderful thread.

i just registered on fiverr, am yet to land any order, peeps help me check my profile, then suggest ways i can improve it.

nedu2000:
It's not her in the picture,seems many NlDers didn't play "Spot the difference"on punch newspaper when they were little

God bless you my brother, the hairline of both girls aint the same......

Cheap popularity........

Celestine Omehia vs Rotimi Amechi is a precedent.
APC has nothing to do with this. I seriously blame Ikpeazu for not being wise in foreseeing this occurring and making a move to prevent it.

Never relax on ur oars till you reach the shoreline....#word

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