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I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

uboma:
I hope he will not further harm you when he finds out you are making plans to move out of his house? If this may be the case, it is best to file a formal report with the Police and ensure that he commits to not inflicting more harm on you in writing.

You will need to look for a temporary place, don't wait till the end of the month to move out of his place.

It is sad to read about your experiences, some men are simply beasts in Human clothing.

I'm not waiting til the end of the month

LilMissFavvy:
You have to be strong, dust yourself up and move on. Too bad that you wasted 4years without noticing his abusive nature earlier. Also, never let the bad experience affect your future relationships with men.

Thank you

I created this account to post this as I want to remain anonymous.
I was brutally beaten by my fiance that i lived with tonight(he met my people and I have met his too)
This is the second time this is happening within a space of six (6) month and I have decided to end our 4 years relationship which started when I was in my penultimate year at the University.
I am staying with him not because I wasn't earning enough to get an accommodation, but because I wanted us to contribute resources and start a family.
I have never been a burden on him as I constantly ensure I bought enough foodstuff at the end of each month so he pays just utility bills.
I'm a professional in my field and I earn slightly above #100,000 per month. I need a place on the mainland but close to the island that i can stay for a while pending when I will be able to get my permanent accommodation. I am open to paying monthly rent starting from end of this month.
I can't spend another night with this monster. I don't know how to face people tomorrow about how I come about a swollen face. The sound of my cry begging him not to kill me still echoes in my head.
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I can't sleep. I'm sweating and shivering. My head and eyes aches. No one to talk to
Nothing in me prays for this man. I am struggling not to curse him

I created this account to post this as I want to remain anonymous.


I was brutally beaten by my fiance that i lived with tonight(he met my people and I have met his too)
This is the second time this is happening within a space of six (6) month and I have decided to end our 4 years relationship which started when I was in my penultimate year at the University.

I am staying with him not because I wasn't earning enough to get an accommodation, but because I wanted us to contribute resources and start a family.

I have never been a burden on him as I constantly ensure I bought enough foodstuff at the end of each month so he pays just utility bills.

I'm a professional in my field and I earn slightly above #100,000 per month. I need a place on the mainland but close to the island that i can stay for a while pending when I will be able to get my permanent accommodation. I am open to paying monthly rent starting from end of this month.

I can't spend another night with this monster. I don't know how to face people tomorrow about how I come about a swollen face. The sound of my cry begging him not to kill me still echoes in my head.

Modified

I can't sleep. I'm sweating and shivering. My head and eyes aches. No one to talk to

Nothing in me prays for this man. I am struggling not to curse him.