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I am 26yrs old. My African American girl friend whom i have been with for 5 years broke up with me (i think) cause i am in a financial distress due to my business. When i met her, i was doing absolutely fine cause i had a very good job. My house is almost going to foreclosure, my car is gone and my debtors are blowing up my phone. I cant seem to think straight anymore. She told me before she left that i was not a go getter, which i know i am. Prior to that she adviced me to do what my acquaintance's do to make quick money (if you are niaja, u would know what i am saying) , but i told her i will never go that route. Then a few weeks later she left.

My question is
Have anybody gone through this and how did they solve the problem

I am a guy and sometimes all you Niger boys think you can approach a Niger babe with a very cocky attitude, so when they diss you, your next move will be running to a fat white girl with skinny white friends that will tell her to keep you cause you are the only one available for her. Then she ends up getting pregnant and the child support starts. I know some Nigerian girls are very silly and at the same time very caring when you get to know them. I know most of you get excited when you see a Nigerian girl who you think is beautiful and because you are Nigerian too, then u think u can get her to be yours. Advice, all you have to do is to shut up about Nigeria, treat her like you would treat a black American or any body else with respect… don’t speak broken English to her just because you know she is Nigerian, don’t ask her about queens college or is she ibo or Yoruba. Keep it simple and talk to her about things you know is relevant to getting her in bed.
I have three girlfriends, sincerely speaking… 2 is Nigerian, and one is Black American. I like the American because we have role-playing in the relationship. But she is a bitch like always. The other 2 Nigerians are very caring, they support me as always, they give me love on everything I do, but the only thing is that they hardly come out to play…  because they are always grounded by their good parents, which brings me back to the “Nigerian girls in the U.S are lonely”. No they are not, they just really can’t Bleep with you because of their parents. So they stay home, watch tv, go to school until a man is being arranged as their husband… just kidding, lol.