I am 26yrs old. My African American girl friend whom i have been with for 5 years broke up with me (i think) cause i am in a financial distress due to my business. When i met her, i was doing absolutely fine cause i had a very good job. My house is almost going to foreclosure, my car is gone and my debtors are blowing up my phone. I cant seem to think straight anymore. She told me before she left that i was not a go getter, which i know i am. Prior to that she adviced me to do what my acquaintance's do to make quick money (if you are niaja, u would know what i am saying) , but i told her i will never go that route. Then a few weeks later she left.

My question is
Have anybody gone through this and how did they solve the problem

geeez don't you see it , leave her alone, she's a money sucka . you should be happy she's shown her true color.

such women are not worth it. please move on with your life, i admire your devotion to honesty, keep it up. for her to suggest you try bad means of making quick money, should be clear enough for you to know, she does not love you, she was only there for the money.

if she truly loved you,she would be standing by you and supporting you, in fact money would be the last thing on her mind.

don't mind you would soon bounce back. life is not a smooth straight road, you would have both the good times and bad times. your in one of the bad moments right now, but after that, there would be good moments. i think its at such times you really know those who are your true friends and care about you.

@Thonia, word! took exact words from my mouth. . . nothing more to say