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FORGIVENESS VOID- No one is perfecj. Mistakes are a part of life. Those who unwilling or unable to forgive, can pretty much count on having more unhealthy relationships overtime. Relationships based or growing on anger, spite, disgust, resentment or othernegative feelings associatedwith lack of forgiveness are like wilted flowers. They need tending to or they"ll die.
GUISE- Simulated relationships or those underthe guise of having a solid happy relationships are not destined for success, on thewhole. Or rather false is as false does, as Forest Gump might sa, Pretending wears thin and doesn"t last long.
HARM- Harmful thoughts, words and actions can sure lead to unhealthy relationships. An occasional outbreak during a stressful moment might be considered normal like swearing; i.e if someone hasn"t been battered(or other sever trauma has occured) by the other party. However, harmful, violent actions suchas those and repeated verbal negativity is abusive and not healthy in relationships or life.
INDULGENCE- Instant gratification or indulgence of unhealth behavior is a sign of trouble. Grabbing illicit drugs or another mate in secrecy is another. Yielding to unhealth temptations and desires is a pathway to unhealthy relationships.

Whether you like it or not, what you do for a living speaks volumes about you, and your professional credentials do factor into that inexplicably complex formula women use to calculate your desirability, even if you"re only being considered for a one night stand. When did life get so complicated, right?
Be prepared the next time a woman scours your LinkedIn profile for clues. Up your game by knowing what presumptions about your sex life she makes the next time you say, "Trust me, I"m a ..."
Doctor
The Good
It doesn"t matter if you"re a gynecologist, a podiatrist, ora dentist, we still expect youto know your way around the female anatomy. You didn"t go to all those years of med school for nothin" now, did you? It would be a serious bummer if you failed to locate our hot spots.
The Bad
Lots of women get nervous around doctors. We seriously get weirded out bythe prospect of being analyzed like a patient or worse...a cadaver! If you insist on playing sexy doctor, keep the clinical talk and mannerisms out of the bedroom. And no, we don"t want you pawing our breastsfor lumps.
What Gets Us Hot
When the pager goes off and you dial in with firm directives like "move the patient to the third floor and get an IV going, stat!" we swoon. It"s more the authoritative tone of your voice than the actual words that gets us Hot. Use that to your advantage.
Computer Programmer
The Good
You definitely experienced aperiod of time in high school (and then some) when you weren"t exactly the smoothest with the ladies. Why is this good? Because we presume you won"t be ascritical about our quirks as the average Joe. You offer ajudgment-free zone for our kinkiest fantasies. Plus, we love that you haven"t been sleeping around since 1989.
The Bad
Are you going to bring that iPhone to bed with you? Seriously, dude, try taking your eyes off your three hundred apps when you"re out. We aren"t exactly on Mars here; you really can breathe without the assistance of technology.
What Gets Us Hot
Different = Good. You obviously march to the beat of your own drummer. Whether that"s because youcan"t hear the beat everyone else is marching toor you are truly into doing your own thing, we think of you as a bit of an iconoclast in the tradition of Bill Gates. Even if you were a four-eyed brace-face as a teen, we obviously think you"re hot now, so don"t be afraid to play up your weirder hobbies.
Lawyer
The Good
We love being the highest court in your land, but rest assured, we want you to pass muster. We adore being subjected to your silver tongue and hope you"ll be able to use it to persuade us right out of ourpants. Provide us with strong arguments and supporting evidence for whywe should choose you, and be prepared with counter-arguments to totally win us over.
The Bad
Don"t be that lawyer. You know what I"m talking about

Girls ar like apples on trees. D best 1s ar at d top of d tree. D boys dont want 2 reach d good ones because they are afraid of fallin and gettin hurt.Instead dey just get d rotten apples 4rm d ground dat arent good but easy 2 get.So d apples at d top think somethin is wrong wit dem.Wen really they are amazing.They just hav 2 wait 4 d right boy,who is brave enough to climb all d way 2 d top of d tree 2 get dem.

Take care in romance as youhave a tendency to flirt fromone love affair to another. You also have an attraction for the opposite sex but should be careful as you arevery emotional, therefore you cannot make difference between good and bad.
You are advised to think well before making the first move, because, sometimes your partner may put you in a scandal. Everyone of the opposite sexes is not a virtuous, honest and loveable person. Some are cunning and advantage seeking.
A beautiful love partner can be paradise for the eyes, hell for the soul and purgatory for the purse.

Whether you like it or not, what you do for a living speaks volumes about you, and your professional credentials do factor into that inexplicably complex formula women use to calculate your desirability, even if you"re only being considered for a one night stand. When did life get so complicated, right?
Be prepared the next time a woman scours your LinkedIn profile for clues. Up your game by knowing what presumptions about your sex life she makes the next time you say, "Trust me, I"m a ..."
Doctor
The Good
It doesn"t matter if you"re a gynecologist, a podiatrist, ora dentist, we still expect youto know your way around the female anatomy. You didn"t go to all those years of med school for nothin" now, did you? It would be a serious bummer if you failed to locate our hot spots.
The Bad
Lots of women get nervous around doctors. We seriously get weirded out bythe prospect of being analyzed like a patient or worse...a cadaver! If you insist on playing sexy doctor, keep the clinical talk and mannerisms out of the bedroom. And no, we don"t want you pawing our breastsfor lumps.
What Gets Us Hot
When the pager goes off and you dial in with firm directives like "move the patient to the third floor and get an IV going, stat!" we swoon. It"s more the authoritative tone of your voice than the actual words that gets us Hot. Use that to your advantage.
Computer Programmer
The Good
You definitely experienced aperiod of time in high school (and then some) when you weren"t exactly the smoothest with the ladies. Why is this good? Because we presume you won"t be ascritical about our quirks as the average Joe. You offer ajudgment-free zone for our kinkiest fantasies. Plus, we love that you haven"t been sleeping around since 1989.
The Bad
Are you going to bring that iPhone to bed with you? Seriously, dude, try taking your eyes off your three hundred apps when you"re out. We aren"t exactly on Mars here; you really can breathe without the assistance of technology.
What Gets Us Hot
Different = Good. You obviously march to the beat of your own drummer. Whether that"s because youcan"t hear the beat everyone else is marching toor you are truly into doing your own thing, we think of you as a bit of an iconoclast in the tradition of Bill Gates. Even if you were a four-eyed brace-face as a teen, we obviously think you"re hot now, so don"t be afraid to play up your weirder hobbies.
Lawyer
The Good
We love being the highest court in your land, but rest assured, we want you to pass muster. We adore being subjected to your silver tongue and hope you"ll be able to use it to persuade us right out of ourpants. Provide us with strong arguments and supporting evidence for whywe should choose you, and be prepared with counter-arguments to totally win us over.
The Bad
Don"t be that lawyer. You know what I"m talking about

There is difference between love and infatuation, you develop love gradually, while infatuatilon start immidiatelly you sited a lady or a guy,his or her physical attraction moves you to develop interest in him or her, that is what is called infatuation, when u get to know him or her,his or her behaviour can suit you or otherwise, if it suits you then u start to develop love for him or her.

1 . Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous... not fine or sexy.
2 . Hold her hand at any moment... Even if its just for a second.
3 . Kiss her on the foreheador her neck.
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
6 . Recognize the small things... They usually mean the most.
7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
8 . Write her notes... She loves them.
9 . Introduce her to family and friends... As your girlfriend and not your chick!
10 . Play with her hair.
11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.
12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
13 . Tell her funny jokes, tellher stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.
14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15 . If she"s mad at you, kiss her.
16 . Give her piggyback rides.
17 . Bring her flowers.
18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
21 . Kiss her in the rain.
22 . If your in love with her...Tell her!

Infatuation is when you thinkhe"s as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble as Ralph Nader, as funny as Woody Allen, and as athletic as Jimmy Conners. Love is whenyou realize that he"s as sexy as Woody Allen, as smart as Jimmy Connors, as funny as Ralph Nader, as athletic as Henry Kissinger and nothing like Robert Redford - but you"ll take himanyway
The hours I spend with you Ilook upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it. You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou artenough
A bell is no bell "til you ring it,
A song is no song "til you sing it,
And love in your heart

The Color of Love
For some folks the color of love is
Red ... fiery and hot,
For others the color is
Blue ... placid and calm,
For some it"s
Yellow... caring but cautious,
For others it"s
Orange ... rich and fruitful,
For some the color is
Lavender... gentle and kind,
For others it"s
Purple... sacrificing and giving,
For some it"s
Green ... with its go, go, go,
For others the color is
White ... pure and undefiled.
But for me the color is
Rainbow ... Red and Blue,
Yellow and Orange,
Lavender and Purple,
Green and White.
The Rainbow painted by God
is a symbol of forever-love,
And as long as there is
sunshine and rain
there will always be Rainbows,
And as long as there are Rainbows
there will always be
forever-love for you.

Are you wondering about your girlfriend and you? Do you always pay for things when you go out together? Heres how to find out if she"s for real.
Steps
1. Change your clothing stylefor a day. Put on something you know you wouldn"t wear.Ask her over to your house.If she acts differently, then ask whats wrong. This works best on the weekends, in case your friends get the wrong message.
2. Bring her out on a date. When you go to pay for the two of you, reach into your pocket and say you don"t have any money. If she offers to pay for the two of you, then she"s okay. Try doing something cheap like the movies, so you don"t getin trouble.
3. If you buy her things every once in a while, like a teddy bear, a necklace, or other small gifts, stop. See her reaction when you two meet and you have nothing to give her.
4. Give her a small gift if her birthday is coming up. If you would normally give her an expensive gift, size down toa card from a gift shop. Say you didn"t have enough money for a big gift, and thiswas the only way to show your true feelings.
5. Ask if she would still want to be with you if you had no friends and no money. Be serious too. If she jokes around then she probably isn"t serious about your relationship.
6. Confront her if she reacts to all of these small tests. STAY CALM, but speak firmly.Don"t blow up on her and just speak your mind. If she really likes you, she"ll explain that you have just been acting not yourself andshe worries about you.
Tips
* Another way to see if she is for real is asking if you would like to go further into your relationship. Discuss this with her and see her reactions and her mood.
* Watch her body language. If she puts her hands on herhips a lot or crosses her arms, then something is up.
Warnings
* If she is dating you for theright reason, then apologize for how you"ve been behaving. Make it up to her another way. (Chocolates work wonders!)
* Don"t go out of your way to find out if she is just using you.

An Aboki man and an Igbo man went to an ATM machine to withdraw money....While the aboki man was withdrawing, the igbo man said, ''aboki u be mumu o!.... Idon see ur password, your password na four x (****)''.
The aboki laughed at him and said, ''na u be mumu, mypassword na 5298 no be four x!!!

A nigeria lady got married to a chinese guy, and gave birth to a son, d baby died after 5days. Her aunt started cryin sayin; l knew it, i knew it. A relative tuk her 2 a corna and ask her wat she meant by she knw it.she said . I no say china product no dey last, u no dey see their phones?

1. Someone calls you at 2
a.m in
the mid-night and
ask you, are you
sleeping?
Answer: no, I'm picking
beans to cook.
2. When its raining and
someone
notices you going
out, yet they ask; are
you going
out in this rain?
Answer: no, in the next
one.
3. You're making out with
a girl,
then you start
pulling her pants then she
asks;
what are you tryin
to do?
Answer: i want to wash
them
for you.
4. They see you coming
out of
the bathroom, wet;
did you just have a bath?
Answer:
no, i fell into the
toilet bowl.
5. You standing right in
front of
the elevator on the
ground floor going to
your office,
yet they ask; going
up?
Answer: no, i'm waiting
for
my
office to come down
and get me.
6. Your boyfriend comes
home
with a bunch of
flowers, and you still ask
him; are
those flowers?
Answer :no baby, they're
carrots!
7. You're in the toilet and
you
locked the door,
someone knocks on the
door
asking; is anyone
there?
Answer: No! it is shit that
locked
the door.lol
8. You're in queue at the
cinema
to buy tickets, a
friend sees you and
asks; what
are you doing here?
Answer: i'm here to pay
my
school fees!p Punk.
9. When people see you
lying
down with your eyes
closed, they still ask; are
you
sleeping?
Answer:No, I'm practising
to
die. hiss
10. You are cleaning ur
room
with a brush and
someone
ask's
are u sweeping?
Answer: No, am teaching
the
brush how to dance..

i realy dont understand y out of so many pretty young ladies, a guy just says he isin luv wit just one of them n also promises to be sincere. also likewise to a girl of d sexy guys around she says its only him. sincerely speaking i realy doubt it. pls i dont mean any harm. i just need reasons, u got one?

usually i hear of both guys and ladies saying this words"He/she is my first love" .I sit and try to understand thereasons for such statements. Is it that the kindof love offered to such a person cannot be offered to some other people? Or is it that people just believe that their First love is their one&only true love.
This completely obvious in guys and ladies tending to fall back to date their supposed first love even in a case of COME-BACK not fully considering any considerables.
They might even go to the extent of dumping their present date at the expenseof their so called first love.Now this begs the question "WHAT"S THE MEANING OF FIRST LOVE"

Everyone talks about love here and there. And there"s a lot of confusion between love and lust. A lot of peoplecannot tell the difference. Butthat"s a story for another day.
In my book. I have a meaningof love and here it is:
love means;
L_living
o_on
v_volatile
e_ends
love is so volatile that it could vanish anytime. Let me give you an example. What do you do when you realisedthat the person you"ve beendating for years was the guythat disvirgined your sibling? Now i can see you boiling with rage. That"s howfast love can evaporate. Butto keep it stable. You need to work and work and work. It"s so simple. How do you keep something volatile stable...? By cooling it. So that"s just what you"ll have to do. Cool things down and your relationship could go very far...

i mean, i ave been thinking about this relationship thing& everything that goes alongwith it. U ave to fight to get into a relationship,u fight to stay in a relationship. I meanu ave to keep meeting up to requirment, that is if u still want to be in ur relationship,keep re-assuring her.keep meeting all her needs etc. But my big question is ""is it worth all the stress?"

The definition is yet to be known but every soul defines it according to their achievement{good/bad} in it,
Confusing skirts and trousers all around, LOVE! what a terrible being uniting and astraying souls but with LOVE all things are possible only if patience is allowed yet LOVE is the best thing that could ever happen to the best SOUL ON EARTH!!!!!!!!

A young man wished to purchase a gift for his new sweetheart’s
birthday, and as they had not been dating very long, after careful
consideration he decided a pair of gloves would strike the right
note – romantic, but not too personal.
Accompanied by his sweetheart’s younger sister, he bought a pair
of white gloves; the youngersister purchased a pair of panties for
herself.
During the wrapping, the clerk mixed up the items andthe sister
got the gloves and the sweetheart got the panties.
Without checking the contents first, he sealed his package and
mailed it to his sweetheart along with this note:
Darling,
I chose these because I noticed that you are not in the habit of
wearing any when we go out in the evening.
If it had not been for your sister, I would have chosen the long
ones with buttons, but she wears short ones that are easy to
remove.
These are a delicate shade, but the lady I bought them from
showed me the pair she had been wearing for the past three
weeks and they were hardly soiled. I had her try yours on for me
and she looked really smart.
I wish I were there to put them on you for the first time, as no
doubt other hands will come in contact with them before I have a
chance to see you again.
When you take them off, remember to blow in them before
putting them away as they will naturally be a little damp from
wearing.
Just think how many times I will kiss them during the coming
year. I hope you will wear them for me on Friday night.
All my Love,
Hollingsworth
P.S. The latest style is to wear them folded down with a little fur
showing

A ladies inbox....1(BRIGHT)helo gal i ve bieng trying ur numba butits nt goin,i just want to let uknow dat i love u..2(DAVE)just give me a chance i promise i wont fail upls..3(COLLINS)i will be goin clubing do u mind to join me...4(ALHAJI)send me ur account numba...5(CHEIF)i will love 2 see u again i rily enjoyed last nite...6(CHRIS)plsdont do dis to me just let me kiss u just once........A GUYS INBOX....1(CHICHI.,sister)pls send me money 4 my waec exams its just 18000 naira...2(BLESSING)dont call dis line again...3(LANDLORD)pay ur rent b4 weekend cus ur money is due or u will be trown out of d house afta d wk...4(MOTHER)my son our money 4 feedin is almost finishd pls send anoda one or we die of hunger...5(neighbours daughte)i missd my period last week...6(FATHER)am in d hospital now,i need money 4 kidney operation,120000 is needed,bring it b4 2morow or u can keep d money 4 my burial.

Three rats were proving that they were strong.The first rat danced AZONTO on a trap,THE SECOND rat ate poison and did not die and the THIRD rat said a cat pregnated him.WHICH RAT IS THE STRONGEST
two birds named I LOVE U and U LOVE ME live in a house.U LOVE ME flew away.who is in the house..................

Flat Belly
A little boy walks into his parents' room to see his Mom on top of his
Dad bouncing up and down. The mother sees her son and quickly
dismounts, worried about what her son has seen. She dresses quickly and
goes to find him. The son sees his mom and asks,"What were you and Dad
doing?"
The mother replies, "Well, you know your dad has a bigbelly and
sometimes I have to get on top of it and help flatten it.""You're wasting your time," said the boy. "Why is that?" the mom asked puzzled."Well when you go shopping the lady next door comes over and gets on her
knees and blows it right back up."

OLD BUT GOLD
Mr and Mrs Akpors at a zoo walk past a gorillaenclosure.
Mrs Akpors: Sweetheart, do u know that gorillas are the only animals that behave likemen? Look (seeing that no one is watching, she exposes one of her breasts)Sure enough,the gorilla gets excited & grabs the bars
of d enclosure as if it wantedto break free.
Mrs Akpors: See, now I knowwhy u react the way u
do; men can't control their instincts just like gorillas
can't...Men & gorillas are the
same.
Mr Akpors: Wow.. now expose both breast & see what
happens. (So she exposes both breasts to d gorilla & itgets very excited dat it wantto escape from d enclosure)
Mr Akpors: dis is incredible, now pull ur skirt up, turn
around, expose ur bum & let's see wat happens. (d woman did exactly & dis time, d gorilla breaks free
frm d enclosure, grabs Mrs Akpors and starts yanking her clothes off)
Mrs Akpors[yells]: Dear..wat do I do now? Plz help
me!
Mr Akpors: Nw, tell him u're in ur period, u av a headache or u're nt in mood,n let's see if Gorillas n
Men are really d same

this incident happen to a friend bt i will take it personal.i av a girl friend and we luv each other very much,she introduced her friend to me and i accepted her as my friend also,my gal nw travelled to complete her project in school,nt knwing her friend also have intereston me,behind closed door,one saturday morning i heard a knock on my door only to see her asking me tomake luv to her the way her friend always express her satisfaction in bed,i tried to overcome dis temptation bt body no be wood.we did it several times and days i letter told her it over btweenus, nt knwing the gal av intension of scattering my relationship she nw narated every thing to her friend telling her i forced her nw im in a mess wat do i do.

this incident happen to a friend bt i will take it peronal.i av a girl friend and we luv each other very much,she introduced her friend to me and i accepted her as my friend also,my gal nw travelled to complete her project in school,nt knwing her friend also have intereston me,behind closed door,one saturday morning i heard a knock on my door only to see her asking me tomake luv to her the way her friend always express her satisfaction in bed,i tried to overcome dis temptation bt body no be wood.we did it several times and days i letter told her it over btweenus, nt knwing the gal av intension of scattering my relationship she nw narated every thing to her friend telling her i forced her nw im in a mess wat do i do.

I met this girl last year December,i fell in love with her at first sight,i told her about my feelings for her...atfirst she said no,i didn"t stop letting her know how much i felt about her until one day she decided to give me a chance.....i loved her somuch and she loved me too,whenever i looked into her eyes,i saw a love i thought was going to last forever,she was the girl of my dream....one day she told me she was going to travel,as usual we had fun and did things we never used to do on that same day,those things made the love we had for each other grow stronger......after that day i never saw my love again,i called her phone almost every 5min to know what the problem was,but she never picked my calls.....later she called me with a strange number and asked me never to call her line again,that she is with her fiancee.....to me it was like a dream,but i never sawher again......yesterday my phone rang,guess who was on my phone again....telling me that i abandoned her,later told me she still have fillings for me,that she cant luv any other guy.....what do i do?

I HAVE MANY TIPS ON RELATIONSHIPS BREAKUPS THAT SEEMS TO BE EVERWHERE TODAY.
NOW IS LOVE IS REAL AS WE INTEND TO SAY IT IS ?
BEFORE BREAKING THE SILENCE ABOUT THIS IMPORTANT ISSUE THAT CONCERNS OUR LIVES
DOSE MONEY MAKE GOOD AND LASTING REALTIONSHIP?
WHAT WILL MAKE YOU BREAK UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
IS THERE ANYTHING LIKE FALLING INLOVE?
WHEN WILL ONE BREAK UP?
ADVANTAGES IN BREAK UPS?
DISADAVANTAGES IN BREAK UPS?
IFY FRANK PEDRO IS AN EXPERT ON ROMANTIC LANGUAGE AND ALSO A CONSULTANT ON CONFLICT RESOLUTION
DROP YOUR COMMENTS

Remember theses words "till death do us part"? Remember when those wordsactually meant something. A man could lose his job, his house, his money, his limbs and his darling beautiful wifewud never desert him. Same goes for a woman. Well I can hardly remember those times. I see it in my parents and grand parents generation and in old moviesand books. Back then love still had it Biblical meanings (forgiveness, trust, benefit of doubt, etc). In todays world, civilaztion has fine tuned not only our lives but also our emotions. We have computers and machines to help us do everything even grocery shopping. Our brains are constantly seeking instant gratification. We want everything NOW, we don"t want to wait talk less of work hard. Sadly we"e brought this same mentality into our homes andrelationships. Gone are the days of sticking together through thick and thin. Gone are the days of talking and working out issues. Now a man loses a job, the wife immediately starts respondinto richer men that she wud have otherwise shunned. A man"s wife is pregnant so she can"t have sex, insteadof waitin and taking care of her, the man wants his instant gratification so he finds a mistress. Couples arefindin it harder to forgive one another because well what"s the use of solving their problems when there are many more potential partners out there. Its easier to move on and find someone else than to solve problems that can actually besolved with time and effort. I don"t know if I should laugh or cry for our generation. AllI can say is love is the greatest gift of all and our forefathers definitely enjoyed that free gift waay more than we are right now!

SPEAKING OF LOVE..... what does it mean to you? Almost every day you hear of guys breaking up with
Ladies and ladies breaking up with guys...come to THINK of it at the BEGINNING the were all like
I LOVE YOU!!!!! OR DOES IT MEAN LOVE FADES AWAY??....SOMEONE TELLME SOMETHING............
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU..... COS I GUESS LOTSOF PEOPLE CONFUSE... lust FoR LOVE.........
THOUGH I KNOW ONE LOVE ISCONSTANT GOD'S LOVE... TELL ME ABOUT YOURS.

Please your candid opinion isrequired here and atleast for once be sincere.
What would you do to a girl who suddenly develope the guts to look at you stright inthe eyes and then slam you a dirty slap without even showing any sign of remourse over her action over an issue that should'nt even warrant to mere quarrel talkless of slapping.
Now are you gonna walk away like a gentle man or you're gonna pounce on her like an angry lion?. Advice and coments are needed tnx.
Over to you please!

When you know that you have found the perfect woman for you, you
want to make sure that she feels the same way. You want her to be as
happy with you as you are with her. In order to do this, you may
want to figure out a way to make her know and understand that she
has the most perfect mate for her. You will want to know what to say
to her to make her realize that she has found her true love.
Say what is important to her
The first thing that you wantto do is find out what is important to
her. Find out if she wants her man to coddle of her or give her more
freedom. You do not want to seem too overbearing and crowd her. Tell
her that she is important to you and that you want to make sure that
she has what she needs. This is something that will make her feel
good and know that you are the perfect mate for her.
Tell her that she looks nice
The most important thing that a woman wants to hear is that she
looks good. No matter whereyou are going or if you are sitting on
the couch watching TV, you need to compliment her and tell her how
wonderful she looks. This is the only way that you will be able to
make her know and understand that you think she is a beautiful woman
and she will think you are the most perfect mate in the world.
Ask her if she needs anything
This is something that a lot of men forget to do. It is important
that we take care of the woman in our lives as she takes care of us.
When we get up to get a drink, ask her if she needs anything. You
are going to the kitchen anyway, so what is the big deal? On your
way home at night, ask her ifyou can bring her anything. This is a
great way for a woman to know that you are sincere and quite
possibly the most perfect man in the world for her.
I love you
These are the three little words that mean the most. When a woman is
in love, it is important for her to know that the man she is in love
with feels the same. If you do, you should make it known. Women love
this. You should tell the woman of your dreams that you love her
when she is least expecting it. Tell her in the middle of a movie,
on the way to dinner or on an unexpected phone call from work. This
will make a woman feel good and happy with their choice for the
perfect man.
Romance her
Do not be afraid to talk sweet nothings into her ear. Make the woman
feel good by saying sweet and romantic things to her atany given
time. You can say them whenyou are having a romantic dinner
together or you can say them in a passionate moment.These words
will make her heart flutter and she will know that she isin love.
Ask her how she is feeling
This is something that is hard for any man to do. Asking a woman to
share her feelings with them is not always easy. In fact this is
something that can totally behard for a man to do. However, if you
find a woman that is perfect for you and you want to make her feel
the same about you, you may have to **** it up a little. Sharing
feelings with a woman is one way to ensure that the relationship is
going in a good direction thatboth people can feel comfortable with.
Be honest with her
When you want to impress a woman, you will have to be honest with
her. Make sure that you are telling her the truth about what you
want and how you feel. Tell her that you love her and that you think
she is perfect for you. Sharing how you feel and that you want to be
with her may be a great ideato bring the both of you closer.
Tell her when you will be lateand what you are doing.
Do not keep secrets. This is some thing that most women will really
appreciate and that a lot of men do not do in a relationship. When
she knows that you are devoted to her, she will probably feel the
same way and she will know that she has the right man tospend the
rest of her life with.

For everyone in a love relationship, d first question u should ask yourself is thaty am i in this relationship. Then is there anything good im benefiting from it and is my partner also benefitting from the relationship. Every relationship is like a two sided coin which cannot be seperated.
Do u have any plans for the future of d relationship u arein now or ure are just in there.Any relationship with no aim of ending 2geda should be re-defined.
If u notice ur closeness 2 an opposite sex for a long time nd he/she is not bringing up the issue of dating or courting and u feel there is something going on between u guys, pls dont hesitate to ask the fellow to know wats up so that u wont be dissapointed at the end of the day.