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NEVER FAIL TO TELL THE ONE THAT YOU LOVE HOW YOU FEEL
MOST PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE HURT THEY DON'T BE REAL WITH THEIRSELF OR ANYONE ELSE....
THE TRUTH STARTS FROM WITHIN FOR EXAMPLE:
IF YOU BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE YOU STILL LOVE AND YOU TWO ARE NOW FRIENDS ....
WHEN YOU MISS THEM, YOU CALL THEM BUT BECAUSE OF THE SITUATION
YOU WON'T ADMITT THAT TO YOURSELF OR THEM
SO YOU SAY "I JUST CALLED TO CHECK ON YOU" BUT IF YOU TELL THAT PERSON "I WAS CALLINGBECAUSE I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU AND I MISS YOU"
THOSE WORDS WILL TOUCH THEM IN A WAY YOUR HANDS EVER COULD BECAUSE YOU JUST TOLD THEM WITHOUT ACTUALLY SAYING IT
"I LOVE YOU SO MUCH THAT EVEN THOUGH WE BROKE UP AND WE TRYING TO MOVE ON, IT IS HARD TO STOP LOVING YOU , IT IS HARD TO FORGET THE SPECIAL THINGS ABOUT YOU....I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU"
WE AS PEOPLE MUST LEARN HOW TO BE HONESTWITH OURSELVES
WE GET UPSET BECAUSE DEEP IN OUR HEART WEKNOWWHAT WE WANT,
BUT ERE SO WORRIED ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE WILL SAY SO WE BRUSH IT OFF IN HOPES IT WILL GO AWAY...
"LOVE NEVER FADES" SO EITHER YOU ADMITT ITAND DEAL WITH IT SO GOD CAN HELP YOU GET THROUGH IT , AND TEACH YOU TO HOW TRANSFER THAT BEING IN LOVE INTO LOVE AS A FRIEND,
OR YOU ADMITT IT TO THE PERSON AND ATTEMPT TO GET BACK WHAT YOU LET SLIP AWAY
BUT EITHER WAY IF YOU NEVER EXAMINE YOUR HEARTS AND BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT CROSS YOUR MIND WHEN YOU ARE SITTINGBESIDE YOURSELF YOU WILL NEVER GET OVER IT, THE CHOICE IS REALLY UP TO YOU...
YOU CAN SUPPRESS IT FOR YEARS AND PRETENDIT'S NOT THERE
OR YOU CAN DEAL WITH IT AND STOP HIDING YOU CARE,
IT'S NOT A BAD THING TO LET SOMEONE KNOW THAT YOU ARE THERE.....
***PRIDE CAN CUASE YOU TO MISS OUT ON THELOVE OF YOUR LIFE, DON'T LET PRIDE STOP YOUFROM SAYING "BABY I LOVE YOU" THIS DOES NOT MAKE YOU WEAK IT MAKES YOU HONEST, ITMAKES YOU MATURE....SO ASK YOURSELVES WHICH ARE YOU?"

Love is like a rumor,everyone talks about it,but no one truly knows.Butmy love is patient,my love iskind,it does not envy,it doesnot boast, it is not proud,it is not rude, it is not self-seeking,it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. My love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects,always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres..my love knows no reasons,my love knows no lies,my love defies all reasons,my love has no eyes but my love is not blind,my love sees but doesn't mind.So i need an angel who will love me without fear,trust me withoutquestioning,need me without demanding,want me without restrictions,accept me without change,desire me without inhibitions,&come live in my heart and pay no rent..for a love so free....will never fly away.

Love is like a careless seed planted without plan,it growsmainly when it is nurtured with the truth.It rises to overshadow all initial upstacles.Men of all ages have become conqueror conquering all sort of things,men have conquer themselves even unknowingly,accidentally,menhave not been able to conquer love,significantly,love has conquer all things.

Do you believe that there are no accidents in life? Everything happens for a reason. Every people we meet will have a role in our lives, be it small or big. Somewill hurt, betray and make uscry to become stronger. Some will teach us lessons, not to change us, but for us to realize our mistakes and to help us grow and make usthe best person we can be. And some would simply inspire and love us to make us happy, whole and complete... You can love me, but I must make me happy.
You can teach me, but I mustdo the learning.
You can guide me, but I will have to walk the path
You can coach me, but I mustwin that game
You can even promote me, but I must be successful
You can even pity me, but I will still have to bear the sorrow
For the gift of love is not thefood that feeds me;
it is the sunshine that nourishes what I must finally harvest for myself.
So, if you love me, don’t justsing me a song;
teach me to sing, for when I am alone I will need the melody. Like advent of spring in the garden of my heart
Flowing out of the flowers joy came near me
Creating the feeling unparallel by touching my heart
It is impossible to express it in words
Heart welcomed it with a sudden delight
Every pore of my being was fragrant with its fragrance
It tickled my lips and made them smile
And flew through eyes in form of tear drops
In normal course I hate tears
But today I had no urge to stop them
They were not here to express sadness
I could see the joy lurking in them
I gathered those pearls of joy to hide
They were priceless in my eyes
Kohlline in my eyes looked atmy act
gave me a look of approval with a smile
Full moon light lasts only for a day
Burning lamp has few minutes to extinguish
I picked up this ray of joy and preserved it in my heart
When the time passes it will shine like a star in my he
We were like strangers
We are both strangers at the start…. Learn to accept as friends…. As days pass by we became entwined…. Welaugh together and shared the good times…. We shed tears when were down…. We build a foundation and dreams as high as the sky….We cherish that times we spend together…. We thought it will [...]
Only the smell of your love
Your hands easy weight, teasing the bees hived in myhair, your smile at the slope of my cheek. On the occasion, you press above me, glowing, spouting readiness, mystery rapes my reason When you have withdrawn your self and the magic, when only the smell ofyour love lingers between my breasts, then, only [...]
The angel, so angelic
The beauty, so endearing
The eyeballs, so shining
Like poem, so inspiring
The voice, so admirable
Like melody, most danceable
The brightness, so formidable
Like mystery, so indefinable
Oh! Angel, sweet angel
So calm, clean like early morning water
So glittering like mamiwater
A white dove flying in the white cloud
The heaven shining light
Sent down to the earth
Because of my empty hear
The angel of my life, I want to embrace the light

When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It errupts like an earthquake then it subsides. And when itsubsides you have to make a decision; you have to workout whether your roots havebecome so intwined together that it is inconceivable that you two should ever part, because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness; it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day, it's not laying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No,that is just being in love, which any of us can convinceourselves we are. Love, itself, is what is left over when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting does it? But, itis. this is luv

In my garden fair grows this yellow rose standing tall
soft, shy and fair.
Just a young a bud so gentleand small, yet strong
Love which has no boundries
each day I see her grow intoa bloom of perfect form
perfected in every way, so unconditional.
Bursting to bud to her fullest
a story told by each petal and leaf of her stem.
A yellow of pure sunlight
as she protrudes above herstem
each petal smiling as she opens her heart.
Love is projected by her colour in every way
The scent of softest morningdew.
Her angelic smile, smiles for me as I pass her by
face to the sun as she blushes when I pass.
Standing tall and strong amongst weeds
No winds strong enough to break her
Or frost that can burn her.
Protected by her thorns
Bugs and passer by's are quickly scared.
Strengthened by the morningdew
which quenches her thirst.
Fearful and down on my knees
I pray for this storm to pass quickly.
Knowing how fragile she is
The pain in her heart
My hand goes out to touch her as I pass her by.
I weep, I feel her pain to
May tomorrow come with newhorizons for you.
My yellow rose so fair
Who has enriched my life in every way
My cup runeth over.
You fulfil me with joy and song
You touch my heart gentle
With a touch of perfection.
Having you to hold for the rest of my life
Is all I ever will need.
As you are the sweetest part of my life
In my heart and soul
Forever and always

Jewel, Pastor Daniels, PrinceEmmanuel, Pastor Tommy, Sister Patricia and Susan; allhave two things in common. The longing for love and skeletons that won't stay buried.
Jewel, a single mother, that has been hurt, betrayed andabused by “love.” She’s starting her life over again. A new job, in a new city just her and her infant son. She has given up on love. Nothing to fear but the desire she has for her new boss. Loving him is too risky.
Pastor Daniels happens to be one of the most desirablemen in ministry. His past is unbelievable. He is 100% committed to Christ now. He has been praying for the wife of his destiny. His patience has grown thin with the drama and desperation of the “church” women. All he wants is his wife. He is a gentle giant with the heart ofgold. He is mild mannered and even tempered; yet one thing causes him to try to ripa man’s head, right off of hisneck?
Then there’s Emmanuel, he is a very wealthy African Prince. He was there for Jewel when she was at her lowest. He is the only man Jewel trusts. Will she hurt the one man that has shown her the greatest kindness and love? He loves Jewel intently and wants to share his life with her.
Patricia is a vile, bitter, disrespectful woman that lostthe best part of herself years ago. She has never healed from her lost and everyone is paying for it. She is desperate for something, but she doesn’t quite know what it is. Nothingshe’s tried fills the void within. Patricia won’t allow anyone to stop her from getting what she seemingly wants, which is Pastor Daniels.
Pastor Tommy is a kind, gentle handsome man. He has made his fair share of mistakes. He used to be the “baddest” dude on the blockso to speak. Pastor Tommy can’t shake the desire he has for this shameless woman. Even though she dogs him out every chance she gets; he will continue to hold fast to the promise of Patricia becoming his wife, maybe.
Jewel loves Pastor Daniels, but he has a fiancé. Pastor Daniels loves Jewel but his demons keep coming back to taunt him. Sister Patricia is chasing Pastor Daniels. Pastor Tommy is chasing Sister Patricia. Patricia despises Pastor Tommy and makes it abundantly clear that he will never have her. Prince Emmanuel wants nothing more than to marry Jewel. Someone finds a new love, but it will take strong faith and persistence to maintain that love. Holding onisn’t always as easy as it seems.
As the drama unfolds skeletons come to life. The weight of these skeletons may cause “Love” to be strained beyond repair. Too much drama may cause a man of faith to walk away from it all. Only through faith and prayer can there be Unquenchable Love: Despite the Drama

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If you have been having a particular, usually negative,
experience in relationship, then
perhaps it time you applied the Mirror principle. The Mirrow principle of relationship states that "in arelationship the first person we must examine is ourselves". That entails always putting up ourselves for personal scrutiny in any matter b4 shifting blame to d other person. This is important b/c who we are willalways be
mirrored or reflected in our relationships, and in some cases
causing frictions, tensions and problems.
Rather than take d easy wayof blaming d other party, we should examine dispassionately our roles and contributions in a given matter with a view to diagnosing and resolving d issue at stake.
So, if each of ur relationships was always frought with
crises and break ups per time, it couldn't have been that each of those guys or ladies were "unreasonable". It
couldn't also have been that"all guys or ladies are d same". May be, you need to check ursef.
When a stench is almost always everywhere you turnur nose, beloved, stand still and check ursef - you might be d source of d stench!
What do you think?

Holding on is being brave,but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger. It is wiser to loose someone overbeing who u are than 2 kip them by being someone u are not.cos,it easier to mendbroken hrts,than to piece a shatter identity. Everybody deserves someone who helps them look 4ward to tomorrow.if someone has opposite effects on you,bcosthey are consistently inconsistent and thier actions dont match up with thier words,it time to let go. It always better to be alone than to be in bad company. True friendship is a promise made by the heart and silent,unwritten,unbreakable by distance and unchangeable by time. You catch yourself forcing someone to love -let us keep in mind that we cant force someone to love us.weshould'nt beg someone to stay when they want to leave.love is about freedom. However,the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the begining of an understanding that love sometimes leave for a reason,but never leaves without lesson. If someone truly loves u they wil never give u a reason to doubt it. Anyone can walk into your life and say i love u but it takes someone speacial to stay in your life and prove it. When u completely trust a person without doubt, u wil get one or two result- A friend for Life or a Lesson for life. In the end u wil discover who is fake,who's true and who wil risk it all for you. There come's a point u have to let go and stop chasing some pple. Letting go is often times easier than holding on. It better to be alone than in a relationship that constantly require u to sacrifice ur happiness and self-respect. The best u can do is to follow your heart. Chances must be taken,mistakes mustbe made and lessons must be learned. You find yourselfobsessing over,and living inthe past-eventually u wil overcome the heartache,forget the reasons you cried and who caused the pain. You wil realize that the secret to happines is not all about revenge,but in letting things unfold naturally and learningfrom your experiences.so letgo of the past,set urself free and open your mind to new relationships. Someday all the pieces wil come together.unimaginary good things wil transpire in your life,and u wil ask:how did i get through all that?

They say love is a beautiful thing,its a nice feeling when you are in love, its amazing to wake up every morniing knowing that you love . Relationship changes as timepasses, there are those wholast long and some so short. If you love someone and want to keep him or her forever try to follow these simple tips:
1. Never ever say DONT and STOP to your man. Theyhate this 4 letter word.
2. Never ever read messages on his mobile phone nor answer calls.
3. Never ever deprive him of his time to be with friends and family.
4. Never ever nag. Make your time together as pleasant as possible.
5. Never ever be jealous . Sometimes jealousy kills..even the LOVE.
6. Never ever forget to keep yourself properly groom, must be clean in thought, words and deeds.
7. Never ever forget your limitations as a partner.
8. Never ever lie. somehow, somewhere truth will always prevail so always tell the truth
no matter what it takes
9. Never ever forget to keep contact.
10. Always make GOD the CENTER of your relationship

For some of us who have problems understanding whattrue LOVE
really is, pls here is your answer; 1 Cor 13,
thru & thru...Love you all:
If I speak in the tongues of mortals and
of angels, but do not have love, I am a
noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand
all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I
have all faith, so as to remove mountains,
but do not have love, I am nothing. If I
give away all my possessions, and if I hand
over my body so that I may boast,* but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is
patient; love is kind; love is not
envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way; it is
not irritable or resentful; it does not
rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bearsall things, believes all
things, hopes all things, endures all
things. Love never ends. Butas for
prophecies,
they will come to an end; as for tongues,
they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in
part, and we prophesy only in part; but
when the complete comes, the partial will
come to an end. When I was a child,
I spoke like a child, I thoughtlike a child,
I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For
now we see in a mirror, dimly,* but then
we will see face to face. Now I know
only in part; then I will know fully, even
as I have been fully known. And now
faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.

True love passes all
understandings.
True love Expresses loyalty.
True love hurts but can learn
how to mend.
True love dreams the highest
dreams.
True love waits until the stars
visit the day.
True love seeks good for the
other.
True love lends forgiveness.
True love cries but washes
away the pains.
True love makes an ignorant
boy a mature man.
True love softens the heart of
a girl to a nurtured woman.
True love never lies.
True love loves a person until
forever.
True love sees love even though
the hair is white.
And most of all...TRUE
LOVE never breaks promises,
until the vow has been done.