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I hope this new man is not going in the way of El Rufai and Bala. This is how they normally start. Next thing is revoking areas with interest to re-allocate to their families and friends. this is why I am always afraid of acquiring land in FCT.

Thanks a lot @ OP. This info is quite handy as I am just in the process of acquiring a plot of land behind Law school in Abuja.

One month after my marriage, i strugled to stay away from masturbation as my wife was not yet working and always at home. So, there was no home alone opportunity for me to go back into this act. However, after few weeks, she got a job and also became pregnant. We would both leave for work in the morning. I used to get back from work before her.

In a way that i cannot explain, one evening, i was at home alone and back to my old habit, I DID IT AGAIN. I felt very bad. I made a strong resolution; NEVER to Masturbate. this was just the beginning of my woes...................

Still fresh in my memory, the very first time i masturbated. How it felt so good masturbating to some sex movies on my 14" TV in my room at school. I was already in my final year when i started masturbation. I had just got my very first girlfriend and i wanted to be sure of my capability. however, the feeling of guilt that followed the pleasure of masturbation was unbearable for me. And i promised myself never to go back to it. this was almost 10 years ago.

somehow, I still found myself back in this act after few days. And at the end of the session, same feeling of guilt, then i promised myself to quit once and for all. This trend continued with promises, new year resolutions..... with no effect. I became a chronic masturbator. the more i tried to resist, the more i swam in it. This continued through my service year.

I started having low self esteem, my social life and spiritual life became dead. Any opportunity of been alone will lead to another session of masturbation. I read many publications on how to conquer addiction to masturbation with no impact on my life. Even though, i was having sex with my girlfriend, once she leaves, i return to my bad habbit.

It became my shadow and i could not think of any else. I later told myself, this will stop once i am married. So everytime, i told myself; once i am married it will stop.

I later got married after 5 years of masturbation............