Look my dear. You're not alone in this sex-strike. We gather dey here...

Only that our stories vary.

I'm 25, the true matter be say I never really lash any lady.

Not because because I don't have money, not because I'm short or ugly. Though I've been kinda broke, but sourcing a legit way out of that life of lacks and wants.

But hey! I'm not a saint sexually o, I've done shitty things in the past, I've smooched in the past. From birth till date, I've had 2 girl friends which I broke up with each just after three months.

I've seen their unclothedness, romanced and do some dirty things with them but I also made it clear to them that, hey, no penetration. No way, and I was intentional about that. My dick will be hard staring at them I'll have them give give me MouthAction. They suck the hell out that dick and make me cum, feeling relieved.

And I've been masturbating, right from my teens.

But now I've given up on masturbation, God helped me out of that filthy lifestyle. That would be a story for another day.

Now I've quit masturbation, through willingness and the help of the Holy Spirit, fighting hard every day to stay away forever.

Here's comes the issue, Mr KONJI won't let me rest... Dick rising at every slightest glance.

But thank God I'm ready busy with my life that I don't even pay attention to my sexual desires.

Normally it's okay to be aroused. Those chemicals reacting inside of you were placed by God Himself. He wired you like that for a purpose. You're sexual creation, so don't feel bad when the urge comes. Just trust God to help you through it.

Now it's almost a year without a girlfriend...

Meaning, no sex, be it intercourse or oral. No smooching, no touching of any kind, no kissing, also no MASTURBATION.

And guess what, I'm happier now. Than ever before. Physically nothing troubles me. No emotional attachment to anyone. I use my time to develop my potentials, bringing out the best in myself, maximizing my youth life while preparing for a glorious future.

Spiritual, I have a wonderful connectivity with God. The koinonia has been awesome, nothing feels like it. And nothing can be compared to having the confidence that you're in good terms with your father.

Life is better now in all RAMIFICATIONS...

I live a more fulfilled life.

Maybe the lack of money is a sign that God really want you to give up on that immoral life, just think about it.