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do u want to quit?

but come to think of it. the 4teen yr old gal is not even a virgin anymore, so wat do u think?

I never wanted to add a comment here because after going through the comments and advices of every1 here and the replies the poster is giving. Wat I can figure out is that the poster is not asking for wat she will do, because she has already concluded that, look my marriage is rocky and dieing, the man i love is back and wants me back, she only wants certain approval from her father, the society, off course we here @ nairaland so that it dosen't seem as if she wants to be the ovarall decider.

Advices to her to continue with her marraige are just waste of time because she dosent want to continue anymore. reasons.

1. she is defending the come back guy in everyway and approves his actions (of asking her for marriage wen he (romeo) knows quite well that she is marride) even though she pretend to tell us she is saying NO.

2. she said the romeo guy loves her daughter so there will be no problem she marrying him with a child.

3. That her father wants her happiness. And what is her happiness? That she leaves her husband and her marriage because she dosen't love him anymore and wants to marry her ex lover which she loves so much and her father is definitely going to approves it because he (father) wants her happiness.

My fellow country people, the lady don decide, so every attempt to change her mind will all be waste of energy to type, brain for big english, and time. I don't know if somebody is getting my point of view. Lets leave her to do her will, sometimes pride will lead to prudence and prudence is a virtue.

She might be successful with her ex if they get married. Lets check other threads and forget this one.

na her business from now on

Thank You ALL.

wahala de here ooo. ngwa ladies

grafikdon:
check my profile,

can only send mail, cos i cant find any phone no there

please you did not drop any contact, how do i get in touch with you?

tanx

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tanx
steven

@ Religion please, Next thread

dailing, grin, grin, he picks,

hay naughty, wats up? or aw re u doin? wit smiles


okwu ebiena

as i said before. u re just afraid. ur man is been open to you. open ur mind to him too so you solve the problems together. marriage is a life time thing so you must not make mistake about it.

one thing you should hold on to is the Love you have for him. Try to know the plans he has, how does he expect to get an apartments? how far has he paid the dept? One thing is certain, so long Love is involved, you can work it out together. The Marriage is important but believe me, you wouldn't want to experience a marriage of dept. Believe the word, that a man that finds a wife, finds favour, with God, with people, with the society. Miracle still happens. Don't allow fear to destroy what you want for yourself. fear is just False Expectation Appearing Real.

GudLuck

sista before i giv my advice. wat are you fears? what do u have in mind?

eyonigger:
distance from my gurl is costing me so bad now, the issue there is, ur wrong for cheating on him, but lets be plain and sincere, its not easy to stay that way for long even if u love ur gurl or ur guy.

engineer omo u too much jare. how long will it take for lady gabby to understand this. me i can't take oo. being far from each other. ha wetin

somebody please call in gabby to give her views here,  this 's exart of wat i was saying


this is always a problem wit distance relationships. first, the guy dosent know wat you are doing over were you are, neither are you aware of wat he is doing. you can't ask somebody to trust you, trust is built wen both party spends time to play, talk, understand each other.

You can't force it. just pray and then do things that will make him gain confidence in you

gabby is from the word?

wen you get the chance to talk to her again. ask her why she is behaving such way. critically study her replies and responds. you will know if she is trying something funny of maybe she is occupied wit something or the other. u know

sillyme:
just don't choose a yoruba man

reasons dear?

posakosa:
I would rather my Exes dead than alive.

Engrishhhh, LoL

gabrywyl:
What do you mean by formal distance relationship?

as you quoted before, you were in a distance relationship far back, so why did u break up, or is ur bf now close to u

maybe both

gabrywyl:
is that chinko language?

wetin u mean?

gabrywyl:
Sorry but I dont have an ex. . .

Is like we are kind of fimiliar

chuksGod:
he is an idoma girl , u shuld know wat i mean,
she is wild in bed

na wa o

God help us!

gabrywyl:
Well, to be honest when I was in a distant relationship with my bf so many years back, did I feel like looking at another guy? NO! Why? Its because my bf is still alive and I know that Im taken so why bother looking for another guy? And besides, everytime he is apart, I can feel his presence beside me all the time . It really feels like he is not apart from me. So yeah, I dont see that as an excuse

@bolded. Iro nla. but come to think of it, wat happened to your formal distance relationship? I guess the girl's same story

kio tera, palamo nenive. astala vista

no vex

abrahym:
ok u self be flirt so u aint a responsible dude,i dnt tink u'll pick miss right

please tell him

gabrywyl:
having a big pride is not good. I hope you know that?

so wats the pride in me now.? sista agelina

pc guru:
Unless the girl knows taichi,drunken boxing,karate, and gidigbo(tout advanced fighting style).but i'll tell my friends i got mugged than being beat up by some chic. I ave this feelin that Kafi can kick arse

o boi wats the point?

@

gabrywyl:
Guys and their pride

and so wat?