Pls friends i want u to help me, i am in love with a guy that is too suspicious despite that he is far away that if i wanted to do something stupid i can do without him knowing. if i tells him that i love him, he does not believe it, he said that i am just using it to cover up. but the truth is that i deadly love him and can't be in love with another person. pls help, i want him to trust me.

You can’t force someone to trust you. Trust is ‘earned’. The only thing you can do is to be faithful to him and stop trying to defend yourself. If you are sure you are true to him but he still doesn’t believe you, then that’s his problem. Don’t make it yours.

Maybe your actions are contradicting your words. Try looking into that too.

OnyinyeGod, sometimes trust takes time to develope. Could be bf has had some nasty experiences in the past. Give him a little time and in the meanrime, try to show him he can trust you Although that could be a little diffficult since you both are in different locations. But give it a little time.

Before you got into that relationship love, the things you need to build your relationship on should be

1)God
2)love
3)trust
4)understanding and others
y now when both of you are deeply in it
The question you should be asking is DOES HE LOVE ME AS MUCH AS I LOVE HIM

One love girl and good luck

somebody please call in gabby to give her views here,  this 's exart of wat i was saying


this is always a problem wit distance relationships. first, the guy dosent know wat you are doing over were you are, neither are you aware of wat he is doing. you can't ask somebody to trust you, trust is built wen both party spends time to play, talk, understand each other.

You can't force it. just pray and then do things that will make him gain confidence in you

Let your actions speak for you.

some1 said let your actions speak 4 u and i couldn't agree more, if you are sure that you realy love him then you must also be ready to trust him , so do you? if you do, sit him down and tell/reassure him calmly that that you both need mutual trust 4 your relationship to work or ELSE, Finally do your best to make him understand and leave the rest to GOD, if he still doesnt trust you [after ensuring your own part ] then you cant force him. all the best

Show him that you care that’s all a guy needs from a girl.

I love you is not by mouth, it’s by actions; call him regularly and send him romantic text messages and I’m sure he won’t have any cause to doubt or suspect you any more.