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Thank you everyone.
I called him today, and we sat down and i explained my self to him in details and everything.

He still tried explaining to me that he is still not sure. That i should give him some time to think. I asked him for how long, he said till March. I refused, and he started begging, and telling me that he cant do without me, that i am the one person who makes him happy.

Btw, he doesnt have any other babe for now oh. He spends all his free time with me and doesnt even give me time to meet any other guy, so i am sure it is not a girl issue.

Hello everyone,

i have been dating my man for two years, we are about to get into our third year. I am 27, he is 29. I have been quite eager to get married since the onset of our relationship but my bf seems to be confused. Today he says he wants us to work towards marriage, and then tommorow he says he is not sure. I hear it takes guys a longer time to be sure than girls, but haba, how long? this is going to be our third year.
When i try to threaten him with breakup, he begs me to give him some more time, but it still turns out the same, confusion.

On the contrary, he is wonderful , treats me wel, spends every spare time he can with me and makes me happy, but he is JUST not sure.
I am getting old oh, and i dont want to hang on to not sure for another 1 year.

He has intorduced me to all his siblings, and told his parents about me this xmas and says he wants me to spend easter with him and his parents, is that a sign that he is getting sure? He calls my mum almost every three days and they are best of friends. I am confused. Why would he be doing all this if he is not sure?

I love him, he makes me happy, and spending the rest of my life with him is what i want. I dont want to break up and end up losing him and marrying someone i dont love half as much, on the contrary i dont want to wait and after two years, he finally decides he doesnt want!

Pls nairalanders, advise me