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XXML33:
Over these past few weeks I've actually developed a very strong love and connection towards Tacha. This is actually weird because I don't normally support individuals or groups to this degree, be it in sports or any other domain. I think my strong support of Tacha emanates from a deep understanding of her personality.

You guys criticizing Tacha need to understand that Tacha is very insecure and has very low self esteem. Insecurities and the accompanying paucity of self esteem usually stems from a childhood of neglect, abuse and constant bullying by pairs.
As people of this sort grow up, they begin to perceive the world as a battleground with them pitted against everyone else, and an endless array of slings and arrows firing constantly against them from all directions; they essentially regard everyone around them as a potential threat to their depleting sense of self worth.

There are two ways these sort of people deal with this:
1. They either recoil inwards and live a life of solitude and self loathing, developing little to no social bonds and engaging in very little social interaction.
2. They adopt attack as a form of defence by building an outward persona that is intimidating, threatening and combative. This helps them ward off any potential threat and gives them the illusion of the self esteem that they lack.

Tacha deals with her insecurities and low self esteem the second way.

Most of negative behaviors that Tacha expresses constitute a false persona that she's developed, which acts as a defensive wall. Only few people can be able to break through this defensive wall and experience the real person behind the false persona. Seyi has been the only one able to do this and hence why when he's with Tacha, you don't see her exhibit those negative behaviors.

When Tacha is with Seyi she's free and doesn't feel threatened because she trusts him, and hence doesn't need to "protect herself from him" by being unnecessarily rude, standoffish or combative.

I'm not trying to defend Tacha's behavior but as much as you find her behavior irritating, please understand that it's simply a defence mechanism and her walls of defence can break down if she's shown genuine friendship and develops strong bonds of trust between her and those around her. Now doing this in the Big brother house is quite difficult because Biggie's house is in essence a battlefield where friendships are fake and dishonesty & fakeness reigns supreme. This sort of environment actually appeals to Tacha's proclivity to be defensive and reinforce that false persona. It's going to be hard for her to break down those walls while in the big brother house, even if she wants to. She could manage for a few days but any slight perception of threat or betrayal sends her erecting those walls again.

I can't say I'm optimistic that Tacha's behavior would improve, but I can assure you that when the housemates are fewer and she's able to spend considerable time with everyone of them and develop stronger bonds of friendship and trust, she will shed off a lot of that false persona and will be more likable.

I agree with you. I see her attitude as a defensive mechanism. She needs to shown love and true loyalty.

Beorn1:
It's not a serious issue. Frodd asked a question and Esther didn't like the question. They're arguing about it.

Esther has never liked any question Frodd has asked her before. Frodd suppose strong mind bone that girl.

Cindy: at least now you can focus

Khadi: was Gedoni a distraction?

Yale9:
That her boyfriend she has always been speaking of, let her go’an meet him

I concur

Jackye de fear. Her hair is fine though.

XXML33:
Las Las Jackye isn't normal. It seems this season of BBNaija is just a madhouse filled to its rafters with mentally unstable people.

Seyi - Multiple personality disorder

Tacha - Bipolar disorder + intermittent explosive disorder.

Omashola - Self diagnosed insanity

Khafi - Mild Psychosis + Nymphomania

Ike - Antisocial personality disorder + intermittent explosive disorder.

Jackye - Narcissistic personality disorder + latent homicidal impulses.

Mercy - Bordeliner personality disorder + proclivity for substance abuse.

Even some of our forumites fit into those categories.

Threebear:
In moments like this , I miss Miracle .

He would have stood there till nightfall .

We die here!

I can't download from toxic wap what's happening?

It all depends on your location. They all can be useless at times.

E be like say person don vomit for ground o

Coming here for updates is just a complete waste of time. This is a war zone.
Besides nothing interesting is happening in the house right now.
So if u aren't watching right now u aren't missing anything.

Housemates will soon go to sleep leaving her and her cake and drinks.

Mikessidechick:
Even as they have

Godfathers

Godmothers

Family heirloom

Cult backings

Community sponshorship

Mike has just us!!!

Please let's vote Mike ooo.


Vote him with double the strength you used in voting the last time.

TEXT VOTE MIKE TO 32052
I've been crying non stop since last night.

Reincarnation of 3bear

RedDistrict:
Ike to Elozonam : Don’t worry about not saving Diane. She’s a strong girl. Worry about replacing with Frodd. That guy is gonna cry all week

Ike is just savage

[quote author=Sirfeeking post=81349157][/quote]Muchas gracias amigos

Party pics pls.

sukhothai:
your Tacha that didn't even disvirgin her puzzle board ain't in your list..

even a blind man best her

chai! You are mouthed

sukhothai:
your Tacha that didn't even disvirgin her puzzle board ain't in your list..

even a blind man best her

chai! You are mouthed

Ike, respect

Tacha at least start yours. Time is going.

Ike, I am impressed.

Is Omashola mute?

Jen92:
Kai peace n unity them nor know. Not even 200 naira

Okay na.

Biggie selecting invigilators strategically. Nice.

Chai. This is so much fun to watch.

Chai! Sir Dee I am disappointed

Cindy hasn't answered one

Housemates have been called to the arena.

This Jackye team serious so?

That is why it is said that you have control over when and how to start a fight, but how the fight progresses is no longer within your power alone. Omashola, take note.

tenderheart:
They dont want Seyis team to win. ...Bet God pass dem..

Oh! No wonder