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Franzinni:
the truth is if he not gay.... That is in the past and he had no control over that event but now he is mature and does not want to be gay..... He can marry

As for the lady.. She doesn't need to know and life will go on like every normal marriage...

We all have secrets

well , you don't need to tell how many times you have masturbated before marriage, to your wife.

but , your experience of being raped, can not be concealed forever.

you will voluntarily tell your wife, if you have this experience. because that is the only way to have spiritual intimacy and harmony in a family.

siie:
Damn!!

there are so many rape cases in Nigeria, and there are no social workers' hotline in Nigeria.

this thread could be a small window for those victims to know, they are not alone, they are concerned.

because, the victims' minds are complicated, they wish to marry , to have a family , to forget the past. but, they physically and mentally can not fulfill this task somehow.

I guess there are 1 million rape victims in Nigeria. they are left alone, by callous , selfish and stupid people , like you.

Franzinni:
I want to understand you.... Are you a victim? Are you gay? Are you being forced to marry.... Why the interest in the topic.. To me it is a no brainer

I have done so many things, out of anyone's imagination.

it looks like trolling , because my bound is much bigger.

Franzinni:
If he is gay.. Then he should never be forced to be a straight man... But if he is straight but traumatised by the rape... And still wants to marry a woman.... Why not

But you insinuating that it is some sort of sick way to show loveThat is just twisted bruh.


Unless you just want to troll.. Bruh.... Not cool.

of course, it is sick.

even though that rapist dies , and nobody knows what happens. he , the victim knows. and God knows. can he faces his conscience ? it sounds paradox . a victim needs to take more shame. but yes. because this is the field no common people will come to. and no much discussion and debate has ever shed light on. there is no consensus to say who is more wrong, who is supposed to do what .

Franzinni:
If he is gay.. Then he should never be forced to be a straight man... But if he is straight but traumatised by the rape... And still wants to marry a woman.... Why not

But you insinuating that it is some sort of sick way to show love.... That is just twisted bruh.


Unless you just want to troll.. Bruh.... Not cool.

that shamefulness will choke him . the more he conquers his woman wife, the more he is reminded by his past . it is even inhumane for himself to marry a woman, let alone it involves another person in marriage.

Franzinni:
morally... It is wrong... The victim will never forget the incident.... And it is clear a rapist are. Usually mentally unbalanced... With a mixture of entitlement.... Ego.... Sometimes it might be plain old hate.... The victim can never be normal in such relationship.

and what is more, what you talking about , is female victims.

I am saying a boy.

and a female victim could possibly heal herself by a marriage. she receives.

but a male victim could be times harder to recuperate mentally. he could possibly fail to Erect.

Franzinni:
morally... It is wrong... The victim will never forget the incident.... And it is clear a rapist are. Usually mentally unbalanced... With a mixture of entitlement.... Ego.... Sometimes it might be plain old hate.... The victim can never be normal in such relationship.

then that victim boy should not marry a wife.

he is dangerous to other people. and he could fail to have intercourse with a woman.

although it sounds quite absurd, because, he needs family and love to sooth his pain exactly.

but the other woman, who is going to marry the boy , is treated very unfairly.

ThisCouldBeUs:
My last response. No one cares about your opinion. It changes nothing, it adds nothing. You are just one of the millions of random faceless people one come across online. Those replying you don't seem to have anything productive going on in their lives, so they dedicate their time for your crap. Bye.

I am praising your beautiful black skin. and you wish to be whiter.

RaggedyAnn:
The person I'm referring to effectively managed up to ten different accounts on the BBN thread and still managed to reply every mention. But if you're wondering about it, maybe you aren't him. It's alright, have your fun.

seems you know him/her so well,..

excanny:
We are dark because of where we live and the ever shining sun.

If we failed as a people, its due to our own attitude, not the colour of our skin.

you mean , black race do like lighter skin, and it has nothing to do with imitating white race.

well, other races also like lighter skin.

and generally speaking, your race is the most dark race, and naturally, as a body, you are despised by other races, same as you despise darker people in black race.

what can you say about this ?

bot101:
In truth, I will actually be grossly uncivilized to debate with this kind of mind. Just imagine debating with a/an ....

you don't even know how to debate. you have no patience, no open mindedness, no eloquence, no intelligence.....

Franzinni:
you are right... Only from a mad man's perspective...

Do you know what rape is? Well if only you do or know someone close that do... You won't be trolling like this unless...

You are a. Rapist and enjoy your bad habits....

And if the latter is the case...

Karma is at your door.

ok, rape could be a bad thing.

but let us put it in this way : suppose a rape case has happened, is it morally wrong for that "victim" boy to marry a girl ?

LordOfNaira:
Are you gay

I know so many things .

browse me threads, what I do not know ?!

LordOfNaira:
Stop posting sh1t!!!

don't post any pugilist photo, there are disproportionally too many gay among pugilists

MrBrownJay1:
Was about to reply this garbage until I saw the name of the OP......

it is lucky you know your position. be humble wherever I am .

bot101:
Some things really shouldn't go beyond the "what an interesting thought" level. You should learn to not type every rubbish you think up.

and , finally, don't you tell me , you poo on this thread, just after you read the title ! there are 1000 words after that !!

bot101:
Some things really shouldn't go beyond the "what an interesting thought" level. You should learn to not type every rubbish you think up.

actually , I know many parts of my reasons could be debatable, that is why I wrote them in this way. I welcome debate.

bot101:
Some things really shouldn't go beyond the "what an interesting thought" level. You should learn to not type every rubbish you think up.

I have divided my reasons to 10 points, which point do you think wrong ? why don't you challenge me and debate with me ? be a civilized man and act like one.

MostBanned:
Go Fuuuck Yourself OP

your ID is "mostbanned" ?

are you kidding ? you are so conservative and traditional. you are born to be fit to this backward forum, which is full of bigotry.

it is I who should risk being banned, by bravely and open-mindedly posting threads like this !

Jacksparr0w127:
I think people need to ignore you're threads. Commenting on your thread is feeding you

thanks for your victual.

MostBanned:
Go Fuuuck Yourself OP

you have finished my long post within 40 seconds ?

wow, your reading skill is not bad

hope my long lecture will not deter many lazy readers

but it is also a good thing, I hate lazy stupid readers

concerning black men, there is a saying "once black ,never back" ; concerning husband-and-wife, in Japan(by the way, I am not a Japanese), there is "once husband-and-wife, forever husband-and-wife" .

rape is a bad thing, gay rape could be worse. however ,

1) a boy, younger than 15 years old, can not shape his sex orientation yet. a gay could help him to shift and settle to be a gay. if he grows up to 25 , and is forced to marry a girl , it could be a worse sin to him. for he loves men only.

2) everyone who has sex experience (I mean going inside the hole), would understand, at that moment, no matter by what way, both parties are experiencing true love. what makes rape a bad thing ? it is because, in a rape, such a true love will end within 2 minutes , not because rape causes pain or any other superficial reasons.

3) in another word, if rapist can marry the "victim", true love will succeed. rape could be a good thing. it denotes the passion and gallantry, which have been eulogized by so many poems and novels.

4) sometimes I even think, polygamy is a good thing too. it gives men's passion a legalized way to deal with.

5) back to the point : even during the gay rape, there is true love. and human beings are supposed to have 1 true love in their life time. how can a boy, who gives his true love to a gay rapist, will marry a girl when he is a grown-up ?

6) that boy's hole belongs to the rapist forever .

7) that boy is suspected to be potentially a gay, and he is not suitable to have a female wife.

a man being used and to use another body, this is disgusting .

9) what will that girl think, if she knows he has been used by a gay ?

10) although that boy has not been indentured to that rapist by a piece of <marriage certificate> , they(the boy and the rapist) are indentured by God, when that motion and thrust is being on.

excanny:
We are dark because of where we live and the ever shining sun.

If we failed as a people, its due to our own attitude, not the colour of our skin.

since your race like fair skin that much , you choose girls with fair skin to be stars, you prefer people with fairer skin to people with darker skin, then, don't you ever feel ill-treated, if other whiter races treat you badly.

M2dX:
All i see was fat womens

they are pretty, young, rich, famous, with fair skin, they are the bunch of people who you call stars.

excanny:
Some of them are born with a lighter complexion, not all bleach their skin.

For me, the darker the better. Just be smart,the colour mean nothing .

there is nothing wrong to be born with a lighter skin color. but why a certain society allows its most celebrities to be people with lighter skin only ? while that society says, the color means nothing , at the same time. isn't this hypocritical ?

funmisticqueen:
is rihanna, megan good, jennifer lopez white? the answer to that question is the answer to what race the ladies' pictures you uploaded belongs.

are these international celebrities ? If so, they are cultivated in white man's land. they have nothing to do with you.

I don't know whether these international celebrities wish to be whiter or not . I don't know whether their fans wish them to be whiter or not , either.

but I can see, in Africa, celebrities , those who are leading the fashion, who are shaping the aesthetical point of view, are trying to appear whiter, and the common African people, are more willing to see their celebrities to appear whiter.

RaggedyAnn:
You remind me of someone.............a catalyst for irritation but someone you can't hold a grudge for.......Maybe you're him, maybe you're not. He usually goes by monikers incorporating wild animals. He's also ever present online, all hours of the day, and riles people up for his personal entertainment.......and he has a very similar obsession with beauty.....

Hmmmm....

Re: Are These White Women Beautiful ? by ThisCouldBeUs: 1:17pm

You Nairalanders should stop acting like fo@ls by replying this faceless person. OP is a Nigerian and one of those jobless people commenting on every thread in this section
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if I am whoever you say, how can I have time to speak by using another account ? I am regarded to be so busy , commenting on every thread by using this account.

excanny:
Some of them are born with a lighter complexion, not all bleach their skin.

For me, the darker the better. Just be smart, the colour mean nothing.

seems you are the few eccentric among African people.

if everyone thinks "the darker the better" , how come such a predominant proportion of whitish black celebrities ?

ThisCouldBeUs:
You Nairalanders should stop acting like fo@ls by replying this faceless person. OP is a Nigerian and one of those jobless people commenting on every thread in this section. How would you have digged up those Nigeria celebrity pictures if you are not conversant with them. Keep playing on people's intelligence.

you had better teach them how to reply me. see how foolish you are.

on one side, you say black skin is beautiful.

on the other side, your elites , your dignitaries, your celebrities, all put on white powders to make themselves to be whiter, when in public.

and you worship these white skin worshipers.

excanny:
Fool, can't you see they still have negroid features? There are varied shades of skin tones among sub Saharan Africans.

it is I that should say ""fool" to you black guys.

it is you who worship these fake whites.

they are your celebrities. they are trying to be whiter, to be closer to white race. they and you , both , think, the whiter the better.

I ridicule such a foolish idea.

African Fools, can't you see they still have negroid features?

Omagago:
So them be white

1) they regard themselves to be whiter

2) you guys regard them to be whiter

3) I, a white woman, ridicule all these black celebrities, who are trying hard to imitate white people